Originally posted by chocolate & honey: No sane person can ever accept such barbaric ruling. A wife is not your child. She is a grown, intelligent, mature woman who is responsible for raising children. So why the F would someone "decipline" another grown person? A man touches me and he will never use that hand again. Uff! C&H millions of sane women are brainwashed into believing and taking this *********. Since many of this women have no religious or secular education men quote the Scriptures to make it sound like it is actually an obligation to do things like this. Unfortunately domestic violence happens to women every where every day. And to illustrate that it is not just about the difference in physical strength the man sleeps in the same room after beating up his wife and eating the food she cooked. They could do something if they wanted to, right? How do warm blooded human beings become so subservient? Go figure adiga !

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: In fairness, could a wife discipline her husband? This made me LOL ! I swear I once asked some one the exact some question after he argued that the beating is good for reserving the marriage. Let us just say he could only speak in tongues and quickly changed the topic never to start it again. If it is about the betterment of the marriage they should take turns beating each other up when one of them steps out of line.

This is is the thing with gabdhaha africa laga soo guursanayo. A loser Farax (sorry for the generalization lakiin saasey u badanyihiin kuwa safra) with a 3000 dollars baan Africa aadi to find himself a wife he neither knows nor met before ! Maamoyinkii baa isku dhax kici to find him a wife....waxaa deedna la soo xuli one of the most beautiful (and mostly dumb ) girls oo nimankii Africa joogay ku dhici waayeen. The Farax comes back here and continues chasing after everything in a skirt and blouse as he waits for his wife. 200 boqol haduu diro bishi xisaabtan kale ma jiro yaaba ka fiican ninkaas. I have to add that sometimes the Xaliimo starts sheekoyin yadana and spends the money on other guys (this is rare) Few years later hablo markuu sponsaringkii u dhamaado comes here expecting to enjoy life in the land of milk and honey together with her rich husband only to find her self In gheto in Toronto or London. Farax oo ama ceydhii buu la struglegreynaya ama labo shift oo adadag buu shaqeynaya wuxuuna filayaa naag baari ah oo juc iyo jacda ogol meanwhile Xaliimo's expectations are crashed...labadii qof oon is aqoonin have to deal with day to day reality together and than.... In a nutshel sheekada guurka Africa laga soo guursanayo dhibkeedo waxaa weeye everyone is looking for an easy way out and ends up falling in to a marriage from hell instead.

I know that there are different religious points of view on this subject and I am not knowladgable to enough to comment on them. I don't want to get into danbi intaan afarahas gali, however, I am responsible for my life and no one is 'disciplining' me. No not in this life !

Wiil cusub brain washka London iyo Somalia ma kala xigo. Aniga this whole idea of pologamy ma taagero however, nin 10 sano kadib naag kale gursday ama atleast bilo ka dib waa waji lakiin waxan hal habeen la guursanayo waa dayuusnimo cad. How do people even concieve such ideas in the first place? Walahi tii hore waan ka xaaaqay lakiin tan danbe jidhiidhacyo ayaeyba igu kicisay. Like I said before gabdhahan hadii maskaxda laga qabsaday away dadkii dhalay. My dad would kill me long before I do such nonsense. Waxan showga laga dhiganayo sharaf daradiisa lamaba arko miyaa?

Horta marka hore waa DUMAR or HAWEEN and not NAAGAHA. Nina exactly my point ! I hope the new PM is not all talk like EVERYONE we saw before. I am extremely cynical about all this but I guess we should give him a chance to see what happens

Wacleykuma Salaam Waraxamtulaah Wabarakaatuhu akhi-al-aziz.

Waxaan la yabnahay dadka faraha badan ee leh yagaa ogol or they are happy....as usual gabdho maskiin ah oon wax garneyn oo brainwash lagu sameyay baa mesha joogo. Did you hear how defensive they all were "aad baan u farxasanahay" even before they were asked. I didn't buy it a second aniga. Romantic love is possessive in nature. Haweenka nabiga ee aduunka ugu qiimo badnaa ayaaba maseyri jiray ee maxaad u maleysaa naag maanta joogta.I love you so much that I really want to share you?....I think not. gabadho aadan xoog iyo xoolo aad ku anafacdo u heynin in aaad iska guursato waaba danbi. Polygamy like everything else in Islam has conditions sida ey NInanc sheegtay and many men will answer to God for that.

Originally posted by Maaddeey: ^'Afkaa feyd, ilkahaa aan tiriyee' aa waddaa Abbaa, geberta ii dhaaf warkeed waa cad yahay! Yaa kale hee, waa ninkii ragga ahaa!. Maaadeey marna adigu kitabaha nagu dareeri marna fowdadaas oo ale bilow. Mida kale maxaan ku khadhaadhnaa maskiinkan wax loogu xishaba aan ka muuqan. It is that if he were rich and handsome waanba u yara garaabi laheyn gabdhaha lakiin...... : :confused: MMA stop asking suaalaha aad jawaabtooda ogtahay ! We don't want to share the whole man; his time, his money and what ever else he got (that could mean anything and everything)

Originally posted by NinaNC: lol@wax scarce ah ma arag. Taasi anigaa kaaga marqaati ah. Nina and Aliyah glad you agree with me on this. Dhaaxaa Farax melaha taagan ee Is xayeysiis baan u fahmay warkaas

Originally posted by Aaliyyah: loooooooooooooooooooooool sheekoyinkan oo kale horta maba fahmo. waxan diinta miyey ogoshahay? at least muu midba habeen la aqal galo (even thou am actually against teh whole polygamy idea laakin each on his own and I know deentu way fasaxday).. ma niman baa la wayey markay mid labaduba gursanayaan wa suaale salaam LOL @ Aliyah Actually there is a supposed scarcity of men oo baryahan la shego but I am not buying it. I would sooner stay single than sit there with another woman especially on the same night ! Waxa qaarkiisa waaba ka darow.

Waxaasoo dhan waa show iyo hala idinka sheegaan u maleynayaa.... Hebalow ma dhiigaa silingo lagaaga nuugay baan maqli jiray? Naagahan saan yela hadey yaga khafiifeen dadkii dhaly awaye ninyahow? So annoying Dhuh !

Eyes on me !

Originally posted by Thankful: If I keep hearing that garbage that Clan is everything! Wallahi anyone with basic historical knowledge would know that clans were invented and exploited by COLONIALISTS. The British (mostly but other Europeans have also) have been blamed for exploiting the most minor linguistic or physical difference - they would find out how people spoke and arm both sides to fight each other, threatening one group with the fact that they will help the other side destroy them. It was a way for them to pit one group against another or divide and conquer! It's sad that some raised in the west (like me) have fallen for this B.S. We were getting along peacefully before they arrived to exploit our resources! Look at Rwanda, Kenya and practically every African Country and read up about history!! You would think people raised outside of Somalia wouldn't think that way! You are just carrying the legacy that they planted generations ago, This thread is everything that is wrong with us ! Everything ! The animosity about people killed decades or years ago, the hatred that each clan has for the others and the blind loyalty to people from ones clan. You would think that getting exposed and educated would change this things but see what is happening. Walahi if this is the generation that Somalia is waiting for we are eternally doomed. For God's sake use aqligiina to judge people and actions and not qabiilkooda ! and for once learn to forgive the past so we can heal us a nation and live together Thankful I am thankful to God for people like you. Indeed Qabiil is not everything. I did not grow up in the west and where I grew up qabill was everything but fortunately i stopped buying in to the ********* markaan weynaday alxamdulilah !

Ilaahey ha u naxariisto.

Listening to stuff like: Fartuun birmo "qabweyniyo hadaad kibir aad keento golahana keygoon soo bandhigo iyo kaskeygaan ku barayaa" And Kellie Pickler "oh, I'm about to show you just how missin me feels In my red high heels... I just kicked you to the curb In my red high heels" feels good and than you give it some little time after which you MOVE ON to the next frog !

Agah ! qof ba xanuunsan markaad maqasho ilaahey ha unaxariisto unbaa la dhihi jiray ee waa maxay bagbageynta? Walahi it shocks me that people can store so much hatred in their hearts ! Acuudubilaah.

Funny stuff LOL !

LOL !

Churchill is really funny. I watched his clips on youtube like a hundred times each !

Malika unfortunately that happens to people somehow.When a woman is severely abused by her husband and she doesn't do anything it is not just a question of physical strength. Some times people become so complacent and take everything ! It is the lose of self worth...

Malika unfortunately that happens to people somehow.When a woman is severely abused by her husband and she doesn't do anything it is not just a question of physical strength. Some times people become so complacent and take everything ! It is the lose of self worth...

Originally posted by Gheelle.T: quote:Originally posted by Che -Guevara: How's she a powerful woman? Her hubby is the King of world!! Michelle is a powerful woman in her own right. She doesn't live in her husband's shade and has come along way by her self. She as educated as Obama and was even his senior at work when he was first out of school. She has initiated projects of her own and she does have a lot of influence in the US which has a lot of influence in the rest of the world....And that is how she is a powerful woman.

Oprah and Michelle In the top five...Now that blck sisters power. That Obama is a wise man is evident from his choice of a wife Lol. Greatwoman Michelle !

a woman who can be her own man and a man who is in touch with his feminine side .. they live together as friends .. Sounds like an intresting theory. On the other hand you just got to love Arweelo...if it true that she did arimaha qaarkood Lol