i have always been wondering what would the the best day be like, and to behonest dont' seem to have a day, coz i seem to be doing samething each and every day and dont' know how to do little copration about my dail routine and i hope that you all gonna give me some tips to have a best day. here goes i wake up 5am every morning pray go to the kitchen cook fresh breakfast for my husband before he goes to work, after that i go to the gym work out to stay fit na'mean. i come back home take a shower get ready to go to school, leave the house by 8am get to class and so forth. leave school 3pm come back home, cook dinner and make it ready before my husband comes home, with that cleaning and so on, seems like is never ending. and making sure that i study or do homework before my man get home coz once he gets home wooooooooooooow no need to know info i guess i will consider that the unknow time of the day. so iguess that is how my day goes every day of the week. and for the weekend i mean is time to do the laundary and revrasing the house and so forth, and going out watching movies or going to the beach, thank god i live in California coz mos the other stated people don't seem to know what beach is like. any way my question is that back when i was single i thought i had more fun than now coz all back then i use to do was hang out have fun and with my punch of other friends but now it seems that the 24 hour is so small to do the things that i use to do, i dont' know why i gues something must have changed in me coz being responsible i guess is #1 on the least and all the other staff will come next, hopefully inshallah. any way let me know something that i can spice up my day and make more elabrate then it is.

every body have their own perspective way of approaching things differently, and in the modern era that we are in i thing age doesnt' matter, coz age is nothing but a number you feel me. so to be honest with you all i wouldn't wana be with someone who could end up being the same age as my dad that is so discusting na'mean. but yeah for me it would be 3 years max. coz my husband is 2 years older than me which most of you would say oh yeah whatever, he is 23 and i am 21, dont' ask me how we end up together and married, but is just an example.

i thought i would share this i had this song played on my wedding day, so it was special to me i thought i would shar it. it is by Boys II to men and is called TRYING TIMES Baby I'm so glad you're here 'Cause I have so many things II tell you So many things II talk II you about 'Cause you're the strength I hold onto And I hope I'm the strength that you hold onto So we can strive together and be perfect Til' death do us part The night's gone the morning's here And soon it's time II talk about Where we stand and where we plan II be in life long years I need II know I keep crying tears of joy I guess that's what you're put here for II change these tears of pain II tears of happiness CHORUS: Through those trying times Trying II get the best of me I'm still finding time II show I care With my crying eyes I see contentment because of you Trials and tribulations build up walls In front of faces made of stone Yet we stand strong enough II break the walls down II journey on But I know if we just bond our hearts There will be nothing that will stand in our way And we'll be together forever and a day

Originally posted by Yeniceri: [QB] Originally posted by haldhaa: still don't have an answer Are men Human? Qoftaan korontadaa waa hore ka tagtay. the word love it basicly defines it self, so if you have seen a marriage that fail before it doesn't mean mine will be the samething, ok. so dont' judge book by its cover. and for your information get the meaning of love and see it for your self.

i dont' know if you are being dumb or what not, ofcourse all man kind fall in love, including animals and so on. so really to answer your question yeah they do, and speaking of that me and my husband dated for about years and got married couple month ago, so if he didnt' love me i gues he wouldn't got marry at all you see what am saying, so man just have their way of expressing love, and inorder to get that love you have to compromise and seek thier attention, and speaking

woow pple i have to let you guys know that getting married may seem to be something hard but when you are in love and you want to do any thing god that is the best thing ever walahi. any way i am newly wed and the most thing that i enjoy is getting up early in the morning my husband making doing the breakfast eating together and playing each with the food how nice is thatn na'mean. yeah coming back home asking each others how was their day, comeon lets me honest who else would ask you that and give you big kiss on the forhead na'mean that is the best na'mean. eating dinner together puting each others mouth how wonderful is that to be honest is something that we all dream about na'mean. besides sitting on the table helping me with my homework, washing the dishes together, taking shower gosh cant' put words to that coz am so in love i gues, yeah waking up in his arms do nothing but hold each other tie and make love to each while never lasts na'mean. so the moral of this is i would recomend each and every one of you to get marry and feel the enjoyment of life na'mean being single isn't fun coz there is nothing to talk about other than this and that so forth but yeah when you are married got life, love and everying soroundings all together feel me pple. enjoy life while it lasts.

I had a dream that i never had in my intire life, and i never thought the dream would came true. let me just start telling you guys my dream; well i been with man for six years and we had our ups and down for quite while, however we choose to go different direction because you can say i couldnt' deal with drams had it enough, any way we haven't talked for 3 month and not seen each other at all. i had a dream him coming to me and saying to me that what he did to me wasn't somethign fair and he never thought he could have do something like that to me,and he start appologizing to me, and i gues i accepted that on my dreams but yeah. he asked me if i would go out with him just for one night and he would never asked me anything, i said ok through the dreams, but any way i woke up i have no clue what happen next, but any way he up to me that day told me that i said cool, however there was a twist to the story his parents along with him porpose to me to accept an engagement and my parents my brothers, and sister, along with my cousines and uncles were there i didnt know because i just came from work at that time and i never though there would be a punch of people in house i was hella tire all i was thinking that point was to take shower and sleep; however i didnt' what to say when i saw that i was in shock the whole intire time, i know you all are wondering if i accept that, it took me long amount of time to do because all i was thinking about was how he did to me but yeah i did accepted but we are not engaged yet it will on next week inshallah nov. 25th.2005. now am the happiest person i can ever be, an about to graduate from school to get my degree withing two semestres iinsha allah for Biochemistry, and about to build family can't be more than happy than that, all i think of each and every minutes of my life is thank allah, and appreciate my parents. well any way i want to ask each and everyone who is reading this a blessing from you.

I had a dream that i never had in my intire life, and i never thought the dream would came true. let me just start telling you guys my dream; well i been with man for six years and we had our ups and down for quite while, however we choose to go different direction because you can say i couldnt' deal with drams had it enough, any way we haven't talked for 3 month and not seen each other at all. i had a dream him coming to me and saying to me that what he did to me wasn't somethign fair and he never thought he could have do something like that to me,and he start appologizing to me, and i gues i accepted that on my dreams but yeah. he asked me if i would go out with him just for one night and he would never asked me anything, i said ok through the dreams, but any way i woke up i have no clue what happen next, but any way he up to me that day told me that i said cool, however there was a twist to the story his parents along with him porpose to me to accept an engagement and my parents my brothers, and sister, along with my cousines and uncles were there i didnt know because i just came from work at that time and i never though there would be a punch of people in house i was hella tire all i was thinking that point was to take shower and sleep; however i didnt' what to say when i saw that i was in shock the whole intire time, i know you all are wondering if i accept that, it took me long amount of time to do because all i was thinking about was how he did to me but yeah i did accepted but we are not engaged yet it will on next week inshallah nov. 25th.2005. now am the happiest person i can ever be, an about to graduate from school to get my degree withing two semestres iinsha allah for Biochemistry, and about to build family can't be more than happy than that, all i think of each and every minutes of my life is thank allah, and appreciate my parents. well any way i want to ask each and everyone who is reading this a blessing from you.

hey i want thank you all and i realy appricaite yo all taking the time to give me a feek back for the situation that i am in, butta i get a lot of good things from yo all, even though i take a wrong path to solve my situation i still thank each of you who gave me their honest opinion so thanx again.

hey guys i am realy in a deep situation that i want to ask you guys and what you thing of this situation that i am struggling with. to start with well i have been with some one for long amount of time and before that we have known each other about 17years now and we have been relationship for about 6years now, and now it has gone to point were we argue every second, and it's been realy hard for me for the past couple month because we promised each other in the name of allah that we will be family oneday as soon as we finish school. Now he graduated and have his degree on the other hand i have 3semesters to go as is for me, any way in the past couple month he has been pushing me so hard to get to marry him and he promised me that he will help me whatever necesary for me to finish school and earn my degree which is fine with me but i have done alot of research with people who is married or are family told me that it is very hard to persue your education and keep family together, so what do you guys think of this. Should i broke my promise and as well with relationship that i am in, or should i go for my education and go in seprate roads, or what should you guys advise me as a sister?

salam sis. as you confirmed that if you can pray every were you want but you don't know at mean time were to fice. as you know that allah subxanahu wataalla said surah al baqra(fa'ayna matuwalow fathama wajhulaah, which it means every were you face is allah way that it tells you can pray every tiem) remember that the mecca is allways faced in south, which at same time i can wrong. also as you mention that if we can eat in Mc.donald, oh yeah we still have complication is going on i don't know. but in the quran allah mentioned we can eat ahlul kitab staff. by the way don't get granted what i just write for you but follow allah way.

Lakers are the only best team on NBA. Coz they disappointed this year that doesn't mean they loose for life. i mean Lakers is the only team a team coz they are my home team besides they got the best player in NBA. 3 straight years of wining the chapionship, and now that they lost because they didn't have RICK FOX that is why but the thing is they still havecance to win for next years. LAKERS FOR LIFE, AND IS THE ONLY ONE I CONSIDER TEAM.

You look at me and call me oppressed, Simply because of the way I'm dressed, You know me not for what's inside, You judge the clothing I wear with pride, My body's not for your eyes to hold, You must speak to my mind, not my feminine mold, I'm an individual, I'm no mans slave, It's Allahs pleasure that I only crave, I have a voice so I will be heard, For in my heart I carry His word, " O ye women, wrap close your cloak, So you won't be bothered by ignorant folk", Man doesn't tell me to dress this way, It's a Law from God that I obey, Oppressed is something I'm truly NOT, For liberation is what I've got, It was given to me many years ago, With the right to prosper, the right to grow, I can climb moutains or cross the seas, Expand my mind in all degrees, For God Himself gave us LIB-ER-TY, When He sent Islam, To You and Me!

hell no king, they are loosers, yo na'mean. any way Laker, won straight three years. go LAKERS GO!! I LIVE IN LOS ANGLES, CALIFORNIA I AM WITH LAKERS

hell yeah i would let him marry and kiss her anus too. men suppost marry 4 wives not only me, even though here in usa they can't do that. i wouldn't marry 2 wives at some time yo na'em mean guys. i mean i love guys no matter what is their race or nationality. i would get long with them. i love all the guys!!!!!!!!!

HEY PPLE I JUST WANT ASK YO GUYS IF YO CAN KISS YO BOY FRIEND. WALAALAYAAL ANIGA WAXAAN AHAY GABAR SOOMALI AH, OO DAGAN USA, SO I HAVE BEEN IN LOVE FOR 4 YEARS AND 6 MONTH, I KISS MY BOY FRIEND IN FRONT OF SOMAAALI PPLE, SO EVEN THOUGH I GET USE TO IT. ANY WHY DO SOMAALI PPLE WORRY ABOUT THOES KIND SHIT, EVEN THOGH THW=EY ARE NOT THIER BISINESS. ANY WAY IS IT OK TO KISS YO BOY FRIEND INFRONT OF SOMALI PPLE. WHY OR WHY NOT?

pple i just want ask yo guys if yo can stop love that last 4 years, and what should i do stop, i been trying to stop but it wouldon't work for me so what should i do pple. i told my b/f to leave me alone that and i did show him that the topic, so i don't know what to do, he is crying and he told me that he will never broke up with me? so help plezzzz

pple thanx for the comment. what i am saying is i didn't know that yo all will tell yo samething, man, any way somali guys are suck yo know what i mean.? hope so i will make my disicion.

pple thanc for the coment, what saying is i already made my dicision yo na'mean, any way i consider my self to study and have the best life to have in this world, any way what saying is he is muslim 100% and as i told yo guys we have been a while together, insha allah i will make my choise again, and he is the only one i have ever met in my life since i was little girl, besides that we use to live in same place, any way that is it i can say thanx pple.

hey pple i just wnat ask yo guys can somali girl marry black american, what i mean was that i am in love with black guy and we have been together in about 3years and half, and i know that that my parent won't let get long with him, because of our culture. he is the only guy i have ever met with, not only love and every thing else, he even help me my home work, and he boughte me a car, so every time he asked me if i can get marry him so what can i do with him should i say yes or say no and follow my parents, plezzz what can i do. i am not a little girl i am in university of california. mmy age is 19. so plezzz answer my questions. thanx pple.

as a personal, i like to go to the rest room and kick back over there, and chill with him and do what eve yo guys can do, not to go romantic place yo na'mean. what saying is true nevetheles, go with a guy in there

hey wazz up my pple. i just want to ask you that why are we so strict to guys is any one have an idea? if so why?

that ain't funny we all skinny dude if yo ethopia and over weight go and loose some pounds, have wonder ful day ? ------------------ cool