RendezVous

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  1. Originally posted by *Diamante*:

    Personal's Ad:

     

    Woman Seeking Man

     

    Don't call me if you are uneducated; unemployed; unhealthy smoker;

    felon; under 30 years old, 5'10"; over 40 years old, 6'8", 230

    pounds; like cats, channel surfing; make less than £30,000 annually;

    or have body parts pierced. Others feel free.

    ;)
    ...My PM inbox awaits YOU (yes you!)

    For real,..... (Chinese,Korean,Jamaican,Nigerian,Somali,Red Indians and Aborigines?...classify?)

     

    & This is serious...one ?..Why would someone young,handsome, educated, morally(ISLAM), economically and socially stable, with a 60+ plan for his family ever adhere to these types of conditions(Xaliimos answer)..is this really fair.What if someone meets those conditions...Really, would there be love anyway..We Somali men will chat live and on phones,Internet, but at the end of the day,What matters is love that grows and burst to a possible family encounter..Marriage..washikaji..We call that 'a love bliss'..which we are hoping to set an example here soon..we ain't here for small timers..or

     

    do I say? smile.gifsmile.gif

     

    I will update the list...Kaleidoscope got you and Hibo..What is our next route?


  2. I think we already got a list of some registered nomad ladies..with special appreciation going to the time they took to fill and understand the situation...The LIST includes among others

     

    The author(Hibo)...Real..

    Wiilo...Real

    Juxa..Real

    Najma...

    Femme Fatale....Real But..

    ..and the list is going better..

     

    Thank you all and Jazaakumullah kheiran.

     

    The list may include some Nomads who are either not aware about 'our online registration' yacni our Singles census or are typically shy and don't need to scribe and make others feel happy..but we will update as the threads increase insha-allah.

     

    Sure we all need to marry and get married.One thing I think we need to elaborate is if we will stick on 'Simple introductions..or go further.But If I may ask..where are our Honks..The Faarax'x..'Our kids fathers' as they say..

     

    Needless to say, a point of contention will be how suitable this thread will be to influence marriages especially when we take into consideration our ways of life..our missions, suitability and so on so forth..Some nomads were brought up in Shaggs(Sijuis understand) and others in Cities..some are from different backgrounds and nationalities(Somali Kenyans/Somali somalis/Somali Djiboutians and Som Ethio & Landers..There maybe some who value humanity, somaliness and value the beauty of women and ways of life than others.

     

    Our interaction will surely succumb to pressures and other ulterior motives especially when issues like 'Mate/Partner/Wife/Man competitions' start.I may prefer one lady here and maybe another one was closing on me.Me Think the best way is to list a long list of the 'hopefuls'..and we find another strategy after that.

     

    Point to note includes..this is not a dating line to be run with intentions against ISLAM or whatever else we think may think jeopardise us from uniting, Let it be one that is to provide the best chance for all of us peers at this critical time of out lives insha-allah.

     

    Mind blogging ahead >>>>>>>Please follow..

     

    ;);););)


  3. Originally posted by mizz_S.lander:

    ^^^^ if they become muslim; they are normally better ddeen wise den xalimo's; and if allah forgives them for their pass, why can't you, why u judging; as for their family, they are not responsible for their families actions!!

    i say the only problem is culture difference; my hooyoo and aabo, will have problems; as will the kids, in balancing two cultures, as if the somali one aint bad enough
    :D

    What if Xaliimo is straight religious and without me..????Ponder two seconds..Kabacdi we talk..

     

    Go for Chilli sauced Indian..do u suggest?>>>> smile.gif


  4. Ole Faraax...or whatever...

     

    You said you want an educated Xaliimo..but you didn't say you what level you are @yourself..Who knows you are a nursery Graduate..

     

    neither did u mention anything related to education in your Number one thread..

     

    So u just want to marry a xaliimo...with or without Education...but say with education..where do u take the ones without but good, nice nd Raaliyos..

     

    Jinga hii... redface.gif


  5. Why is the benefit of us registering is also another issue worth discussing..

     

    Register and Reap the Profit..

     

    Many Nomads think by registering, you will require to mention your Credit card Number here..and talk about your clan and sorts..What we all aspire to do is make this a simple Somali dating service.All others have failed, let it be known that we don't this fail..

     

    We have plenty of Xaliimos and Faarax's and I don't see why we shouldn't register..

     

    Instead of resorting to marry ..........Start with a sweet scented Xaliimo..

     

    or do I say ;)

     

    [ June 08, 2005, 10:36 AM: Message edited by: Zephyrine ]


  6. I think all was said..but let add some few things...

     

    First and foremost..There was the Ayah our dear Rayaana Indicated to us which is worth reading..'reading between the lines'.

     

    I would not like to judge myself in here neither do I need anyone to do that.I am a somali man alhamdulillah, mature and educated.I need to make some reservation on those calling for our Somali peers to go inter-racial marriages..You tend to call it inter-Racial so that you find the word 'Racial'or Racism in it..(?)....Why don't you call it distant marriage..sort of..All humanity were at one time same except for sexes, origins same,colour same..whatever..What separated us Allah Aclam..but there are things to value and cherish..We have a culture, A religion and many Camels..Some culture like that of a chinese..who eat 'tasty Lizards'..are by far very distant to us Somalis.

    Say you are marrying a chinese..A chinese(A muslim)...has the least characteristics resembling a somali.Eyes are small and protruding eyes and eats snakes and lizards..you don't eat lizards..ama kuna wengine...you love the relation..you love the sucking chinese muslim..and the next day, you are in Beijing(I know some ladies go there oftenly) and you are welcomed with some lizards(Which I heard is Xalaal)..something ay aad u jecelyihiin..you refuse for whatever reasons to eat the reptile.. and people are asking 'XunKin Sao'..What is happening..You refused citing your culture..Mind you..You are married with the sucker..Then there starts shame..You have put yourself in a shame, the family in a shame..and maybe you are already past A faarax sell date..you had a fair share of Faarax's shame...now tell me..you are 40yrs and have some eyes protruding kids..Regret starts..

     

    This lizard was part of their culture and all marriage contain cultures..There is no way you will separate Culture from Marriage..unless you are in what USA nowadays calls freedom..men and women with freedom..'illegally marriages' n staying with women without consideration of Religion, culture..There are people in this world who are so obsessed with whites and non muslims..I found a lady who is from Germany and who came for holidays to Dubai..a consultant by profession..we used to talk and we were plain freinds..I mean she used to shop at one of our outlets..Now I asked her some questions..and good thing..she replied them cautiously..But when I asked her if she was married..She laughed and said back..Do I wanna be a part time 'husband'..for her..I said no..But she said she has them plenty..meaning she has many husbands..everywhere she goes..That is her culture..She was born under that circumstances..The lady was normal and an executive..and I wondered why did she opt to behave like that..She can groove with anyone provided there is something..they can lay with anyone..provided it is conducive for them..That is 'Culture'..I investigated and found out that, this same people, weren't born inside strict marriages..Islamic marriages..and even their fathers and great grandfathers are sometime unknown..they have lost cultural identity..they have lost generations..they don't know if they are Ukrainians/Germans/Danes/Dutch..or Brits.They are mixed..Now do u wanna be like that..your father Lebanese,your aunt a jamaican...., your uncle a nigerian .....and your grandmum a russian.........eh am sorry for that matter..This is what we are talking about..

     

    Rayaan did say...would you like your kids to speak Somali?..would you will like your kids to associate themselves with their Somali brethren..same traditions, religion and camel rearing attitudes..Go on and so what are you upto..

     

    99.7% of the statistics show we Somali men prefer our women for marriage than a foreigner...which ain't racism..God knows why?I am sure you read the news from the Russian parliament..they wanna enact a bill to restrict their Women(Who they claim are the most beautiful in the World)from getting married to others..is that Racism..They Love their community, they love their culture..and their identity...

     

    Marry someone whom you don't know where he came from..There is a lady from St.Petersburg(Russia)who wanted me to marry her.I investigated and found her great Grandfathers were jews..Now Read the HOLY QURAAN about that kind of people..what if I went ahead..I would be partly contributing to this Jews descendancy..Which I feel not my type..

     

    Now I am working with another British/Ukrainian lady who says she won't mind a Somali man so long as he is This and That..I told her frankly that am not the type to get married to distant Adam/Eve cousins..

     

    Do u see some little sense..or do I say...?

     

    Mind Blogging...>>>>>>>follow ;);) SOMALIS FOR SOMALIS FOR SOMALIS...

     

    [ June 08, 2005, 10:07 AM: Message edited by: Zephyrine ]


  7. Originally posted by professer:

    hibbo please acept my hamble apologies, i must confess, i did not think you or the admins for that matter would take what i said so seriocly.

    i once again accept my apologies.....fiends
    ;)

    ........................>>>>>Danish or English..

     

     

    By the way, few have expressed their intentions to register and many simply either made their reservations known or are totally ignorant of the opportunities SafiaLuul was talking about.

     

    We can make a long lasting matchmaking exercise without all those screen Billboards advertising Perverts and anti-Islamic marketing pop-ups especially if the admins and moderators keep the spirit on..sooner or later, you will find xaliimos and farax living happily, a product of this matchmaking exercise.Insha-allah Taala

     

    Truth be told and let us really put a lot of energy to make this a wonderful project.The author alias the 'Beautiful'Hibo..(I think I saw your Pic)..must also remove certain conditions.Afterall we wanna make this for ourselves..LOVE TO ALL SOMALIS..this is a good recipe for putting our lost generations back to it's normal cultural and Islamic footing..and please...

     

    When registering, everyone should treat this issue the seriousness it deserves even if don't wanna give so many details.

     

    Real men sign and marry majestically !!!!

    ;);););)

     

    Do we?


  8. Originally posted by professer:

    by the sound of your last thread Hibo u sound desperate...longing for compassion..loool.

     

    is it that desperate times call for desperate measures loool

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    talking about what!!!...u are just too ignorant..what is the problem in setting up a motion...a noble one for that matter..JINGA HII... redface.gifredface.gif

     

    You must be exercising a very cruel behaviours with others..If you don't what others like..move out..na'mean


  9. Originally posted by The Rendezvous:

    quote:Originally posted by Hibo:

    vice-Ambassador..... ( I don't know wat they call him, ....

    ....the worst part was.. the tooth picks... common people... U either cover ur mouth when u r picking ur molars or u just don't open ur lips......

    :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: ....
    BIG THING FIRST...

     

    web page

     

    The Somali diaspora is bigger than all the saylici and the awdal stories..na' mean smile.gifsmile.gifsmile.gif :)but still same.

     

    Unite and am sorry!!!! :D


  10. Originally posted by Psycho_Sue:

    ^^^Lol!

     

    Oh I forget to mention I could see my luggage, during the whole flight, while it slid across the plane cabin everytime the plane made a turn.

    ..............did u use your own seatbelt..that is what matters :D:D:D


  11. Originally posted by Legend of Zu:

    It is a small world... I met a fella the other day..and while we were talkin..the above mentioned lady and told me she is his cousin... first cousin... how strange..

     

    yep..She is Somali..pure somali...

     

    I thought I may add that to it...

     

    Cheers

    Sijui or not business.. smile.gif


  12. Originally posted by Hibo:

    vice-Ambassador..... ( I don't know wat they call him, ....

    ....the worst part was.. the tooth picks... common people... U either cover ur mouth when u r picking ur molars or u just don't open ur lips......

    :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: ....


  13. I got this two..................................

     

     

    Originally posted by Bishaaro:

    Nice guys are b-o-r-i-n-g. Cusbadaa ku yar
    redface.gif

    Let it be resolved that women who fall for jerks are not worth falling for in the first place.

     

    Freaks say....I gotta some cusbo+ more honey... smile.gifsmile.gifsmile.gif ...

     

    OlD ScHoOl...


  14. Originally posted by hamdi hajia:

    Sad,,,,,,just tooo sad...

    All the arguing over hijab when our ummah is in dire straights. Its always easier to address superficial matters rather than deal with the real issues. I can assure you the muslim world is not upside down because sisters arent wearing hijab. What happened to inner purification and judging yourself instead of others. What happened to zakat and sadaqah. Somalis are killing each other in the middle of zhuhur and asr and talking about hijab. Taking food stamps and lying and talking about hijab. hiding their uncleanliness and inability to control their kids and talking about hijab, sipping tea alnight at the coffee shop and talking about hijab. Stingy as hell and tribalistic and talking about hijab. Hijab is not a pillar and most of us cant even fulfill one pillar full time without judging others regardless of how they practice their deen ., Allah will judge us on the soundness of our heart--our intentions, and he has preferred the "garment of righteousness" which is something no one can judge except Allah. Get off your hijab wagon and stop sucking the government, killing each other, backbiting, failing to keep the mosques in hygenic conditions, wearing dirac and staying out all night, depriving children of time spent with both parents--quality time, being ungrateful for being in the US when that what you prayed for and Allah answered your prayers and engaging in all this idle talk without poising yourselves to change a darn thing. We have issues. Modesty is within the heart and it is a state of mind. A piece of cloth in and of itself has no power. Dont limit your understanding to concrete matters. It has nothing to do with looking like the kafars. Looking like the kafars is imitating the corruption that plaques a society of unbelievers. Somalia is a lawless, deenless, primitive, underdeveloped society that resembles best --a kafir society in every way.

     

     

    In short worry about the real deal? Discover what it really is to be a kafir and get at the real reason why you like to argue over hijab.

    How many of you know the PILLARS OF ISLAM, PILLARS OF IMAAN(faith)..and so on..

     

    How many of you read the Quraan or did any Dawah...?????????????????