umu zakaria

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  1. WHy r u sayinmg most somali ppl are ablivious to khad? Aqoon la'aan waa iftiin la'aan, yes right, now can you implement that maah maah urself?
  2. Acuudu bilaah. how cruel is she to tell that to her kids. Insane, Insane woman.
  3. Good questions. I think am heading the right direction and insha Allah all will be rolling for me soon. Thanks Keyf
  4. Heartbreaking. I feel for the mother and father, they shouldnt have gone thru that. I cried as i watched them talk abt their emosions. How many more will suffer. Wallahi we are lost. Yaa Allah, restore harmony, love and tranquility among our selves again. This is just terrible. I dont even want to watch part two.
  5. Wax kasta caadiyeey soo noqonayaan. we tend to import bad habits and become proud of them! Khaad, sigaar iyo shiisho r all dangerous,qof was isku falaayana ma isticmaalo. Only losers do.
  6. Honestly we gain nothing from hatred towards some old sick criminal, but heey wait and so is RIYAALE, GEEDI, CALI MAHDI did u hear what he said on VOA*he regrets his participation in dagaalkii sokeeye, I dont know why he doesnt regret what he does right now.).AND so is everyone who calls himself tribal leader and war mongers EVERYWHER. My point is, it not late for Abdullahi yusuf to repent. Sure he committed many mistakes against innocent pple but Allah is all merciful. It would benefit all involved to try to put themselves in his position today, and do what is right rather than taking sides. we will also account for all of our actions.
  7. Hall of Fame. Dr. Hawo Abdi for her dedication and free service to the somali community in her palace! I admire her alot Hall of shame. My self for sitting on this chair and contributing nothing to somalia in Somalia!
  8. No man deserves in bacda loo tuuro especially at night or during bad weather. For ur information some men also way ka eryahaan hablaha goryohooga. what a shame especially for a man to do that to some one he calls wife. Also those men oo bacaha loo tuuro should try to improve and be a proper husband. maxeey horta isu bahdilaan iyakuna? nin wanaagsan cidna bac uma tuurto. some men take women for granted and women with some level of authority these days, do what they may think is deserved. Alloow na amaanso
  9. Duke must divert attensions to elsewhere hadii kale duqiisa uu caabudo unbaa laga sheekeeyn who is in and out of comma.
  10. I was called reserved all the time but not anymore. Those were the days when i was in the middle of a very large family. Alxamdulilaah never getting 5 minutes alone. I miss that though i didnt appreciate it then. I hope we dont die alone. it is scary. May be i should write a will now just incase and pls foregive me if i hurt anyone of you. Especially sister Da'wa. I dont know why, but when i hear some die, i feel i will be next one. do you feel like that or scared?
  11. wooooooooow Ghanima welcome back. There is been rumours u were in Burco?
  12. Originally posted by Ma'wa: [QB] why are you misspelling my name, if there is one thing i can't stand it's people who misspell/mispronounce names. if you're doing it to annoy me congratulations you've won. I apologize Originally posted by Ma'wa: I wasn't generalizing I was talking about the ones I came across who had everything going for them which made me wonder if the wife had something to do with their success.) Yes, see smart wives Originally posted by umu zakaria: Iam married to a somali man and never in my life before and after marriage have i thought of marrying foreigner not that i have anything against those other brothers in islam, but i found my love from within and alxamdulilaah it gets more blessed by the day) This comment above was dedicated to my husband Originally posted by umu zakaria: Iam also tired abt all these somali lacking this, somali men lacking that. yes they r far from perfect and may not be the best husbands but they r the best fathers atleast to me :cool: This comment was dedicated to my father [/quote by Ma'wa] One minute you telling the world how you found your love but the second comment you're saying he's just a good father and nothing more than that is that why you seeking a second wife for him in the hope things will change. You need to attend a marriage counselling sessions ASAP, you've got so many issues to deal with. Hehe. I have the best marriage counselling at home. The Holy Qur,an and sunnah of our beloved prophet. I do not need any one else to tell me how I should stay married [/quote by Ma'wa] what's with the continous double standard and contradiction who are you trying to impress abaayo its ok to be different, a pat on your shoulder and wow comment from the opposite gender isn't going to make you popular. we're not in high school no need to seek for approval. Was it not you who started the thread? Even if as you say I try to impress them, what would I or they gain from it? they know am the oldest woman in SOL , they all know am married. All am trying to say is no one is perfect, everyone including you and I. U admitt that the succes of these husbands may be the result of their wife, why not be smart and transform one too. Dont take things personal sis.
  13. Originally posted by Dhubad: A wadaad once told me that he was approached by an Imam of a local mosque in London and told him the majority of sisters who are currently looking for marriage are Somalis and irronically most of them said they prefer men from other races. So the Imam said to the Somali wadaad "what have u done to your sisters" the wadaad was dumbfounded and couldn't give him an answer. To the sisters what is the problem? I am sure no one is 100% perfect but I believe is better to stick with your own kind, makes the life easier I guess ! Dawa these comment was what i replied to. If you revisit the first page, u can clearly see I had no problem with ur topic though u used that famous generalization that all the good somali men are married. If you have decided to go to a local mosque searching for a husband, pls dont generalize and say i cant find a good practising wadaad. we have plenty. Iam also tired abt all these somali lacking this, somali men lacking that. yes they r far from perfect and may not be the best husbands but they r the best fathers atleast to me :cool:
  14. kkkkkkkkk. Nothing ofcourse ani cidna ma xanti.
  15. LAyzie haye I know ur a big fan of marcsmith. intuusan soo galin aaba xayissiintisa nugu dishay. secondly, for some body who says he is fighting for a change and that he wants inuu soomalida isu keeno, to call them trashes at the same time is just not smart. Have u watched the report aired by chanel 4 abt immigrants? somalis being the least contributors to the economy? if am not wrong, i think u did so tell me was it the EURO.Trashes? no it was Somalis who lived there for more than 15 yrs. the real qoxootis there. Scandanivia is a very closed invoronment unlike london where it feels like close to home. Pple move there coz they want to, so who is marc, you or I to question why? The rule of law doesnt restrict them marka adinku maxaa xabsi u galinaysaan? Let me make one thing very clear. Marc is against somalis from other European countries to mingrate to Uk.Ma cayrtiibaa ku filnaan waysay. He himself lives in uk as a result of the hospitality of UK goverment and it is pple. PS. I live in norway, i intend to visit UK in summer and I dont think i deserve to be called Euro.trash coz i travelled from Norway. were u a Canadian.trash when u visited Europe? Marc it would be benficial if you made ur arguments strong and present facts not feeling.
  16. good article. For a minute i thought u were the big brother setting rules. markaasaan is iri yaa maanta u duceeyey qunyar u socodkii duqa ahaa.
  17. Skipper she is back, for some reasons though she is not like before. No more looooooooools and kix kaaaaxs. waxaan u malayn in si xun loogu waramay intay maqnayd.yaa baasoo war xumo tashiilay. I hope ur brother n the rest have completly recovered kk.
  18. kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk@asagiina waa la ceeyriyey. maskiin
  19. Hehehe. iam picturing ur facial reaction as u read below. Many somali girls swear they will never settle for a married man and that they would rather marry from other races so why not be a little flexible and accept 2 be wife no.2 , 3 or 4 or vise vasa if the man is capable. This way ur helping the society and the future of somalia, your within, more importantly, everyday of u bearing with and with holding ur anger, masayr, ximin will be rewarded by Allah. is'nt that magnifisent.
  20. B. Analsyt Thank you, I appreciate your efforts. You are a good Soler with lots of descipline and you have good integrity. Your interactions have so far been been very useful to us. Ps. how r u feeling now? Seriuously, iam not scarcastic. it was indeed a good read.
  21. Almuminah what I call desperate is not the effort these girls put to get married from other races, that is ok becouse i dont decide whom they should but..... what I call desperate is bashing and insulting all somali men in the process. You dont have to insult and belittle ur owm father, brother, cousins so some other man can have pity on you and mary you. Some dignity pls. PS. Woman have always outnumbered men that could be one of the reasons why we need to accomodate one onother
  22. That despearate. Going to local mosque to look for men from other races whom they dont even know yet? I expected better from somali woman. Now i can understand why pple like modesty n da'wa r ranting against somali men. Ps.I wish ladies could be fair with their expectations and admit that we too have our owm shot comings. Iam married to a somali man and never in my life before and after marriage have i thought of marrying foreigner not that i have anything against those other brothers in islam, but i found my love from within and alxamdulilaah it gets more blessed by the day.
  23. i hope the refusing of protest of ODM party will not couse further escaltiobns and make problems worse.