Originally posted by ALexus.: Three years later, I have become a better Muslim. That is nice to hear..I am happy personally to see a muslim woman rejoicing her religion.. Please also see What you need to also know

Originally posted by Zafir: The perfect Hijaby nowadays.. This is like mum like daughter The type I was telling you

I am fond of advises for people... So let me add my cents here too..You know am a part time family counsellor.. While almost everything has been said, all the best judgement have been made, all elaborations and criticism discussed, I agree with Kafarxiiye about this.. Let us not assume that when you are marrying someone, you are actually "putting yourself in problems.."Infact you are coming together, loving each other, on a degree to uphold your respect for each other, make babies and treat your babies together, help each other in difficulties and prosper together. I have lately seen a situation where our men constantly abuse our xaliimos as if they are NEVER human being. . How do u mistreat your woman and u claim to love her How do u feel if your woman begs some money from you, How do u feel to flirt with another woman when your woman is right there and always supporting you raise children together and many other ways. How do u expect your woman to take care of the family and children without support from you, How do u love your family to appear like a tattered colony of mistreated people including your lovely wife, your kids... These are issues we need to solve in relation to marriages and especially to our Somali families.. Alhamdulillah young boys and girls are "more happier" with each other nowadays more than our older generations..Now you will see happy faces..They treat each other like freinds and are still married.. On the other hand, How do u feel when your man only loves you and you tend to start chit-chat with other people who will never help you, How do u feel you start calling the police immediately he starts asking for some favours between yourselves, You call the police after he raises some pertinent issues with you,may that was related to you or the kids, or that you are not even following your religion properly, or that you don't help him in anyway..he asks where are you and you start arguing with him, he asks can u please prepare this and this for us, you argue..you become naughty..and listen to others who will only "laugh" at you when you divorce each other..That is just too childish.. You should love your families, the kheyr God gave you..Pray coz There are some without even wives and kids, there are some without husbands who support them and love them..They are some who are just single and lonely in their lives, there are some who are lost their husbands due to natural death.they are some who have never laid or laid upon.. So be content with yourself, pray to your God Allah sw and be nice people.Allah subhanahu watacaala says, "Inallaha maca saabirin"..God is with the ones who are patient.. Take your time and try to discuss issues which are relevant to your life in this world and hereafter Yaumul Qiyaama..try to communicate to each other..express your views for each other, try correct each other.. Remember you sleep in the same bed and you are the most close people on earth.. Feel HAPPY, make sure you practice your DEEN..your children will practice deen also, teach them Quraan and Hadith and take them to school, I mean boys and girls, teach them their family language..I mean mother tongue,Teach them good morals, culture and make them modern. After all, life is just too short..You may break with someone and only "die" the second moment..How does that help you anyway..??? You can read some items here which I feel are relevant to families..especially MAN/WOMAN and marriage.. How to make your wife HAPPY in islam and The first verse of Suratul Nisaa(WOMEN)in the Quraan sums up everything.. O Humankind! Be conscious of your Sustainer, who has created humanity out of one living entity, and out of it created its mate, and out of the two spread abroad a multitude of men and women. And remain conscious of God, in whose name you demand [your rights] from one another, and [reverence] the wombs [that bore you]. Verily, God is ever watchful over you! (4:1) Take care all..

Originally posted by makalajabti: quote:Originally posted by The Rendezvous: quote: Originally posted by makalajabti: To all women out there: get a job and be independent, that's the only way! You forgot.. still get laid..... .. There is no other way... you are not getting any lately miyaa? I have even nothing at the moment... there are none worth anyway ...

Originally posted by ibtisam: ^^^ i think he is getting a bit frustrated, getting old alone has its affects :rolleyes: for a man to be 29 years and still single..I think it is ok... but when you are 28 and still single like you...I think you lost in touch with Faaraxz..I am sorry

Originally posted by The Rendezvous: :cool: :cool: Almost all my freinds married ladies who are Hijabified and modest..What is the reason.. For Illustration purposes, This nomads sums it all.. quote: Originally posted by Abdinuur: Some sistah who wear Hijaab look pretty and attractive. Seriously...I used have a crush on this one fine sistah who wore Hijaab. But she gave her heart to some other wierd guy and so...I moved on. Sistas who wear Hijaab are gorgous...am I repeatin' myself...? But why???? I am pretty sure, I will marry a A hijabified lady ....doting "a fine hijaab".. of any colour and style (provided that it covers the contours not the hair alone) than marrying a semi-nude person who gonna corrupt my family, my religion and my kids

Originally posted by codetalker: ^ Nacnac could mean sweets or something altogether different. Nacnac-badane knows what it means. Why don't you ask him. CodeTalker, and who is this nacnac-badne..anyways? U guys, please refrain from arguing for the sake of arguing.Our brother has posted an important topic that is useful to all of us. All of us are muslims who value Islam, people who know what ISLAM means to their life.. .SOL guys know that Islam is dear to them..Their families and so on.. But see the scenario, Why is it that nowadays, If someone kills another, he is seen as a warlord or a hero..while ISLAM is against "Killing anyone..".. When one advises a lady to wear her Hijaab, Jilbaab or cabaaya in the name of Islam, the whole world advises the woman to find her "freedom" and "liberty" and uncover herself...This is distortion of Islam...ISLAM talks about Jilbaab in a different context.. It is an era Where and when, someone comes from the furthest corner of a baadiya,like without actually reading exactly what the Quraan/hadith says about ISLAM, spreads his wings, abuses the teachings of ISLAM, says all bad things about ISLAM and suddenly He/She becomes an ultimate "SUPER-HERO" for abusing Islam..is this a "conspiracy"... we just need to be "Reformed" and go back to our religion..This is the only better reformation we know so far...

Originally posted by MR ORGILAQE: The typical Giriama flirting Man: Mbewe yunareha na baba(come to papa) Woman: Kinyocho bee(asshole,piss off all in one) Man: Mbewe njoo nitakugwira mpaka ugwirike(i'll hump till you drop) Woman: Haya wee!(what!) Man: Tu gwiraane(let's hump) Woman: haya Bwana(ok my man) I love "nitakugwira mpaka ugwirike"..sounds Giuk ..Is that how they do it there over..Orgilaqe... like "Indee monii...Type" Msupuu... You make remember about "Kwasa Kwasa"..By kanda Bongoman..By the way..do u have anything about him online..

This is the link that is NEVER seen by many I think this is one nice topic to discuss on Go on guyz... Talk about the following: What is marriage In the first place: What it takes to marry What qualities fo u look in marrying someone What are the Islamic ethics concerning marraige Can u feel HAPPY with each other... Do u both love children? Do u love the character of one another Do u love one another... Why should you cause an alarm... What brings problem... You will find that above all this... This is the link that is NEVER seen by many

Checki hizi jo.. N'gladys: But Sir, I have pein and endache...(pain and headache) Boss: You said what? N'gladys: I have Bein and endache(Pain and headache) on my end(hand).. N'gladys: On my end(hand) sir.. Boss: on your end.......? N'gladys: I said on my end(hand)... N'gladys: My end..end ....end.(hand)sir That was a ka'ao lady who skipped work.. In Kenya, sometime it is better to express your problems by SMS... The boss understood later..

^you are crazy.... did she tell you about "uur"

In 2002, Egyptian actress Abeer Sabry announced she ended her career to become a more devout Muslim and followed classes by Amr Khaled and Habib bin Ali, two young and very popular Islamic "televangelists". It is like the lady who reads the news at Aljazeera news channel .. She started putting on Hijaab.. Imagine the actress came to her sense for once.. Alhamdulillah..

and Lastly, Celebrate the "Nobel Prize" for Reforming Islam.. That how AYAAN HIRSI made a name...She is now neither a muslim, a christian nor even an atheist..She is no where... Is there anything called "a reformed muslim" anyway???.. What are you Reforming from or to? From One God to Three Gods, From Modesty to being Semi nudity From Truth to the "Untruth and propagandas" .... Islam was already Reformed or consistent with the 21st century?issues they talk about like Jihad or self defense written in the Quraan were discussed by Brother Harun Yahya in his websites... IslamDenouncesTerrorism.com Many articles from the Quraan on Jihaad were designed for the period ISLAM was spreading and had lot of enemies [/i] , there then the prophet used to give guidance that "There is no killing whatsoever" apart from "Self defense.." Read on.. Islam Reformed for the 21st century Islam has long been reformed..It just needs the muslims to start going back to their own religion..They left their religion and need to just go back to it... Is that the Reform they are talking about????

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Originally posted by makalajabti: To all women out there: get a job and be independent, that's the only way! You forgot.. still get laid..... .. .. There is no other way...

Originally posted by makalajabti: My Dear beloved People, you make me laugh. Hijab is just a piece of clothing that most somali girls wear because of their parents and relative. To get some peace! In my spare time I wear hijab too just to please my parents. .... If Hijaab is a piece of cloth to you, It is not to others.. My sisters wear them by choice and many somalis and muslim ladies do...Yours is for show..No wonder we need to emphasise that many somali men marry the ones who has worn a Hijaab for a cause..To Follow Allah's Commandment.. and I am not a saint! Acudhu billah, i knew you would just say that..but who said he/she is a saint anywayz..It's never good to say like that sis..Better be quite..We know nobody is a saint but still don't take the label "a rebel" by force..You have NEVER reached where some of the guys have reached.. still many came to their senses..read Islam and repented to God..Alhamdulillah Originally posted by Rahima: Flipmode ....The equivalent of a hijabee is a man of measure, respect, modest and of high moral standards...It doesn't matter to be " bearded ...Oh please, it does mean bearded and other dress codes- like ensuring that your trousers are of the right length . Yeah that is true, men have to be decent and their trousers should cover much of their skinny contours..beard is never an issue ... The problem with Muslim society is that all we concentrate on is what the women should be doing or wearing :rolleyes: whilst our men feel that they can prance around as free willy. Rahima walaale, we are also talking about men here, we are talking like in the general society not just women..Men and women have a duty in ISLAM...Modesty is not about women alone.. It doesn’t mean bearded he says Hijaab and covering as in Jilbaab is mentioned in the Quraan,coz of the impact it creates In Islam without the person wearing it, while keeping a beard is never a very big issue in Islam..It is partly a sunnah and men are encouraged to..With a slight beard or without a beard, there is no much acrimony.. War heedhe, like Blessed told you, go do your homework before I blow my lid :mad: . Blow me... :mad: The pass mark Mr. Rendezvous is an easy 100% . You have three days. Ultimatum... for what?? for saying many somali men marry Hijaabees...Go

Originally posted by Devil's Advocate: Hijab means more than what you wear on your head. And good luck to the men who think all hijab-wearing sisters are saintly and chaste lmao what if the Hijabee is a religious lady.... Wouldn't that be Just too Nice...

Originally posted by Rayaana: ^^ ..... one of them... waisted asset i reckon. u tartiibi yaah By the way, you surely need not advertise that restaurant ...liek that..use a PR firm Like mine..

Narrated by Abu Hurairah (Allah be pleased with him), that the Prophet, (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "The Hour will not happen until knowledge is taken out, time passes quickly, earthquakes increase in number, tribulations (fitan) appear, and al-Harj increases in number." It was said, "What is al-Harj, O Rasoolullah?" He said, "Al Qatl, al Qatl" (Killing!, Killings!). Much of the above has appeared in the "Horn" except earthquakes which we've been waiting and only seems to be a matter of time. Let it be a lesson for those who take heed and a reminder for those who remember, so that they may return to the Creator of heavens and earth, their Lord, Lord of the worlds. some fellows will argue that they are NEVER going to live in the Horn of Africa...so why take a warning... Just wait a bit...

Originally posted by besbaaso: The hijab represents purity to somali men...and they think that they will be guaranteed virgins or untouched women by getting with a hijabee...lol... but wat if she is a reformed hijabee...does it still apply? Ps...What is the equivalence of a hijabee girl...a bearded guy? There is nothing called a Reformed Hijabee ..OR you meant the ones who goes covering their hair and leaving the rest "feasted upon" ... The equivalent of a hijabee is a man of measure, respect, modest and of high moral standards...It doesn't matter to be " bearded

Originally posted by juba: women are not INFERIOR to men, infact allah views them equally when it comes to fulffiling the obligations of islam. BUT men and women differ in their roles in society, women the caretakeer men the breadwinner THAT IS ALL!!! now what does sharia law have to do with women and men in the Quran? so u know.... That is good

Originally posted by Ahura: *Ah I want to marry a virgin too. Somebody find me a cute hijaabi. When we talk about Hijaabe, we didn't say virginity and Hijaabees are tied to one another..Hijaab is worn by 99.7% of all muslim, singles, married, divorced and so on..so don't try to mix issues together Insha-allah I will surely marry a Hijabee like my other somali men... Most Hijaabees are purely religious, "beautiful and Modest".. who wants a semi nude character anyways

Please Give me some few minutes.. PREFACE: Sometime, due to pressure , you may have to contend yourself that you are a muslim and proud to be a muslim, that since Islam is a way of life and requires you to be modest, peaceful, kind and patient as you perform your obligations towards Allah,You are still a muslim and fear your God. Sometime also some few people may have some problems with Islam as in the case of the Shariah some guys were arguing About.. Now I have compiled reliable sources of ISLAM from various research pieces I was collecting over the time...I wish you will feel easy reading them and sharing them..Please make use of them..You need as a muslim anyway.. U and ME need to help in Islam Revival..Islam is coming back. ...Feel free with the links below and expound your research to the fullest... Ever Wondered why A muslim does this....... Islam Questions and Answers in English, Arabic, Spanish, Chinese, Urdu and Indonesian..We will add Somali soon Short answers to Islam FAQ Islam is not a new religion... Anything to do with ISLAM Know Islam....FAQ answered straight Who are the Muslims? One and Half billion people from a vast range of races, nationalities, and cultures across the globe are united by their common Islamic faith. About 18%(eighteen percent) live in the Arab world, and Indonesia is home to the world's largest population of Muslims. Extensive Muslim communities also exist throughout Asia and Africa, while smaller communities live in the United States, Western Europe, and elsewhere. Read also: The University of Pennsylvania Islamic Dept Is Bible God's Word.....Think Three times 50,000 Errors in the bible The Christian Acid Test The God that NEVER was...How can God be Seen by men..??? The Most Influential man in The World, Why there is no bible according to Jesus Himself... Covering everything about Women In Islam Women In Islam Shariah in Islam, Conditions for Shariah..21st century Misconception against Islam Liberating Women In Islam Resources for our Muslim ladies...This sister says it all

Originally posted by Northerner: So a bunch of bushmen determine what religion is right? In other words, Christianity is the best religion for a lazy person who wants his/her sins to be forgiven without much repentence so they can do it again, and again and again. A Christian does the WORST and then repent..Then goes and does anything else worse..and repents..Just going on and on...until he remains a christian Originally posted by Abu-Jamal: What statistics do u get from such Bushmen..Did Islam really reach them...? REALITY... FOOTBALL: MOROCCO'S FRENCH COACH CONVERTS TO ISLAMhttp://www.adnki.com/index_2Level_English.php?cat=Sport&loid=8.0.279847498&par= http://www.islamonline.org/English/News/2006-03/24/article01.shtml Latinos turning toward Islam http://www.knoxnews.com/kns/local_news/article/0,1406,KNS_347_4526236,00.html new faces of Islam http://www.contracostatimes.com/mld/cctimes/news/14074652.htm G O D B L E S S I S L A M Scarlet What did you edit from this screen ...You want me to bring the bare naked Massais from Kenya...

But what I dont understand is what ajr are girls for wearing because they are being forced. There are sisters I know who are great muslims, who act alot better than hijabed sisters. Hijab really doesnt tell a persons character. The ajr you get comes from following Allah's commandments..That is between your God and you... Secondly, It will be BAD for someone to wear a Hijaab which is a symbol for a muslim lady and then found in a club..drinking ...in Prostitution...and so on .. That is Just Killing Hijaaaaaaaaab...That is what I want you to know..Allah doesn't look into your body, your picture but looks at your heart..This is a hadith Hijaab can be of any make..any colour...suit the best colour you want provided it covers your hair..Your Back and forth upto the ankles(Legs).. The world is short.. So you should NEVER rely on this world...Work your way to The Other World...