Nur: Jazaka Allah bro, I am sorry I haven't been much of a sport lately, I have started work again and it takes most of my time (12-16hrs) aday. But inshallah I shall post as I read more..but Wanted to share this with you: Without doubt We shall test you until We know those who struggle and are patient among you, and make clear your news. MUHAMMAD (47:31) Everytime I am faced with obstacle I read this, and some how relieves my doubts and frustations taking it as a test from Allah SWT.

Wow! Isn't it amazing how the eye can decieve us? Most people when u ask them who do u think is strong, they definitely define a woman who doesn't fight back as a weak woman and one who is aggresive as a strong one... but I guess time tells . Thanks suga babe...see u soon.

Hey that is my hometown.. I was too skeptical to go there when i first time went to the Lands... Thnx Fry for giving me the hope... I will definitely go there....next time i head for SLands!

Dhalasho muu qabaabo my friend TUUTUUJIYE..........maanshallah.....Macalinka ugaaska weyn hambalo balaaran aan kuu soo diray. Hadii aan ogaan lahaa... earlier.. waxaan kuu soo diri lahaa 10 pax Tiramisu, Hambalyo for the trilioned time.... Mac Mac....Happy BIG BIRTHDAY.

Wijigiisa maka taqaanaa bakeele bac ku jiro bbc dhageysanaayo Wijigiisa maka taqaanaa wariiri wees qaadanaayo Wijigiisa maka taqaanaa baranbaro baasto karineyso continue folks!

^^^^ I don't think there is any job out there that is more important than bringing your child up. FF: I didn't say don't agree with me, all i am saying is, i am entitled to my own opinion as well so don't attack me... simple suga gurl!

Zulfa: I watched that program and still in shock, given that Middle East is so diversed culturally as well as facilities... but Oprah just is as baised as any american. BUt then being a member of her discussion group I gave her a piece of my mind!

Hibaad, maybe you should begin a topic with a different story instead of yapping sis... did that occur? Ah I almost forgot the spoon of LOVE

Layzie: All i was gonna say has been said by Hibaad But let me add one thing, my mom is a doctor she has been working even before she married my dad, but when I talk to her, she regrets it, saying she has taken alot of the responsibility off my dad's back. Which is soooo true. She solves all the problems of the house landing her even the nickname " Kiyaabo Ingiriis" The English screw driver and she doesn't get to rest. Now where is the role of the father....so all she tells me is, if u can help it stack ur degree somewhere For future use, if need rises , and do your God assigned role, " be a mom". FF I see everything u write in SOL is about impressing someone, that ain't the case with me honey. I say wat I feel. Simple & Clear. And about attacking folks, well experience dictates it that way, won't u say?

Dawaco: U r talking about those that did their deed back home, how about those we habor whom we have seen wat they do? They kill someone, lets hide them from the authorities till we can smuggle them out of the country. I have met a guy here who killed two men in Canada. He was walking around free, and still has the guts to scream, yell and even start fights with other decent people on the streets, now u tell me wat are we doing about those?? I am sick down 2 my pit, coz we somalis are hypocrites, speaking of bring a lost case down to justice and helping another escape. First talk and do something about the area in which u livein, then come back for the distant home.

I think gaalos are finally finding out what Islam did 1400 yrs ago. It is tru if the wife stayed at home, and the husband worked believe me he earns more. Not in the sense that there will be more zeros added to his salary, but the barak of the whole thing. I have a friend of mine. He got married when he didn't want to, saying that he wasn't established well enough to provide for his family. He earned just $2500 per month. That wasn't enough. Guess wat?? When he married his wife, he says he has been saving more than he had as a bachelor. Plus, if my husband tell me, Hibo I will feed u, cloth you, and baby treat you well if u just stay at home... I would man. 2 hrs of labor for an 8 hrs pay. Hell i will take it. And all the feminist wannabes,, save ur breathes.. we all know the truth. Maybe when u have children a little hardwork kicks in, but as new wives... u barely do anything.

Hey Kynda Where did u get that BS from huhn? Wat are u saying we are on sale on tape? Sista please.... U r so right walaahi ... I couldn't believe it when I found out

Out of all your suggestions.... one really worked Heading back to bed Am seriously I just slept and that did it. Zephy: I can relate to that. I have started work again after a month off coz of my broken foot...and now I can barely finish the shift walaahi... waa dalacay, I forgot the pressue of the kitchen.. and I am just tired by the 2nd hr

^^^^ Waxa ku qalajiyey waa isku dirka.. iska daa... OG Moti: U know u r my homie....don't let silly gurls... manipulate us will ya

Bambina: Unless u tell all the women who have attended the party that they can't take the tape out of your house, there is no guarantee huno. Remember some of these women chew qaad as well... and the men they chew with are watching you once u give out that tape. So I really don't see the point in having a woman tape it anyways. If u having problems with the video thingy... be alert and watch out for the lens.

Kale: U r so right sis but u have it all backwards... UD lost it coz the case has been rested

One thing that really crosses my mind everytime I think of somali families is, why is the father missing out on the family get togethers? I mean here in UAE, everytime I go outside, I see familes strolling on the magnificent gardens. I see fathers playing with kids. If I ever see a somali is, two women walking. How come we don't have that bond? How come Somali men loose their interest in taking their wives out, given that at the time of courting all he looked forward to was the day he was gonna take her out? She is yours now, legally, so why not romance up your lives? Why not take her for a date or share a walk with her outside the house?

UD: If u sinned u don't have a right to point fingers or stigmatize anyone walaalo.... I am not saying its ok to commit sin, but what i am saying is, we as human beings should forgive someone for sinning after they have repented... Do you know " Towbah" and its value in Islam???

Conspiracy... waa dhimatay ma noolid... Pink boxers... damn.. talk about being obssessed drag king

Maybe a seminar should be held for the mothers to show them how to handle their children and still come to the events, without being offensive. I am sure if u speak to them they will understand.. or as my brotha MMA said, provide play ground and ababy sitters!

Can I join.?. I read the quran 2 hrs every afternoon...The feelings I get are overwhelming.. I wont mind sharing with my brothers & sisters wat has moved me.

Originally posted by underdog: quote: By many gurls I know. girl, What kind of company are you keeping? There is this distant relative of mine, who have done all the men in the world, name any nationality and she did him, is now a religious preacher and the mother of 4 children. The happiness in her house can relatively be compared to heaven. Hibo, even a broken clock is right twice a day. and it sounds to me like you're condoning the behaviour - "Do whatever you want, you can repent later"... Would it be too wrong to assume the people with skeletons in thier closets are the ones who are against this sharing of information? Wouldn't want a 'leaked memo' tarnishing the 'Ms. sweet & innocent"/ "Mr. Decent and honourable" image that they spent all this energy fronting. P.S. Smilez is on the job with that men to avoid list U c u r already being judgemental. I am not condoning anyone's sins.. but who am I to make judgements? When Allah SWT can accept and forgive when one repents.. why can't we tiny human beings do the same? I don't distant myself from gurls who have been prostitutes or bad people, simply because they made mistakes... We r human beings and we r bound to cross the borders sometimes...but when they change their ways, and start to be better people I think society should accept them and forgive them. UD, since u r acting like a brotha who is sinless, can u safely say that u have never slept with a woman u were not married to? And To the so called, " Society Judges" wat makes it ok for unmarried boyfriend/gurlfriends to share beds and a taboo for a sister or a brotha who did it for the sake of money?

GeelJire: Ilaaheey waxa uu ceynba ceyn nooga dhigay waa ha is cajebiyeen.. hadii kelinimo door la bidi karo, waa hore ayaa rag ama dumar badani kiishash lacaga kilkilaha gashan la haayeen... Marka... companionship waa balaayo aan laga maarmin.. ee nafta aad beenta u sheegeysid ka daa huuno... Smilez: Its not my agency.......its OUR AGENCY

Originally posted by underdog: quote: The cliche you cant turn a .... into a housewife, has been proven wrong Proven wrong by who??? By many gurls I know. There is this distant relative of mine, who have done all the men in the world, name any nationality and she did him, is now a religious preacher and the mother of 4 children. The happiness in her house can relatively be compared to heaven. So you can change any woman into wat u want, all it takes is determination and a whole lot of love. And since u r out watching for your brothers, UD, why don't u watch out for your sisters as well, and list all the men to avoid at all times??

Not a day goes by and I don't have a DeJa Vu.. those who know me call it bizarre... With me its more likely that I will remember your fone number than your name... think of weirdo!