A typical day What do u really think of this? 5.30AM> wife gets up, prays and starts to prepare breakfast, wakes husband up, he easts and goes to work. UNTILL NOON> wife does the domestic work and takes care of the children, those who go to daycare n the infants. NOON. Wife prepares lunch for her husband, tries to call some freinds Husband arrives home , gets his lunch n strait to bed for napping, wakes up lator n prays takes his casariya mid evening meals or shaah whatever u call it and heads to the town or the local mosques. Comes back late evening and he is tired n wants to sleep coz he has to start over 2morrow again! wife serves dinner, tries to make some conversations with him, he may or may not even listen. She on the other hand has the pressure of raising kids, doing domestic work, some of them work, take kids to school or day care and ofcourse take care of all the husbands needs. What does she deserve in return? Believe me, somali woman have alot of patience, i for 1 cant endure all of that. Kudos to those who do that just to keep their family intact.

That was a ridiculous excuse skipper. Religious menn treat their wives best according to my observations apart from the poligamy issue!. Second r the modernized educated ones. God help the sises who married geelgireyaal. I am thinking of writing to the local sheikh coz menn r the ones who complain all the time abt us!. this is a marital crises all these wives demand is a little bit of their husbands attention, i wish I was the marriage police.

Jimcaale it seems u,ve deprived minweyn of romance, lucky r those who wont be ur minwayn one day

Sheh sis tust me, pple change.

Woow what a quick comments! DD that was quite atrick, I agree but the men iam talking abt r not that smart 2 pich up hints LOOOL coz i know them they r exactly like DABSHID! how can any woman give DABSHID a romantic hints to those men a simple suggestion for a alone time is NAGGING! Walahi my hubby is almost picking up on their habbits n they r my only somali neighbours, they also expect their wives 2 give birth every year! how considerate

Ur entitled KK, i just remembered my freind whom i stil love btw. may be u have not loved yet so wait n see hope he will be dariskaaga so u wont have to suffer.

SA, I visited gabdho daris aa nahay n they were complaning abt their husbands lack of romance, appreciation and attention, they all agreed that all their husbands do was go to work, come n eat, sleep and on weekends rash 2 the local masjid or fadhi ku dirir some local maqaayad and when wives demand their attention, all they reply is ilmahaan baad haysataaye aniga maxaad igu fali, iyo are u not already too busy! apparently mine acts more like what they described but i demand what i miss always! n i wonder why cant majority of somali husbands be romantic, try to take their wives out alone, give gifts, say sweet things and help around the house and with the kids? why not be like other society woman r not animals, they too crave attention and want be treated as an indivitual not only the house wife or the mother of the kids as we always call them. have u guyz noticed, why do menn spend most of their time with other menn especially at the mosques not gaining cilmi but just talking iyo maqaayadaha, dont they realise family too is a committment they made n must be gardened n natured all time? R somali woman crazy or r they really miss out alot more than other average wives?

K K I was in it 4 5 yrs but we met a couple of times in btw, we met in a country n both moved to different continents! coz of love, we endured and ended up 2gather alxamdulilaah! 7 yrs is not that different from 5 n they r meeting up in Decemeber insha Allah so KK intead of patting ur bro on the back n wishing him good luck, what do u suggest? am disappointed with u

Skipper i had pple like Kool kat as one of closest freinds during my long dis. rel. era and she use to advice me to dump him every weekend, Imagine trying to rest n soothe ur mind, trying to make a sense out of everything n all u have 4 support r pple like KK? but like everyone else, she is entitled 2 her opinion so dont dignify it! Whoever thinks long distance relationshipt sucks, is WRONG, iam a LIVING PROOF! Skipper if u waited that long, miro gunti ku jira kuwo geed saaran ha u daadin, go for her and insha Allah ur sabir will pay off! Allah macak akhii

i dont see any succesful huntings, no marriage or dating announcements yet, faanka dhaaf RUDY hadaadan fulay ahayn ama wax matarayaal maa gabdhaha singleda ah la xareeyo

guys dont discarriage the brother i was in a long distance relationship nearly as much as he n we ended up 2gather with a child now, c on Skipper follow ur heart, is she worth the wait n hey get off ur but n propose otherwise, she wont hang on anylonger! i beleive in a genuine long. dis. relationship

If u wana hit on her buy something sensual n seductive, girls love jewelery, i dont, so may be a goot set gold or one diamond traces n gift wrap it! if she is a younger sis to u, give her money plus show her around on weekedns, if she is like a friend aad xumaysay, get her her favourite things if u can afford or anything u find suitable, if she is just a relative u aint close, just pay a visit n drink her tea, u can give baati, good luck

Quote. This is indeed great, thanks Zenobia..Jazakhallah Kheyr sis..

QUote 3. Al Ayyamul Khaaliyah, Our Numbered Days On Earth. 4. High Fashion: Fire resisting Clothes For Somali Sisters. 5. Beitul Ankabut : Spiders Web Shelters, On Alliances and Protection Pacts. These r my fav. Bro nur jazzallah, like many have said, spirutual topics r more appealing n very beneficial esp. during ramadan.

Go ahead buuxo, hope that is ok 4everyone involved. Zenobia thx for tips, may Allah reward u insha Allah. pls tune in, i love team work, May Allah sw make it easy for everyone and instil love of quran in our hearts and make ramadan a rewarding month insha Allah

DOnt give up Naomi, ur prince is just waiting for u somewhere, just keep looking but be realistic menn r not potraits they got many crooked ends just like us.

Intel runtaan kugu jeclahay

Loot@ their feminine side, iam just waiting for them 2 comment. not bad to see them around here, gues they cant stay far, too lonely n masculine

Skipper i can only imagine how u feel every day? I was in a long distance relationship for 5 yrs, sometimes i could not go on n would think of ending there n then but we love each other n trust each other n that is what got us togather finally. If u love her like u say n u guys trust each other then be pateint, though u live far apart, one of u can try go to the other if that is not easy now just give it a time. Time heals alot. When u think of ur loneliness n the distance btween u, just remember how much u love her. Pray 4 ur happy reunion insha Allah , u guys will be happy at the end. Dont end ur relationship 4 dasake of distance coz u may regret n be miserable with onother woman u may not love as much.

What r u doing here? n why cant u have MENN section? I wonder

I mean Very good idea indeed Kashafa

Very good idea indeed. I love how u said it, that is exactly what i meant. I with a very little 1 at home and Ramadan being the bussiest month in the year for me n may be many woman will just go 4 one JUZ, Juz cama, that is how much i can committ, if dont make the deadline by Eid or any other deadline 4 uss all, i will insha Allah pay the sadaqa which must be predetermined. Bro nur thx for the support, i was almost feeling queesy abt this idea after reading first responses. I say, aan dhexda u xirano or 4 surwaalada u laabano 4 u men

Zenobia there is nothing un islamic about motivating people to learn their deen besides qura,an competition is been done all the time over the world. it is not conditional the prices r 4 motivational purposes only. i just thought we wl achieve more if we team up and make the journey fun and challenging. hope u dont see mee materialistic , may be i overstepped but not to what u think Zenobia. i like ur name

100% with ghanima, wish we were all wise like u n others. it was nt her best shot but who r we to judge? Illahay hasoo hanuuniyo ayada iyo intii la midaba Allahan uga booga dhayo dhibka qabsaday. As for him Allaha hanuuniyo hope he will learn from this. I can relate to somalis not reporting crimes. Anagoo meel suuq la buuxo ah socona ayaa nin asian ah in his early 50s nasoo dabo galay, waa kan barida gacan igaga dhuftay and as looked back he is righ behind me pretending me on the back, i was shocked as i looked back waabakan garka ii salaaxanaya, i slapped countlessly and police took hold of him n out of no nowhere nin soomal says naa iska daa miskiinka waxbo xabsi ha u dirine waakan calaacaleyee! i screamed so loud @ somali guy i wont say waxaan ku caayey. it is too graphic

Am so disappointed with u RED SEA, how can u say it was not rape. it was willful and sis crossed her leggs to protect her valuebles though drunk! xataa hadeey naag xun tahay, no one can mishandle her like that. what r u men were u not supposed to willashii aan kusoo barooran lahayn? i am pissed of with jamal, the so called director for somali advocacy, he should condemn it not justize it. i really hate when pple generalize victims, poor drunk woman hope u will pull urself 2gather.