LOOOOOl@Ameen. a whole year and he is stil cruising. Bisinka wax waalan baad sheegaysaa. Kaas naagtiisa uur ku jirtii baaba madoobaatay walaahi aminkaan way boloshay. acuudka. No muslima will be against what Allah permitted but she has the right to ask for a divorce if she cant deal with a polygamist husband. Ameen you ask why woman dislike ploygamy? I ask you if your wife decided to befreind another man and you know very well when n where they canoodle togather, what would say? God forbid that is haraam but logically apart from mixing up of paternal rights, the whole issue is the same. so you see my point. Polygamy is very hard on woman, it tears their hearts and bruises their souls however, we must accept as an order from Allah and strife to gain thawab through our struggle. After all life is not an easy journey and this world is just temporary. It could be fullfiling to share with your fellow sister what you love most.

it is ok to not drive. but i agree with kids and this hectic life you cant live without a caravan.

Bizzarrrrrrrrrrrre.

I used to believe that if my future husband dared another woman, i would kill him, very very cruel kill but now that am married I CHANGED, i took a 90 degree turn When i see how happy Iam alxamdulilaah with my marriage and I go and meet a sister whose only wish is to find a decent husband so she could feel loved and have kids before it is too late, i foreget my selfish masayr. I even gave my husband a hint and told him so and so is a nice girl, she wants to settle down and i dont mind sharing you with her so why dont you go and hit on her? He says I will only marry if you die before me. I have to admitt sometimes when this subjects is discussed or i hear someone else marrying a second wife i get the goose pumps,I cant help

If you dont want to ask her what she would like as a gift then i reccommend this for a somali mum. 1. Clothes, anything even a praying set, guntiino, dirac, dresses or Abayas. 2. Perfumes. Try to find her favourite. i never get enough of my fav. perfume. 4. She doesnt like jewelery , how about a nice watch? 5.Some great shoes or even a handbag. 6.A nice rejuvenating and deep moisturizing body lotion. or even whole beuty set. 7. If she is driving, u can renovate her car. The interior i mean. 8. If there is some one she supports back home, or gets concerned abt them, somebody she loves, send them money if you can afford on her behalf. That could make her really happy. 9. Tell her you how much you love her and cook her favourite meal, if you dont cook, buy it. I hope u have a wonderful time with your mum and simblings.

The most postive topic u posted so far marc. Goodluck, and am glad, it is a good step foreward for all of us. thanks

it is sexually Transmitted Not sexually Coused Fatboy. there can be ways u can get STD fek a mother to child,from blood transfusion, from sharing needles n other personal stuff,poor hygiene, close personal contact etc. MMA the oldman is trying to inform us adigana waa ka dabo qaadanee intaa asxantu dhihi leheed. JB adigane warkaa soo xadaysid is ka aayar.

Ka daroo dibi dhal. JB ur so caring but i aslo ask how do you know ALOT of pple have STDS?

some faces look so familiar there.

adiga ku jire cali aa tahay walaahi. canada, australia, somalia, europe iyo asia. ninyohow waan kaa yaabaye adigu ganacsade lacagi ka uraysana kaba darnide amaad kuwo Somaliland recognition u raadiyoo kabaha aduunka dacaladiisa kaga dhamaadeen ku jirtaa? if so Illaahay ha idiin sahlo that is heck of a job.

Today am so home sick. I cant get vivid memories of Somalia out my head . I just want go back home. So may be i will just go to some peceful parts though i cant visit where i was born but may be go to other parts. just landing on a somali soil will cure me. I hate the alien i have become on those whitemans land. am just so sick. i hope my kids will have peaceful somalia to go back to and I mean somalia the WHOLE PACKAGE. PEACE where r u? yaa Allaah make our land properious and peaceful, make our pple love each other and be one united nation again.

very impressive. may they succeed insha Allah. JB adigu baranbarana ka socod badnid meelaadan taginba malaha kuma taal soomaaliyoo dhan.

Originally posted by Kool_Kat: [ Xuuuuuuuuuux. Abooto xuuux waaye Illaahayoow aan habeenoo madoow kac baambar usoo xir la dhihin. waa very stylish laakiin duqda caadi ma ahan

dhag weyn=doqon Laga roone= gay Alle ku sii= child born out of wedlock far lama gelin= never been to school ha ii jaakrin= dont ignore ha igu salixin= dont bother convincing me ha i cabsiin= same as above waa soo indho cadyahay waxaan la yaabanahay most of the slang words r used negatively.

Maansha Allah what a great read. much respect to you cadaan. looking 4ward 2 p3

congrats awlugeeye. May u succeed insha Allah.

loooooooooooool@nuune. i should have gone mad but this made me lough until i cried. Did you realy had to say how many litres uu jirigaanku qaado. balaayo idin cabirtay

Fartun most important person is YOU, if you feel ur not ready yet both mentally n physically dont rush but consult with your husband on Birth control. Dont succumb into pressure from outside, they will nt be the ones to raise. recover well, take control of ur health n spend good time with ur hubby n little one before u get really busy. Mine is only 9 months and pple ask me are you pregnant all the time, if i say no they will ask me why? :eek: way iska xirtay naagtu ilmihiiye iska daa baa hada la igu xantaa.

NG may be she was scared of you. lol

I have been to Hargeisa in 2003 and 2004 and i never saw anything like that. girls dress like that only when they go to wedings. May be i didnt go to those specific places ghanima

musqul? asagaa markaasoo kale boosaneer iyo bakhtiba ka daran oo meelwalbo ka mashmashay suu taksi ugu baraaqay markaasuu naag musqul ku tilmaama.

Timahaa iigu daran. Alla muxuu xijaabku qurux leeyahay. She would have been the most beautiful hadeey si appropriate ah u labisan lahayd. Girls ha igu kicina am happy for the sister and i hope all goes well for her but see how menn think. They always THINK WITH THEIR BELT! qaraslee ha isku dilina. aqrud aa la idin yiri.

Barakallahu lakum, wa baaraka fiikum, wa jamaca beynakum bil khayr. Awguuriyo Nibrown. Be the best husband oo gabadha ii kool kooli pls. Aaliyah i had assumed faaraxbrown until he congratulated ninbrown himself. Faaraxbrawn waxa luguu saadaaliyo waad heshaa. ur getting hitched soon.

Many can closely relate to his experiances. A very young man once told me if my older brother had the opportunity he would kill you for being from that tribe! I didnt know whether i could run for my life or ask him why all the hatred. but i guess they were traumatized n i cant question their emotions. though i had a very similar experiance, i feel for every innocent somali who is suffering. the 11 year old boy in mogadishu is not the same 11 yrs old boy in 1991, so lets foregive and work towards brotherhood n sisterhood for the sake of our kids n the land they will call home.

Originally posted by me: Inaalilaahi. This kid is so terrified. Illaahayoow ka qabo.