Maansha Allah, They r so cute those kids brought tears to my eyes, i hope they will grow up to great scholars of islam. May Allah reward their parents and those who trained them. i luv them Thanks for the links wa jazzakalahhau khayran

I have to admitt, alot of times i question my intensions, am i really doing this to gain that or is it solely for Allahs sake. The other day i was with cristian neighbour and she curiously asked me how i felt about polygamy in islam and asked dont u resent even a bit? i had admitt u woman dont celebrate being a co wife but at the same time tried to showcase the merits. It is Allah who permitted and we aint smarter so for our own good we got sacrifice but again i felt i had a mixed feeling of resentment which is not intertained in islam and abodeince, just except Allahs command and work it out. How do you feel about polygamy? isnt it better for us woman to let men marry willingly if they can and just work hard for the here after?

Zulekha thanks for hadith, may Allah strenghen it for you, i kind of envy that but with good intensions sis. I enabled private messaging. Aisha sis no offence but u kind of got some trust issues! we can chat if u wanna screen me. Cambaro i live in norway. i smile and got some meaninful freindship i love them dearly it is just that here ladies r cold shouldered, dont know why. Lily i do speak arabic but not fluent, i prefer somalis and just want to have what other races have! Thanks ladies. This helps great deal.

Trying to observe my obligatory duties as a muslima, wife, mother, doughter, sister, freind and as a living being. My moms voice Giving help when most needed, Reading quraan being pregnant for the first time whenever i hear my husbands praise and love for me. Hot baths when my child moved for the first time when i saw my baby ultrasound first, i cried and cried with immense happiness

SA, I lived in Kaleej and i had some freinds whom we regularly met and discussed mainly deen and some other important staff. Enjoyed their company and missed their inputs coz i moved to Europe. I went to some ladies club in persuit of a good new freindship instead i was welcomed with weird glances and shux shux, some of them spoke swahili and said^naa midaan cusubna maxay ahayd? si xun bay ii fiirinaysaa malaha may arag wax surwaal qaba? reer dhoore waaxid and concluded that is why i hate those ever increasing new somali faces in this town. Shocked, i gave her the true weird look and could not respond coz my intensions and their reactions were way apart. I left broken hearted and went to the local mosque where those woman sat in groups and started wispering naa halkay ka timid, waa qoladee ma la qabaa and so on. ooh, why cant we get to know each other as somali sisters who meet and love for only Allahs sake? I love my fellow woman folks but i really envy somali men for there are many who meet for Allahs sake and who love each other. Do you have freinds you meet and disparse only for Allah,s course without xan iyo qabiil iyo ximin. If you do, may Allah increase it for you and make your meeting worthy.

Hi All, big hug to cambaro and ibtisam, am I a lurker? i leave that to u cambarooy. Jacaylbaro Illaahayoow aanan kuusoo martin! yes i did joined but i lost my userid and found my way in today but i used to read alot.

Salama Aleikum, Marry the one who meets the islamic marriage requirements quota! that is if ur a practising muslim man. Education is beneficial but holding MD from a reputed uni doesnt measure up to the one who acquired a proper knowledge of diinteena. pls welcome me here am new.