Makalajabti, ... rare are the Halimos who stay virgin till marriage, and I am not even talking about the Faraax. Generalization..? maybe you didn't even read the article I posted earlier..xaliimos in Portland, USA.. "Our religion and culture teaches us that when you're a virgin it's something that comes once in a lifetime," says Maalim. "It's like a gift from God. And once you lose it, it's gone. Read it here We live in the West and prefer abstinence... I hate this notion.. we live in the west ...So what? Not all people are like you Makalajabti..

rare are the Halimos who stay virgin till marriage, and I am not even talking about the Faraax.So What's the point of stating you value virginity? Unless you stayed virging till your wedding night, flipmode! Myself I don't value virginity because Why would I frustate myself to my wedding night? My future husband will probably not be a virgin, so what's the big deal?I am muslim and I know it's haraam but at least I am not trying to be a hypcrite Nice try but this part only stinks!!! Myself I don't value virginity because Why would I frustate myself to my wedding night? you know it is haraam but still do it.. So u think that is making it better and you call yourself a muslim... is that how far ISLAM has reached No wonder everyone can just abuse ISLAM and still feel "fine"

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..I've a feeling your heart is pure. It's just in the wrong place at the moment. in other words, don't go beating president bush.You are advising e-nuri that you he concentrates in marshalling his E-nuri departments deal with hunger and diseases in somalia at the moment. Good point..But this Minyar itself...I don't like it at all.Many families have got more boys than girls now who are young and we gonna see the imbalance dissapearing very soon. I don't like the Minyar Business but still e-nuri you are giving the best advice.

Originally posted by naden: No she wasn't. She was proselytizing about the purity and wonders of Somalia when everyone knows the hundreds of thousands who ran with their tail between their legs know how desolate it is. [/QB] still brag of all shit when you don't even own a single hoori in Somalia.does feeling being in your own country without toilets the same as being in hoods and doldrums better? If atleast you knew something about tourism..Why do they come for tourism to AFRICA...while they know there are no toilets.. ..fresh air, cool beaches and rest(Why Rest?) If only -the free universal health care system -top class education system -state of the art and modern infrastructure -economy that provides jobs, invents and innovates. -social mobility were yours(by your country)

Did you value your Virginity Flipmode? Yes dear.It is part of my religion and just need to be a good boy for sure . Do u value yours anyways >>>>>makala..? Read this verse of the HOLY QORAN that talks about this behaviours.. SURATAL MUUMINUUN(Believers) 1 Successful indeed are the believers. 2 Those who offer their Salat (prayers) with all solemnity and full submissiveness. 3 And those who turn away from Al-Laghw (dirty, false, evil vain talk, falsehood, and all that Allah has forbidden). 4 And those who pay the Zakat . 5 And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts) 6 Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, for then, they are free from blame; 7 But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors; 8 Those who are faithfully true to their Amanat (all the duties which Allah has ordained, honesty, moral responsibility and trusts etc.) and to their covenants; 9 And those who strictly guard their (five compulsory congregational) Salawat (prayers) (at their fixed stated hours). 10 These are indeed the inheritors. 11 Who shall inherit the Firdaus (Paradise). They shall dwell therein forever.

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Originally posted by makalajabti: Originally posted by Dabshid: [qb] I witnessed many guys who divorced their new bride, after they were dissappointed. That is serious, Still there are those who don't value it either and that is their problem do u think we need to value Virginity so much?

Originally posted by Pi: Originally posted by The Flipmode: Modesty<<<<So u left Dubai??? :rolleyes: rolleyes: Did she turn down your overly eager offer of help, Arab-boy. Cajab.. two brief questions 1. Did I request for a different offer anyways.. or was it a normal HALB(help)..Cheeky 2. What if I made a different offer..am I not eligible.. ..getting crazzzzzy

A married businessman meets a beautiful girl and agrees to spend the night with her for $500. ceeyb although funny ..We are 100 percent muslims and do not condone such activities..

Originally posted by ALexus.: quote:Originally posted by The Flipmode: Coz I love your questions ..Is that serious.. And I love those who love my questions. Do I sound serious, Shadow? No for the above questions.. ADVISE FOR ALEXUS AND ALL Please feel free to pray in any mosque where ladies facilities are, anytime.You get more ajar(rewards from God) while praying at home though.In western countries, where muslims are few but (Conversion to Islam is increasing), you may love to join other Muslims and know what is happening to the muslim community.Try to help each other and get advises.END For Abaayo kooley aka Femme aka the Dirac baati stuff , understand That there are those That love questions and being Shadows of others.. ..Loving to question everything is good for the society, coz we get prompt answers from someone like you.Having said that, I love being a shadow of others , If you have a problem, just stare Laakin, Did u talk about a twilight zone..? maxaa tiri .. kuceli mar kale

Originally posted by The Flipmode: Since nowadays many somalis live away from their motherland, SOMALIA, I wonder if there a talk on Virginity perse..which is pointed to all our growing boys and girls generation.I know lot of people will just defuse my thread but I tend to serve my people.Discuss on issues involving our people,The somalis, religious and cultural. Now I was reading the following conviction by this ladies from Portland,Oregon and found it fine to post the information so that we can have a talk on how best to tackle and address Virginity in our socities both at home and abroad, and still advise our growing young boys and girls..Virginity involves both the boys and girls and ISLAM is just strict on it.There are various Holy Quraan verses that talk about Virginity. quote: "Our religion and culture teaches us that when you're a virgin it's something that comes once in a lifetime," says Maalium. "It's like a gift from God. And once you lose it, it's gone. Question: What advise can you give the somali boys and girls about Virginity? Why I would'nt loose my Virginity before Marriage Stick to the topic. Well said..You shouldn't argue in all threads.Let us try to find solutions as they are addressed. Reer baadiyos also know about the 21st Century thing [ March 04, 2006, 18:30: Message edited by: sheherazade ]

Modesty<<<<So u left Dubai??? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: by the way, are you Fishing down there? Fishin'..As in Sea?

Since nowadays many somalis live away from their motherland, SOMALIA, I wonder if there a talk on Virginity perse..which is pointed to all our growing boys and girls generation.I know lot of people will just defuse my thread but I tend to serve my people.Discuss on issues involving our people,The somalis, religious and cultural. Now I was reading the following conviction by this ladies from Portland,Oregon and found it fine to post the information so that we can have a talk on how best to tackle and address Virginity in our socities both at home and abroad, and still advise our growing young boys and girls..Virginity involves both the boys and girls and ISLAM is just strict on it.There are various Holy Quraan verses that talk about Virginity. "Our religion and culture teaches us that when you're a virgin it's something that comes once in a lifetime," says Maalium. "It's like a gift from God. And once you lose it, it's gone. Question: What advise can you give the somali boys and girls about Virginity? Why I would'nt loose my Virginity before Marriage

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Originally posted by Viking: lol raula, naikubuka. Irikuwa ina shekesha mutu akikasirika arafu aabiwe hifyo. Saraara, mi nikinjam, heee heh! Nina mbru-mband pia! na hii irikuwa siku ghani?bona irinipita

Coz I love your questions ..Is that serious..

Originally posted by Alle-ubaahne: This site has became a window of exposing our ills to the outside, like we are going to benefit the outcome of it. Sadly, I have seen many topics in SOL discussing issues that are not accompanied with any solutions. It seems a whole punch of people are competing on revealing our societies in the most despicable ways, with the least loyalty and passion to rectify them. :mad: :mad: :mad: Sure Alle..Everytime we raise a very serious issue like this one, we need to come up with a solution.We are the ones who gonna be Fathers and Mothers soon..So we should try to sort the mess that there is..My advise For a Girl to run from her parent to join a man who claims to love her, who she seems a fine fiancee, She needs extra careful consideration coz this is life n anything can happen.The truth still stands..Many parents are supposed to bring up their kids in an islamic manner.. When a kid knows his religion, he has aqlaaq(good behaviours) and is a fine breed..most likely that kid whether a GIRL or A BOY modelled with proper character and from a nice islamic family, modern, educated, when grown up will be spotted by several people especially from close relatives and school mates and a suitable suitor will be arranged by his/her parents.In that case, the parents must give proper advise and communicate to to their children why they made the choice, to have so and so becoming part of the family.They should discuss among themselves and the child, what are the childs priorities, the priorities of the opposite fence and so on.If for reasons the lady can't accept the offer, then she must not be forced as our Prophet Mohamed saw advised. If forced, This will affect her life and may bring undue consequences to parties involved.When your parents give you a suitor, see the moral why they made that choice. No parent will ever like you to feel heartened. No parent will see his son or daughter frustrated and falling in a pitch..So assume things are alright and make your own judgement.Maybe the parents are overlooking some important aspects..tell them in a polite way why you are not planning to do this or that. Communication is everything.. from parents to kids...The whole family..your wife or husband, brothers and sisters..Communication will always be there.People will understand your decisions.They will love to hear your argument.When you present a favourable argument..Then come up with a solution yourself.Tell them this is going to be sorted like this and that.In a polite way.Remember parents are always the KING. Rasullulah saw once said " Happiness From God will be tied to Happiness from your parents.Unhappiness from God will always be unhappiness from your parents" . So communicate wisely in and out of the family.If you do that, rest assured everything will be ok.There will be no pressure.No running away from your parents and family.Everything will be ok.. Last but not the least..My Two cents told me to say this.. If you waana be a player..A real player....Please play the best game, very far away and be a champion..No more no less.In the end, you will show you were once a champion and go to the Grave alone..

Good girl, You must be HAPPY.. or so I suppose Answered... Do u got another Question..

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Originally posted by Callypso: ^Pardon? I asked ...So did he go for the Lunch break!!

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^^^^On top of being un-islamic.. It beats logic to set world records on live human beings......This is barbaric and personally would abhor ..don't associate this with ISLAM..This is a typical SAUDI culture..I personally hate their "Ninjas ". Islam has little to do with Ninjas unless for specific reasons