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  1. perfect man and woman...ISLAM is way of life.. Ibraheem's
  2. sure can you compile some online...who are you waiting to do it for youuuuuuuuuuuu Ibraheeem's
  3. ....and did they ask themselves If ISLAM spread to JAPAN and malaysia and papua New Guinea by JIHAD..everubody who gets to know something about ISLAM ...straight goes for it... Ibraaaheem's
  4. Asalam aleykum OUR HOLY QURAAAAAAN SAYS: SURATUL BAQARA..02-255/256 'There is no compulsion in religion; truly the right way has become clearly distinct from error; therefore, whoever disbelieves in the Shaitan and believes in Allah he indeed has laid hold on the firmest handle, which shall not break off, and Allah is Hearing, Knowing'. This guys thinks we are forcing anybody in ISLAM...the Holy Quraan itself Testifies. Ibraheem's
  5. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- TO ALL MUSLIMS. Please read what this websites http://www.anti-cair-net.org/ http://allahpundit.com/ http://ahmed-mohammed.mindswap.net/ write about ISLAM in the USA and the way they want to CLIP islam growth in the USA.They are sending the letter to all SENATORS to complain the GROWTH OF ISLAM IN AMERICA. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is a letter that should be copied and sent to all American elected officials...INCLUDING BUSH.. +++++++++ Dear Senator (or whatever), We both know that I don't have to tell you what America is faced with regarding Islamism and Muslim terrorism. You must be at least as knowledgeable as I am as to its aims and ultimate consequences. Because of your political office, perhaps you know even more than I, and therefore maybe you are even more afraid than I am. In that regard, other than fear for your own personal safety at the hands of a Muslim intent on killing you for speaking up, why is it that no elected American officeholder has mentioned the separation between the United States Constitution and the book the Muslims use to guide their lives, actions and deeds, the Koran? The Koran REQUIRES Muslims to kill all non-Muslims, and in fact, terrorists themselves "say they are acting on the basis of the holy scripture of Islam. Accused 9/11 ringleader Mohammed Atta had a Koran in the suitcase he had checked for his flight. His five-page document of advice for fellow hijackers instructed them to pray, ask God for guidance, and 'continue to recite the Koran.' Osama bin Laden often quotes the Koran to motivate and convince followers. [Daniel Pipes]" Why has no lawyer argued before the Supreme Court that Islam is NOT a true 'religion' in America that needs to be protected any more than the 'religions' of David Koresh or Jim Jones? Koresh and Jones were running CULTS. Islam is nothing more than a cult, but because it has lasted for 1400 years people give it an air of validity. It is NOT a religion defined the way all humans living on this planet define religions EXCEPT for followers of Islam. No other religious order on Earth REQUIRES its adherents to murder, rape and behead people that will not convert to it. No other religious order on earth is killing non-members or ex-members. The Muslim GUIDE, the Koran, is antithesis to the US Constitution, and therefore it should be argued before the Court that Islam can be and SHOULD be outlawed in the United States. All of the things the United States holds dear that are guaranteed to its citizens through the Constitution would be ELIMINATED if Muslims were the ruling party in the United States. An organization that calls itself the largest Muslim organization in America is called the Council on American Islamic Relations (or CAIR). This organizations claims that it speaks for all Muslims living in America, and here is what the founders of CAIR have publicly stated: "Islam isn't in America to be equal to any other faiths, but to become dominant. The Koran, the Muslim book of scripture, should be the highest authority in America, and Islam the only accepted religion on Earth. [co-founder Omar Ahmad ]. How much more succinct could he have been? "... I'd like the government of the United States to be Islamic sometime in the future...[ibrahim Hooper, CAIR spokesman]. Another of their spokesman, Ghazi Khankan, said at a rally held in Washington DC: ""I bring to you salaams and greetings from the Mujahadeen at CAIR." At what point will the Supreme Court declare these people, these statements, and the book the people behind these statements look upon as THEIR Constitution as seditious, anti-American and a THREAT to the United States? It should not take a savvy attorney, arguing to the highest courts in America, very long to present the case that Islam should and must be banned in America. There are very many verses in the Koran that REQUIRE followers of Islam to overthrow ALL governments that are not Islamic; it should only take ONE of these verses for the Supreme Court justices to make their decision (not to mention the verses that REQUIRE Muslims to make war against ALL people until the entire Earth is Muslim and to KILL all who will not submit to Islam). Upon the enactment of the decree declaring that Islam is not a religion, followers of Islam could then be educated about the true aims of Islam (SOME Muslims aren't even aware of the ultimate goal their cult has) and given the opportunity to 'see the light' or leave the country. The cry "freedom of religion" would not stand in this case if the truth were argued in the court that Islam is NOT a religion. Once it is made public, passed into law and recognized that Islam is truly NOT a "religion" that should be afforded protection under America's laws, it will be that much easier to protect Americans from the final goals of worldwide Jihad and Islamism. At that time, organizations like CAIR would no longer exist (at least not legally) and the pressures that are placed on the media to whitewash the truth about Islam would disappear (especially those who TODAY are afraid to print the truth about Islam for fear of their lives. CNN and Reuters are on record recently claiming that they DO NOT tell the truth and HAVE NOT told the truth about Islam because they KNOW that their reporters would be killed by the followers of Islam.) Mr Senator, are YOU too afraid to make this case? Looking forward to hearing back from you, XXXXXXX CAN WE DO SOMETHING.....TO HELP EDUCATE OUR FREINDS IN THE WEST ABOUT ISLAM...NO WONDER ISLAM IS PASSING 7,000,000 MILLION MEMBERS IN THE USA ALONE.THEY HAVE SEEN THE TRUTH ALHAMDULILLAH. Ibraheeeeeems'
  6. Alhamdu-lillah Wassalatu Wassalamu Ala Rasoolillah Wa Man Walah ============================================================================== How to Make your Wife Happy To help strengthening the Muslim families and spread the teachings of Islam In building families, the Muslim Students' Association at the University of Alberta(canada) prepared a extremely summarized translation for two books. The books are Arabic by Sheikh Mohammad Abdelhaleem Hamed.An Egyptian scholar, who graduated from the Islamic University of AlMadinah Al-Munawwarah in Saudi Arabia. The two books are: 1- How to make your wife happy 2- How to make your husband happy These are the best Arabic books I have seen on this subject.They exceed the traditional presentation of stating rights and duties to the 'Adab (good manners) and extend into application of these rights in daily life. The following summary highlights mainly the responsibilities or examples of what could or should be done. Every single item mentioned by the author is supported by evidences from Qur'an, Sunnah or the actions of the companions, but evidences are omitted in this translation. The following is the translation of the FIRST book. This translation is copyrighted to MSA at University of Alberta. Feel free to repost it or reprint it by all means, provided that you do not make any changes, additions, or omissions without permission.E-mail dalahow1@yahoo.co.uk How to make your wife happy !! (Part 1) --------------------------------------- The following is part ONE of a summary of the book "How to make your wife happy" by Sheikh Mohammed Abdelhaleem Hamed. 1. Beautiful Reception After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you: * begin with a good greeting. * Start with Assalamau 'Aliaykum and a smile. Salam is a sunnah and a du'aa for her as well. * Shake her hand and leave bad news for later! 2. Sweet Speech and Enchanting Invitations * Choose words that are positive and avoid negative ones. * Give her your attention when you speak of she speaks. * Speak with clarity and repeat words if necessary until she understands. * Call her with the nice names that she likes, e.g. my sweet-heart,honey, saaliha, etc. 3. Friendliness and Recreation * Spend time talking together. * Spread to her goods news. * Remember your good memories together. 4. Games and Distractions * Joking around & having a sense of humor. * Playing and competing with each other in sports or whatever. * Taking her to watch permissible (halal) types of entertainment. * Avoiding prohibited (haram) things in your choices of entertainment. 5. Assistance in the Household * Doing what you as an individual can/like to do that helps out,especially if she is sick or tired. * The most important thing is making it obvious that he appreciates her hard work. 6. Consultation (Shurah) * Specifically in family matters. * Giving her the feeling that her opinion is important to you. * Studying her opinion carefully. * Be willing to change an opinion for hers if it is better. * Thanking her for helping him with her opinions. 7. Visiting Others * Choosing well raised people to build relations with.There is a great reward in visiting relatives and pious people.(Not in wasting time while visiting!) * Pay attention to ensure Islamic manners during visits. * Not forcing her to visit whom she does not feel comfortable with. 8. Conduct During Travel * Offer a warm farewell and good advice. * Ask her to pray for him. * Ask pious relatives and friends to take care of the family in your absence. * Give her enough money for what she might need. * Try to stay in touch with her whether by phone, e-mail, letters, etc.. * Return as soon as possible. * Bring her a gift! * Avoid returning at an unexpected time or at night. * Take her with you if possible. 9. Financial Support * The husband needs to be generous within his financial capabilities.He should not be a miser with his money (nor wasteful). * He gets rewards for all what he spends on her sustenance even for a small piece of bread that he feeds her by his hand (hadeith). * He is strongly encouraged to give to her before she asks him. 10. Smelling Good and Physical Beautification * Following the Sunnah in removing hair from the groin and underarms. * Always being clean and neat. * Put on perfume for her. 11. Intercourse * It is obligatory to do it habitually if you have no excuse (sickness,etc.) * Start with "Bismillah" and the authentic du'a. * Enter into her in the proper place only (not the anus). * Begin with foreplay including words of love. * Continue until you have satisfied her desire. * Relax and joke around afterwards. * Avoid intercourse during the monthly period because it haram * Do what you can to avoid damaging her level of Hiyaa (shyness and modesty) such as taking your clothes together instead of asking her to do it first while he is looking on. * Avoid positions during intercourse that may harm her such as putting pressure on her chest and blocking her breath, especially if you are heavy. * Choose suitable times for intercourse and be considerate as sometimes she maybe sick or exhausted. 12. Guarding Privacy * Avoid disclosing private information such as bedroom secrets, her personal problems and other private matters. 13. Aiding in the Obedience to Allah * Wake her up in the last third of the night to pray "Qiam-ul-Layl"(extra prayer done at night with long sujood and ruku'ua). * Teach her what you know of the Qur'an and its tafseer. * Teach her "Dhikr" (ways to remember Allah by the example of the prophet) in the morning and evening. * Encourage her to spend money for the sake of Allah such as in a charity sale. * Take her to Hajj and Umrah when you can afford to do so. 14. Showing Respect for her Family and Friends * Take her to visit her family and relatives, especially her parents. * Invite them to visit her and welcome them. * Give them presents on special occasions. * Help them when needed with money, effort, etc.. * Keep good relations with her family after her death if she dies first. Also in this case the husband is encouraged to follow the sunnah and keep giving what she used to give in her life to her friends and family. 15. (Islamic) Training & Admonition This includes * The basics of Islam * Her duties and rights * Reading and writing * Encouraging her to attend lessons and halaqahs * Islamic rules (ahkam) related to women * Buying Islamic books and tapes for the home library 16. Admirable Jealousy * Ensure she is wearing proper hijab before leaving house. * Restrict free mixing with non-mahram men. * Avoiding excess jealousy. Examples of this are: 1- Analyzing every word and sentence she says and overloading her speech by meanings that she did not mean 2- Preventing her from going out of the house when the reasons are just. 3- Preventing her from answering the phone. 4- etc. 17. Patience and Mildness * Problems are expected in every marriage so this is normal. What is wrong is excessive responses and magnifying problems until a marital breakdown? * Anger should be shown when she exceeds the boundaries of Allah SWT, by delaying prayers, backbiting, watching prohibited scenes on TV, etc.. * Forgive the mistakes she does to you (See item 18). How can you best correct her mistakes? 1- First, implicit and explicit advice several times. 2- Then by turning your back to her in bed (displaying your feelings). Note that this does not include leaving the bedroom to another room, leaving the house to another place, or not talking with her. 3- The last solution is lightly hitting (when allowable) her. In this case, the husband should consider the following: He should know that sunnah is to avoid beating as the Prophet PBUH never beat a woman or a servant. He should do it only in extreme cases of disobedience, e.g.refusing intercourse without cause frequently, constantly not praying on time, leaving the house for long periods of time without permission nor refusing to tell him where she had been,etc.. It should not be done except after having turned from her bed and discussing the matter with her as mentioned in Qur'an . He should not hit her hard injuring her, or hit her on her face or on sensitive parts of her body. He should avoid shaming her such as by hitting her with a shoe,etc. 18. Pardoning and Appropriate Censure * Accounting her only for larger mistakes. * Forgive mistakes done to him but account her for mistakes done in Allah's rights, e.g. delaying prayers, etc.. * Remember all the good she does whenever she makes a mistake. * Remember that all humans err so try to find excuses for her such as maybe she is tired, sad, having her monthly cycle or that her commitment to Islam is growing. * Avoid attacking her for the bad cooking of the food as the Prophet PBUH never blamed any of his wives for this. If he likes the food, he eats and if he doesn't then he does not eat and does not comment. * Before declaring her to be in error, try other indirect approaches that are more subtle than direct accusations * Escape from using insults and words that may hurt her feelings. * When it becomes necessary to discuss a problem wait until you have privacy from others. * Waiting until the anger has subsided a bit can help to keep a control on your words. Finally, please make Du'a for the writer; Sheikh Mohammad Abdelhaleem Hamed,for the translator brother Abu Talhah and for reviewer Br. Adam Qurashi. Remember this is not a perfect translation so forgive us our faults and correct our errors. Muslim Students' Association University of Alberta Edmonton, Canada February, 1999 Let me add one more verse in the HOLY QURAAN. ------------------------------------------------- Suratul hashr)Translation online can be found at the following link http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/quran/059.qmt.html 059.018 O you who believe! be careful of (your duty to) Allah, and let every soul consider what it has sent on for the morrow, and be careful of (your duty to) Allah; surely Allah is Aware of what you do. Ibraheeeeem's Back to Path to Islam ...
  7. I am paying now... Ibraheem's
  8. Asalam aleykum all. Thanks for your comments. I started the thread so that you judge yourselves how ISLAM is under a lot of threats and that you see for yourselves what it means when you don't know your own religion. ISLAM is wide and it takes care of all life.. http://www.jamaat.net/deedat.htm from man/woman, their relationship, marriage, divorce, neighbours, children, relatives, non-muslims,animals almost everything.. It is good to study islam under all areas..if someone doesn't know anything about ISLAM as concerns like AYAAN..she should have gone and researched on her own or better of ask a SHEEIKH..who knows Quraan or hadeeth more. ITS THE DUTY OF A MUSLIM MAN/WOMAN TO SEEK EDUCATION...prophet said. Now that she said i am not a muslim anymore can DUWACOW please tell us what she meant with ABUSE OF WOMEN IN ISLAM...did this lady try to make any sense..or did she want some popularity...coz she was not doing better in politics...people shouldn't confuse ISLAM with their various cultures..if you were abused personally..that doesn't mean that is the way of ISLAM... I posted those video links so that you see the lecturer who really understands ISLAM explaining to her WHAT ISLAM SAYS ALL ABOUT WOMEN...and because she got her points wrong at the wrong time...when any miscalculated anti-ISLAM statement is dealt with...she will see the TRUTH SOON..we pray and coz VAN GOGH's body was left with a notice of her name...may be then she is terrified..and that doesn't make the film popular anywayz...even the dutch themselves have shown it as nonsense...given the explanations the ISLAM SUPREME BODIES IN HOLLAND have given. So we post several threads like THE RIGHT OF MUSLIM WOMEN' here so that you see what our dear RELIGION has said to our beloved women... ------------------------------------------------ HOLY QURAAN CHAP61.007 And who is more unjust than he who forges a lie against Allah and he is invited to Islam, and Allah does not guide the unjust people. 61.008 They desire to put out the light of Allah with their mouths but Allah will perfect His light, though the unbelievers may be averse. 61.009 He it is Who sent His Messenger with the guidance and the true religion, that He may make it overcome the religions, all of them, though the polytheists may be averse. Ibraheem's
  9. asalam aleykum, In ISLAM, Ladies seem to enjoy more rights than their male peers.If the muslim women would have known their rights and is practised by all muslims..The worldly married life would have been happier and cases of divorce rates would have gone down. Can we do research in our religion thoroughly? Ibraheeem's
  10. walahi Real her face really changed...Dhibkaas maxaa ugeeystay marka hore...she put her mouth the wrong place... We still need some more comments about her...or do u so agreee with her.. Ibraheeeem's
  11. RendezVous

    Women..

    Between the ages of 16 and 18, she is like Africa, virgin and unexplored. Between the ages of 19 and 35, she is like Asia, hot and exotic. Between the ages of 36 and 45, she is like America, fully explored, breathtakingly beautiful, and free with her resources. Between the ages of 46 and 56 she is like Europe, exhausted but still has points of interest. After 56, she is like Australia, everybody knows it's down there but who gives a damn. Ibraheeeem's
  12. RendezVous

    Women..

    Between the ages of 16 and 18, she is like Africa, virgin and unexplored. Between the ages of 19 and 35, she is like Asia, hot and exotic. Between the ages of 36 and 45, she is like America, fully explored, breathtakingly beautiful, and free with her resources. Between the ages of 46 and 56 she is like Europe, exhausted but still has points of interest. After 56, she is like Australia, everybody knows it's down there but who gives a damn. Ibraheeeem's
  13. Ayaan hirsi the Non-Muslim who abused Prophet muhamed and the whole islamic religion is now in bad shape of her life because she talked of things she doesn't have knowledge of in ISLAM and she got a rude shock when Lecturers in ISLAM (MEN&WOMEN)at the Universities in Holland tackled her points about 'RIGHTS OF WOMEN IN ISLAM' head on. You can watch her naked film ..part of her body painted with The Holy Quraan...abusing ISLAM At http://www.novatv.nl/index.cfm?FUSEACTION=videoaudio.details&LN=nl&REPORTAGE_ID=2830 and http://www.novatv.nl/index.cfm?cfid=32648451&cftoken=14298678&ln=nl&fuseaction=biografieen.details&biografie_id=216 http://www.novatv.nl/index.cfm?cfid=32648451&cftoken=14298678&ln=nl&fuseaction=videoaudio.details&reportage_id=2830 LOOK AT THIS ***** WHO DOESN'T KNOW ISLAM TALKING ABOUT ISLAM what do our muslim ladiessay about this.. Ibraheeem's
  14. Khatar...I think we will have a lot of lecturers at the lafoole university.. Ibraheem's
  15. Khatar...I think we will have a lot of lecturers at the lafoole university.. Ibraheem's
  16. "Treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers." From the last sermon of Prophet Mohammed Ibraheem's
  17. BEST THINGS BEST....only on somaliaonline.com Go to the SOMALINET.COM and see how malis are wasting their time there...qabiil+evils+sex+HIV+antiIslam. The best thing in life is to know that you are always in a journey to the OTHER WORLD... Ibraheem's
  18. Most Mali women like to break the heart of their men for material reasons..is that what is called LOVE nowadays?and does that make a case for them. They again expect their beloved men to stress themselves to work them up from scratch..and when you be gone...makes them even molested... Who is molesting who?..RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER.. .................................................She uncovered herself and showed him her mount of Venus, vaulted like a cupola. Ibraheeem's
  19. READ THE FOLLOWING CHAPTERS CAREFULLY IN THE HOLY QURAAN...ALLAH SAYS YOU SHOULD PRAY BEFORE SUNRISE AND BEFORE IT SETS AND AFTER SETTING..AND AT NIGHTS...SURATUL TAHA...VERSES 130-132 130 Bear then patiently what they say, and glorify your Lord by the praising of Him before the rising of the sun and before its setting, and during hours of the night do also glorify (Him) and during parts of the day, that you may be well pleased 131 And do not stretch your eyes after that with which We have provided different classes of them, (of) the splendor of this world's life, that We may thereby try them; and the sustenance (given) by your Lord is better and more abiding 132 And enjoin prayer on your followers, and steadily adhere to it; We do not ask you for subsistence; We do give you subsistence, and the (good) end is for guarding (against evil). WHAT ELSE.......... Ibraheem's
  20. READ THE FOLLOWING CHAPTERS CAREFULLY IN THE HOLY QURAAN...ALLAH SAYS YOU SHOULD PRAY BEFORE SUNRISE AND BEFORE IT SETS AND AFTER SETTING..AND AT NIGHTS...SURATUL TAHA...VERSES 130-132 130 Bear then patiently what they say, and glorify your Lord by the praising of Him before the rising of the sun and before its setting, and during hours of the night do also glorify (Him) and during parts of the day, that you may be well pleased 131 And do not stretch your eyes after that with which We have provided different classes of them, (of) the splendor of this world's life, that We may thereby try them; and the sustenance (given) by your Lord is better and more abiding 132 And enjoin prayer on your followers, and steadily adhere to it; We do not ask you for subsistence; We do give you subsistence, and the (good) end is for guarding (against evil). WHAT ELSE.......... Ibraheem's
  21. WOMEN HAVE GREATER RIGHTS SPIRITUALLY BEFORE ALLAH S.W ...Concerning their preference and their position in paradise, they were given the preference over their husbands in this world and in the Hereafter. It was reported that Prophet Muhammad said: "Your mother, your mother and then your father, indeed paradise is under the feet of the mothers." please check this sister white islamic woman written on our beloved ISLAM. http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Parthenon/4482/articles.html ..................................... illustration worth your day busy chatting without remembrance of Allah s.w Ibraheem's
  22. It reminds me of the story of a white BLonde...who took a black guy from the club to do her at her house.. She told the Black man...'I want you to take me to my house, strip me nude, tie me up...and do what you Africans do best'. The black man did as he was told... Took the bLONDE..to her house...stripped her..and tied her up...and dissappeared with all the electronic items at the house..the TV, COOKER AND REFRIGERATOR... ----------------------------------------------- She uncovered herself and showed him her mount of Venus, vaulted like a cupola.
  23. Hi Ma lady....if you are forty...i have a boy who gonna b 20 by that time...BESBAASO..Are you really from BOSAASO....that may be the case...just wait him if u can Ibraheem's.