umu zakaria

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  1. May Allah reward u for ur best wishes theone and only and Rahima Illaahayna hanoo aqbalo thanks alot
  2. What can i say am so overjoyed by all ur responses. Jazzakumullaahu khayran Munira, nephthys,Aaliyah and nuune. Aamiin Allaha ii aqbalo duacdiina. nephthys i like isku nuuga but aint easy in the west dear but whatever Allah blesses me i will always be grateful. children r such pleasures i dont think i can ever have enough! but i wish i could space them up for like 2 yrs. Thanks again all.
  3. Jazzakumullahu khayran Thiery, northerner, zenobia and nubia. Illahayna hanoo aqbalo ducadiina.
  4. jazzaakaalah jacaybaro.
  5. u have been thru 9 vigorous months and bfed ur baby. she has a wright to be bfed until she is 2yrs. Prophet Mohamed SAW son Ibrahîm had a wet-nurse as occurs in a hadîth and when his son passed away he was only 1 year and 10 months old so there were two months of suckling left for him so the Prophet sallallâhu alaihi wa sallam said as narrated by Al-Bara (bin Azib): The Prophet, after the death of his son Ibrahîm, said, " There is a wet-nurse for him (i.e. Ibrahîm) in Paradise."[6] sis unless u and ur husband want to have sooner i suggest wait til 2 yrs by then u have also rested and regained ur strenghts insha Allaah. whichever way may Allaah make all easy and possible for u.
  6. SA all, To all those walaaleheey who have contributed to uniqiue name search request, THANK U and jazzakumullahu khayran. i had a son n very contrary to my unique name i called him Mohamed, but u know first borns have many names he is mohamed , he is qadar he is zakaria he is hamza and hanad n so on. all went well alxamdulilaah, i just have much more respect for not only my wonderful mother but all mothers. May Allah reward them. I pity poor husbands unlike better old days, they have to be there and witness everything, my h could not stopp praying he just stood there troumatised but after the little one popps out n cries, subxaanaalaah midii foolanaysayba ma eheen we were all smiles and cries of immense happiness thank god Allah sw has honored me to be a mom. Iam truly grateful. I salute u all mothers of SOL
  7. crysal clear what a wonderful list of names. thank you so much for all the efforts and jazzallahu khayran all of my bros and sises contribution. it makes me feel like i have a net family here. u r all making things easier for me , i have passed my due date and though i do believe that things happen only at their designated times i feel so anxious, just want to get the pregnance over with and hold my wiil or gabar insha Allah. thanks alot being far away from my family is hard but just browsing through ur replies makes me happy.
  8. A Most Beautiful Hadith Among All The Beautiful Ahadith What Prophet Muhammad saw answered when asked about this life and the Hereafter Khalid ibn al Walîd ra narrated the following hadith: A Bedouin came one day to the Prophet and said to him, 'O, Messenger of Allah! I've come to ask you a few questions about the affairs of this Life and the Here After.' - Ask what you wish. Q: I'd like to be the most learned of men. A: Fear Allah, and you will be the most learned of men. Q: I wish to be the richest man in the world. A: Be contented, and you will be the richest man in the world. Q: I'd like to be the most just man. A: Desire for others what you desire for yourself, and you will be the most just of men. Q: I want to be the best of men. A: Do good to others and you will be the best of men. Q: I wish to be the most favored by Allah. A: Engage much in Allah's praise, and you will be most favored by Him. Q: I'd like to complete my faith. A: If you have good manners you will complete your faith Q: I wish to be among those who do good. A: Adore Allah as if you see Him. If you don 't see Him, He seeth you. In this way you will be among those who do good. Q: I wish to be obedient to Allah. A: If you observe Allah's commands you will be obedient. Q: I'd like to be free from all sins. A: Bathe yourself from impurities and you will be free from all sins. Q: I'd like to be raised on the Day of Judgement in the light. A: Don't wrong yourself or any other creature, and you will be raised on the Day of Judgement in the light. Q: I'd like Allah to bestow His mercy on me. A: If you have mercy on yourself and others, Allah will grant you mercy on the Day of Judgement. Q: I'd like my sins to be very few. A: If you seek the forgiveness Allah as much as you can, your sins will be very few. Q: I'd like to be the most honorable man. A: If you do not complain to any fellow creature, you will be the most honorable of men. Q: I'd like to be the strongest of men. A: If you put your trust in Allah, you will be the strongest of men. Q: I'd like to enlarge my provision. A: If you keep yourself pure, Allah will enlarge your provision. Q: I'd like to be loved by Allah and His messenger. A: If you love what Allah and Him messenger love, you will be among their beloved ones. Q: I wish to be safe from Allah's wrath on the Day of Judgement. A: If you do not loose your temper with any of your fellow creatures, you will be safe from the wrath of Allah on the Day of Judgement. Q: I'd like my prayers to be responded. A: If you avoid forbidden actions, your prayers will he responded. Q: I'd like Allah not to disgrace me on the Day of Judgement. A: If you guard your chastity, Allah will not disgrace you on the Day of Judgement. Q: I'd like Allah to provide me with a protective covering on the Day of Judgement. A: Do not uncover your fellow creatures faults, and Allah will provide you with a covering protection on the Day of Judgement. Q: What will save me from sins? A: Tears, humility and illness. Q: What are the best deeds in the eyes of Allah? A: Gentle manners, modesty and patience. Q: What are the worst evils in the eyes of Allah? A: Hot temper and miserliness. Q: What assuages the wrath of Allah in this life and in the Hereafter? A: Concealed charity and kindness to relatives. Q: What extinguishes hell's fires on the Day of Judgement? A: Patience in adversity and misfortunes. Related by Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal hadithpage ( hadith ) May Allah make us among the muhsineen, i just thought it would nice to share with u all. thanks for reading
  9. ooh very weird but factual topic. why kill? no one has the right to kill unless it is ordained by islam and in todays world ordainment is hardly practised. here are some quotes from one of the most beautiful hadiths i got from a website What Prophet Muhammad saw answered when asked about this life and the Hereafter Khalid ibn al Walîd ra narrated the following hadith: A Bedouin came one day to the Prophet and said to him, 'O, Messenger of Allah! I've come to ask you a few questions about the affairs of this Life and the Here After.' - Ask what you wish. Q: I wish to be safe from Allah's wrath on the Day of Judgement. A: If you do not loose your temper with any of your fellow creatures, you will be safe from the wrath of Allah on the Day of Judgement. Q: What are the best deeds in the eyes of Allah? A: Gentle manners, modesty and patience. Q: What are the worst evils in the eyes of Allah? A: Hot temper and miserliness. Q: What extinguishes hell's fires on the Day of Judgement? A: Patience in adversity and misfortunes. i will post the full hadith insha Allah
  10. salam , i want to hate anyone who uses that damn thing but i cant, my own family is so affected. my uncle, father and younger brother all use it and believe me they were best pple u would wanna spend alot of time with but now it turned them into monsters. i just pray all somalis quit and see all the dangers it couses.
  11. all great names khalaf thank you
  12. Jazzakallah hunguri, Illaahay ha idinka abaal mariyo taladiina iyo ducadiina wanaagsan. i will consider surely magool posted v good names
  13. it is good to name our kids a somali name but check names like this Arawelo and dabshid they got very negative meaning n islam forbids that but i like islamic names eg of prophets like mohamed yaxya zakaria haaruun yusuf lud as for girls maryam aisha or caasho maimuun
  14. Thanks for gr8 contribution all, Sharmaake i named my self umu zakaria when i was still a teenager abt 17yrs! coz i always dreamed of having a boy as my first born n name him zakaria then when mr. right came along and i got pregnant alxamdulilaah, my good freind and closest somali neighbour named their first born zakaria, i dont like uniformity, so may be if i move i will may be the next one if this becomes a girl.
  15. Gekko isnt that confusing! i think it may work 4 pple who want have 1 kid but me it is gonna be like Ali 1, ali2, ali3 and no one will remember until ali 13!. i wanna have as many as i can insha Allah. Motherhood is rewarding,i believe
  16. Jazzakummalu my bros and sis, I did not realise there were many unique but rich names out there. Thanks alot 4 ur wishful prayers may Allah ease the pain of any woman who is giving birth, sis zenobia am due in 2 weeks time insha Allah May Allah bless u all
  17. SA all, What should i name my kid who is on the way very soon insha Allah? Iam confused coz i got so many names for a single yet unborn child. I want something unique with a very rich meaning and very islamic.
  18. SA, Here is my recipe for KIMMIS, SUBAAYAD, JABAATI or JABATIS whatever u call it. Ingredients 500g all purpose flour 2 cups of water u must add water gradually and avoid too loose dough. pinch of salt 1 egg(optional a little sugar Method Pour the flour in to a large mixing bowl, add all ingredients and mix well, use all ur strenghs i prefer my hands rather than flour mixers let it lay for about 3 hrs note the more it lays the softer it gets. after 3 or u can opt for 1 or 2 hrs instead, devide the dough in to small 2cm cubes and spread each cube in to a small Kibbis, apply oil and fold it to its orignal shape, cover them with plasic paper and leave it for another 30 minutes, finally heat ur bir canjeero or frying pan and splash little oil, spread the jabatis one by one and cook from both sides turning it regularly using oil as little as possible to reduce fat contents. u must store the cooked jabatis in a tightly closed container. Goes so well with chicken, meat or fish stew and digir also. u can sometimes apply honey and grab a cup of hot shaah. waa quraac fiican. that is my way i hope u will like it
  19. Glad to see mothers in here. but i hear it is not islamic to celbrate i hope no one mistakes anti islamic rituals, The idea of a didicated mothers day is really uplifting. thanks to anyone who makes his her mother extra special.
  20. Sis Sulekha jazzakallah, the above fatwa helped. Naden while u can disagree to a sheikhs fatwa but there r limits, i think u,ve gone too far to call it bunch of rubbish. what is going on in ur head? have u even given aminute to chew it, those words r so familiar i keep hearing them whenever something un islamic is discussed. pls i urge u to look for some1 who can clear ur doubts. I hope u will have a different opinion next. MAY ALLAH HELP U UNDERSTAND UR DEEN
  21. ur making me lough! Ofcourse we dont need a day to celbrate mothers lov it is daily but the awareness and devotion of that to mothers all over world is kind of nice. we always take mothers lov 4 granted and saying mom ur wonderful i luv u for a day does make mums smile.
  22. Yes i feel it is not an islamic practice but not sure whether it is anti islamic. i hoped u would shed more light try,
  23. Sa , What does islam say about mothers day?
  24. SA, Do you celbrate mothers day? how do thank ur mother? what is ur most memorable event or thing about ur mother?
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