Lol! Wow! I'm starting to think my dating standards are too low! Damn y'all have a lot of rules. For me it's like this, if the guy is clean(I'm talking head to toe clean not just perfume on dirt) and he can pay for himself( yeah thats right, I don't like freeloaders) then it's all good, let the good times roll!

I'm not going pretend that I have all the answers, but I do have an opinion and that is what you're looking for after all. So here it is, DON'T DO IT! My sister, I have no doubt that you are a beautiful girl, but beauty only lasts so long. If you disregard everything your parents and Islam have ever taught you in order to enter the modeling business, I guarantee that you will regret it later, I don't speak from experience, but it is simple logic. In the end, you will be shunned by your community because you will be seen as a sell out because as you already know, it is xaram. You need to exceed people's physical expectations and show them that yes, you are good looking, but you are so much more than that otherwise people will look down on you your whole life. So sweetie from one Somali girl to another, all I can say is use the brain that Allah gave you and do him and your people proud. I wish you all the best.

I'm only 19, and am definately NOT thinking about marriage. I'll get married when Allah sees fit for me to get married, until then, I'm just chillin as always living and enjoying the single life. If you rush it, you won't be happy, and you can't do it for your parents or grandparents, you've got to do it for you, because they don't have to live with your husband/wife, you do, and if you marry someone you don't know that well, misery will ensue. Y'all need to chill, don't sweat it, if it was meant to happen, it'll happen. Later peops.

As long as my man and I end up married at the end, I don't care what the wedding is like. I'd rather save money than end up broke after a ridiculously expensive wedding. Just a thought.

I'm not going to lie, i like the good looking brothers, however, if he is unable to hold an intelligent conversation then all is lost. I'm an educated girl, I don't think it is too much to ask for me to be with an educated guy. I'm not a fan of the pretty boys though, my man should not use more beauty products than me!

Mohamed, I've got nothing but love for my respectful and intelligent brothers. Any girl would be lucky to have you. And to Shawty, girl you've got the right idea, what goes around does come around and if he's trying to play, his ass is going to get played. Much love to my beautiful peops.

Mohamed, I've got nothing but love for my respectful and intelligent brothers. Any girl would be lucky to have you. And to Shawty, girl you've got the right idea, what goes around does come around and if he's trying to play, his ass is going to get played. Much love to my beautiful peops.

Mohamed, I've got nothing but love for my respectful and intelligent brothers. Any girl would be lucky to have you. And to Shawty, girl you've got the right idea, what goes around does come around and if he's trying to play, his ass is going to get played. Much love to my beautiful peops.

Mohamed, I've got nothing but love for my respectful and intelligent brothers. Any girl would be lucky to have you. And to Shawty, girl you've got the right idea, what goes around does come around and if he's trying to play, his ass is going to get played. Much love to my beautiful peops.

I believe in order for your man to "check" you before marriage, he has to have your consent, and if you are a classy and concious somali/muslim girl, then he won't be checking anything but groceries at the supermarket. Just a little dose of my logic. Peace.

I believe in order for your man to "check" you before marriage, he has to have your consent, and if you are a classy and concious somali/muslim girl, then he won't be checking anything but groceries at the supermarket. Just a little dose of my logic. Peace.

I believe in order for your man to "check" you before marriage, he has to have your consent, and if you are a classy and concious somali/muslim girl, then he won't be checking anything but groceries at the supermarket. Just a little dose of my logic. Peace.

I believe in order for your man to "check" you before marriage, he has to have your consent, and if you are a classy and concious somali/muslim girl, then he won't be checking anything but groceries at the supermarket. Just a little dose of my logic. Peace.

First of all, you need to ask yourself this: Do you really want to get married? Because if you don't then don't do it. Secondly, if you want your ex back, you have to be honest with him, because if you don't start your new relationship on the right foot it will never work out. I don't want to judge you because I don't know you, but I hope that now you have a little more respect for yourself and your ex, because if you don't then you will end up doing the same things you did before, the cheating and whatnot. So my advice is stay true and everything will work out. I hope it goes well for you. Peace.

First of all, you need to ask yourself this: Do you really want to get married? Because if you don't then don't do it. Secondly, if you want your ex back, you have to be honest with him, because if you don't start your new relationship on the right foot it will never work out. I don't want to judge you because I don't know you, but I hope that now you have a little more respect for yourself and your ex, because if you don't then you will end up doing the same things you did before, the cheating and whatnot. So my advice is stay true and everything will work out. I hope it goes well for you. Peace.

First of all, you need to ask yourself this: Do you really want to get married? Because if you don't then don't do it. Secondly, if you want your ex back, you have to be honest with him, because if you don't start your new relationship on the right foot it will never work out. I don't want to judge you because I don't know you, but I hope that now you have a little more respect for yourself and your ex, because if you don't then you will end up doing the same things you did before, the cheating and whatnot. So my advice is stay true and everything will work out. I hope it goes well for you. Peace.

First of all, you need to ask yourself this: Do you really want to get married? Because if you don't then don't do it. Secondly, if you want your ex back, you have to be honest with him, because if you don't start your new relationship on the right foot it will never work out. I don't want to judge you because I don't know you, but I hope that now you have a little more respect for yourself and your ex, because if you don't then you will end up doing the same things you did before, the cheating and whatnot. So my advice is stay true and everything will work out. I hope it goes well for you. Peace.

It all comes down to respect. First and foremost respect yourself, because if you do that then you'll get nothing but respect from others. Second, you can't keep thinking negatively about all Somali girls, not all of us are bad. You just had bad experiences, but all you have to do is try again, I'm sure one day you will find your queen. And for all my sisters, you all need to realize that not all the brothers are bad too. It is true that a lot of them are players(or think they are), but you have to pick and choose, you can't just settle for anyone you know? Same thing goes for the guys, make sure your girl is respectable, if she is then you won't be disappointed. Much love to all my Somali people. Peace.

It all comes down to respect. First and foremost respect yourself, because if you do that then you'll get nothing but respect from others. Second, you can't keep thinking negatively about all Somali girls, not all of us are bad. You just had bad experiences, but all you have to do is try again, I'm sure one day you will find your queen. And for all my sisters, you all need to realize that not all the brothers are bad too. It is true that a lot of them are players(or think they are), but you have to pick and choose, you can't just settle for anyone you know? Same thing goes for the guys, make sure your girl is respectable, if she is then you won't be disappointed. Much love to all my Somali people. Peace.

It all comes down to respect. First and foremost respect yourself, because if you do that then you'll get nothing but respect from others. Second, you can't keep thinking negatively about all Somali girls, not all of us are bad. You just had bad experiences, but all you have to do is try again, I'm sure one day you will find your queen. And for all my sisters, you all need to realize that not all the brothers are bad too. It is true that a lot of them are players(or think they are), but you have to pick and choose, you can't just settle for anyone you know? Same thing goes for the guys, make sure your girl is respectable, if she is then you won't be disappointed. Much love to all my Somali people. Peace.

It all comes down to respect. First and foremost respect yourself, because if you do that then you'll get nothing but respect from others. Second, you can't keep thinking negatively about all Somali girls, not all of us are bad. You just had bad experiences, but all you have to do is try again, I'm sure one day you will find your queen. And for all my sisters, you all need to realize that not all the brothers are bad too. It is true that a lot of them are players(or think they are), but you have to pick and choose, you can't just settle for anyone you know? Same thing goes for the guys, make sure your girl is respectable, if she is then you won't be disappointed. Much love to all my Somali people. Peace.

Internet dating is just too risky. There are too many crazy people out there to trust.You set up a date and next thing you know your family is hearing about your death on the 6 oclock news. It's all good to meet new friends on the net, but boyfriends/girlfriends? Naw, I'd much rather get to know the person face to face. But I can't knock the people who have tried and succeeded, congratulations to them. What it all comes down to is different strokes for different folks, you do what works for you, but I wouldn't recommend it.

Internet dating is just too risky. There are too many crazy people out there to trust.You set up a date and next thing you know your family is hearing about your death on the 6 oclock news. It's all good to meet new friends on the net, but boyfriends/girlfriends? Naw, I'd much rather get to know the person face to face. But I can't knock the people who have tried and succeeded, congratulations to them. What it all comes down to is different strokes for different folks, you do what works for you, but I wouldn't recommend it.

Internet dating is just too risky. There are too many crazy people out there to trust.You set up a date and next thing you know your family is hearing about your death on the 6 oclock news. It's all good to meet new friends on the net, but boyfriends/girlfriends? Naw, I'd much rather get to know the person face to face. But I can't knock the people who have tried and succeeded, congratulations to them. What it all comes down to is different strokes for different folks, you do what works for you, but I wouldn't recommend it.

Internet dating is just too risky. There are too many crazy people out there to trust.You set up a date and next thing you know your family is hearing about your death on the 6 oclock news. It's all good to meet new friends on the net, but boyfriends/girlfriends? Naw, I'd much rather get to know the person face to face. But I can't knock the people who have tried and succeeded, congratulations to them. What it all comes down to is different strokes for different folks, you do what works for you, but I wouldn't recommend it.