Who cares if he is gay or straight? beating up some one so many times and may be killing them later is the issue here. Their family 'honour' and his sexual orientaions should be the least important things here. Ninka uu nika dilayo oon iska celineynay and just staying there is just an evidence of how individuals can be stirpped of human dignity and self respect theough the use of power (money and authority). I hope he gets life sentencse for doing what he did !

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: ^Have you read his signature? Nin ku dhahaayo "Ina Bakhti Lagde" baan ma'ahay miyaad erey xun/caay kale usii raadin? Nina, Tuujiye waa hore aa Toronto teesaro laga siiyay wuu is hubaa, sidaa aawgeed buu wili aflagaado uwadaa! Tuujiye, oo kalaay markaa "Marax" iigu waceysid "Walaasheey" maa ka wadaa? Bal daya wuxuu naga dhaadhacsiinaayo? Koo- kat ina bakhti lagde is enough to serve the purpose already ee waanba iska daayay LOL.

@ KK iyo Aaliyah good to know in laila arkay ninkan khaldakiisa mar hore. Waanba yabanaa waxaan is lahaa SOL sisters maxeey ninka u qaban wayeeyn lakiin haduu diiday in uu daayo si unbaan uga jareynaa kol oon eray xun isna u radino. @ MMA waad ogtahay waan iska celin lahaa ninkan si fiican ee waxaan is leeyahay bal the SOL rules ilaali lakiin I could open the dictionary and get worse words... @ Tuujiye are you sure you can stand ereygaan soo doorto. It could be a lot worse than the one uu sheegay MMA. But seriously inadeerow 'bajaq' is not nice ee iska daa. It sounds might disrespectful.

The suppressed feminist in me is screaming don't discuss this but I will.... Some physical qualities of beautiful women; Curvey but but not fat medium height (about 5.3-5.7) indha cadcad aff madow xubana jalaqsan (if you don't understand that i don't know how to explain it). Timo dherdheer oo madow. Ilko cadcad Again there is always dookh and different preferences for different people... Most importantly qurux is how you feel about your self inside hadaad nafsadad ku qanci weydo no amount of qurux will help where you lack in self confidence... On the other hand Nimanka Somalida geneska quruxda maxaa ka asiibay ? And yes it does matter how a man looks. Who wants subax walbe in uu wajiyada qaar ka soo ag kaco...istaagfurulaah but I just had to ask that.

Tuujiye I don't see you saying "bajaqdan waa walasheey" Am I right? If I can use to describe the women in your life waa ok lakiin hadii kale naga wada daa dee ! Ama intaan shiraan magac xun idiin keeneynaa idinkana LOL !

Congratulations Juxa... I can feel a bright future is ahead for you and those that you will serve in the pursuit of justice.

Tuujiye maxaad horta mar walbe 'bajaq' u siticmaashaa? I am I the only one who finds it offensive?

Bubbly by Colbie Cailiat and feeling bubbly....

Alshabaab baad tahay maxeey u dhihi naag kaluu guursanayaa baba ku filan ee

Guys I mean everything I said; igama aha fowdo. True, men need an ego boast every now and than. Also true that we do have good Somali brothers ! Kuwa aan fiicneyna, like I said some where else, serve a purpose...but we are still proud of our men.

Humans beings are known to thrive on praise and rewards. Too much negativity can effect the vibe of relationships and how people connect. Let me re-write that... Men have a fragile ego and need constant praise and rewards to do well. Seriously waxbaa ka jira arintaas so I partly agree with you though...faanka in la bilaabo weeye hada. Yaa idnka fiicanba ilamo adeerayaal lol

Go Aasiya...It is high time we were given our share of the power in Somalia. I am not sure if we would do better but we would definitely not do worse than this. I am glad in eey madaxa dadatay...baryahan less and less educated women are doing that...

Horta this is an evidence that it is impossible to be a sheekh and a politcian in the secualar system....Sheekh sharif madaxweyni iyo siyaasi midna ma aha ee wadaada kitabadooda ha ku ekaadaan unless there is an Islamic government. No one can keep their integrity in two contradictory roles. Mida kale only Somali will make a big deal out of a handshake when hundreds of people are dying everyday...talk of missing the bigger picture....Always !

Horta this is an evidence that it is impossible to be a sheekh and a politcian in the secualar system....Sheekh sharif madaxweyni iyo siyaasi midna ma aha ee wadaada kitabadooda ha ku ekaadaan unless there is an Islamic government. No one can keep their integrity in two contradictory roles. Mida kale only Somali will make a big deal out of a handshake when hundreds of people are dying everyday...talk of missing the bigger picture....Always !

Originally posted by rudy-Diiriye: quote:Originally posted by Ismalura: Isn't it more wise to be the second wife of a smart, rich, good-looking guy than the first wife of a none-too-bright, poor, unattractive man? It may be Prometheus...but than we can be the only wife of a smart, rich, good looking guy Since when did women chose good looks over money! Remember even in heaven, Eve played around with dude who had the more materials...! so as history shows, women always go for the material thangs than good looks. Its just their nature. Rudy horta you need to re-read the story of creation coz you totally got it wrong about Xaawo/Eve... And not all the women would trade of everything for money....No amount of money can comsate for foolxumada qaar oon arkay (istaaqfurulaah) I can make my own money so I would rather have a handsome man but than, Like I said before, we can have a guy who is rich,handsome and monogamous lol ! Seriously, a girl can only hope...

Originally posted by rudy-Diiriye: quote:Originally posted by Ismalura: Isn't it more wise to be the second wife of a smart, rich, good-looking guy than the first wife of a none-too-bright, poor, unattractive man? It may be Prometheus...but than we can be the only wife of a smart, rich, good looking guy Since when did women chose good looks over money! Remember even in heaven, Eve played around with dude who had the more materials...! so as history shows, women always go for the material thangs than good looks. Its just their nature. Rudy horta you need to re-read the story of creation coz you totally got it wrong about Xaawo/Eve... And not all the women would trade of everything for money....No amount of money can comsate for foolxumada qaar oon arkay (istaaqfurulaah) I can make my own money so I would rather have a handsome man but than, Like I said before, we can have a guy who is rich,handsome and monogamous lol ! Seriously, a girl can only hope...

Originally posted by Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar: Aniga waaba yaabanahay. When did the TLC (The Learning Channel last I knew) became a tabloid fodder TV channel. For a decade this channel ma fiirsan, but the past couple of months fiirsaday and wax badan iga dambeeye. Every show seems like ciyaal ciyaal show. There is little people 'reality' show; there is a family with their 19 kids or so around; another family with eight kids that are set twins; one about filthy living people. And then there are the cake show, wedding dress show, female prison show... Whatever happened to 'learning' the true, interesting stuff that is also mature. MMA sounds to me like you watch it a lot more than you would admit LOL !

Isn't it more wise to be the second wife of a smart, rich, good-looking guy than the first wife of a none-too-bright, poor, unattractive man? It may be Prometheus...but than we can be the only wife of a smart, rich, good looking guy

Zack I know they are for fundraising but cut the entertainment costs and we could have $100k more. I am increasingly feeling that we have become too much self indulged as a community. You could always pay 100$ for qaraan with out expecting dinner and entertainment in return... That said I understand that these may increase the community responsibility and sharing sentiments...anyway enjoy the show.

If I should start a new mucaarad... I would say lacagtaad riwaadaha ku adeysaan dadka rafadsan u dira. Why is that in the west when a group of people decide to do something for a good cause they eat and entertain them selves more than they help?

I suport integration and giving back to the country that you live in but joining the army is a big No No for me. When there is a conflict of labo interest you choose the on that means more to you... marka I guess I understand both sides of this.

I suport integration and giving back to the country that you live in but joining the army is a big No No for me. When there is a conflict of labo interest you choose the on that means more to you... marka I guess I understand both sides of this.

Originally posted by NinaNC: AUN caruurtii dhimatey. Qurba joogtii depression ayaa dilooyo, dhul joogtana AK47 iyo RPG ayaa dilooyo. Allah ummadeena u gargaar. Exactly NinaNc...meshan qofba qol intuu isku xidhay baa la isla wada hadalay...back home depression iyo waxyabahas ma badneynaa. Sometime its a good thing that we can come on SOL and vent out anonymously Lol

She looks unstable and no matter what she did the last thing she needs now is anyone judging her. That said I wonder why there was no one with qof madaxa lagaga jiro who has five kids. The father in Somalia? what about Extended family, daris and everyone? I agree with Kuun kuun that this says something about the lose of cultural identity in our society. In the Somali traditional way of life someone would have taken care of this children and their mother even if it means in la kala wado. Ilaahow u danbi dhaaf oo dhibatada ka dul qaad.

Subaxanalah, firstly ilaahyow dadkan soo hanuuni... 15 year old immigrant homeless girl? horta this is child abuse not to mention the exploitation and the whole lot of other ugly acts. Like Sayid somali said I am surprised that many people are not surprised by this. Honestly how many somali girls oo prostitutes ah baad taqnaan? How many Somali men oo prostitution ka shaqeysatad taqanaan? not many I would say. And how did this go on this long with out any one saying or doing anything about it? Personally this is one of the worst and saddest things aan maqlo in a long time and I am appalled. Mida kale this is not an individual problem rather it is consequence of underlaying social problem like poverty,lose of cultural identity etc. We, therefore, need to be thinking of ways to solve these problems as a community; if for nothing else just for the fact that this could be anyone's fifteen year old daughter, sister or relative.