Thank u Dhulqarnayn al sumaal, I couldnt hold tears back walahi. watching a crowd of somalis matching for unity, what a nation we were. Illaahoow noosoo celi.

lOOOOOOOOOOOL@ Wewe kwisha ona watu islamu nabita ndani ya qaaburini hata abana soma qulwallahu?. hii watu abana silamu. Hah, he really tried.

Khalaf thank you for being not rude to us unlike some here. I hope ur extreme dislike 4 diapers will change once u insha Allah are blessed with lilttle cuties. My husband was more like u repelant who always stressed what different roles we ought to play respectfully n today the time he spends with his son in the toilet changing his DIAPERS is precious to him!. He lets our son play on his bare chest n allow him inuu ku matago n he doesnt say yack like before! infact he enjoys it so much n has never being happier. U will grow out it Akhi in time insha Allah.

I cant live happily without friends, u know the occasional woman talks XAN included Allaha noo danbi dhaafee plus I cant revolve my whole life after marraige on marriage and what comes/generated by it. Wont have time for generous wondow shoppings though.

Fat boy thank you for airing out your concerns, as said there are many forms of zina the ultimate being the sexual intercouse btw unmarried people. If your intrested with this girl, consider marrying her n avoid any physical contact of any sort as it may easily lead u in to committing the whole huge mistake. Ask Allah sw for foregiveness. Zina is a very detasted thing so do not make out again.

Chubaka I agree. I heard of 1 who cant lnow the names of his kids, what can be hurtful than ur own father who cant remember ur name or worse call u some1 elses name.

Rudy i really fail to understand u and what u say. what kind of danbi have i earned now? pls stopp kidding, We live by the three main as msulims, if u wont live by it then dont just talk n talk bulshit. For u 2 say that ppl like I and U r missusing it is just a generalization, represent urself not me ok?

What if the mom died? wont u clean ur babies butt Khalaf? urs was cleaned by ur mom n may be dad maka wanaagsatanahay adigu? It,s not smart1 khalaf, take that back hadaad credebility rabto.

Ghanima IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIISh wa taas siis. Lilly I was just asnwering a question n admit sis that u took a moment to think what romance is 2 u

NGONGE this might help you minimize ur stereotype. Qoute. Qur’an in Surah-Ar-Room Ayah 21 defines the husband-wife relationship as follows: And among His Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves that ye may dwell in tranquility with them and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. Prophet Muhammad PBUH also stressed these meanings: “The best among you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family.” He also said “only the evil one abuse them, means women, and the honored one is he who honors them.”

I remembered those 16 yrs old boys oo seey jawaanada u tolaayeen in dubai ports were out hunting islaamaha yurub ka imaada. You would just pass by n they r all eyes, i was like no, no, no, iam a local sugar mama if 24 is considered OLD! Ileen adinkaa wiilasha yar yar qarka ka tuuray.

Naomi B when u get married n u dump/dumped by freinds, get kids and u become a stay at home mom , just go out with SOL members N just interact. I like this site GOD bless whoever created it n the browsers too.

Thank God mine was with me the whole time! I agree with Lilly, u should never let ur little bundle of joy out of ur sight whatsoever!, however, if switched, I would want my biological baby but it wont be easy to let go of the 1 u raised as ur own so i would seek to befreind the other parents so we could be around each other.

Fahiye there are far more beneficial anti aging products than ridicule. We get ur frustrations laakiin hana caburinin. Life is not all about scoring points besides SOL is thriving in a respectable manner n if ur method is accumulating all the thick words in the english dictionary n ranting, it wont reap u any dose of wisdom. Relax n live and just fit in or as said be4 be a silent browser. ur more peaceful that way. Ps. not all ladies here r 20ish.

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Romance according 2 me is just been there 4 ur other half when they need u most, being kind to each other n helping out plus little extra suprises here n there just 2 let ur other half know that ur thinking abt them n u care and u r there 2 make them happy not poligossiping in local makhaayadaha n spending very useless time in the mosque talking not cibaadaysi! U guyz think women r asking 4 westernized ****** romance, that is a mean thought, we r muslims, we wont be proud to be kissed in public or dress half naked or portray an unexisting love in public, woman want apprecition, respect, love n consideration n we r entitled to it 100% if those husbands follow islamic teachings.

is that all u u have to say! like anna nicole? no wonder awalba jeego xiir baad ahayd!

Dhulqarnayn, of all pple i didnt expect this from you ccording to ur name. Romance is not devined by what we see on TV today rather it is been there since adam iyo xaawo. We have to admit that most of somali menn take their wives 4 granted, trust me mine is one of the rare good ones but Iam sorrounded by them start with my own father! Red Sea bro I dont get why u should stress on the wives discussing issues with their husband rather than expressing it with their female freinds haduusan kan qaba aaqibo lahayn maxayba wax kala hadashaa n dont u know that most of females r expressive, we dont hold emotions back like menn.

I wish i loved my city that much, no wonder somalis like London. seen yeelaa ma isasoo dhiibaa. I have never been to it yet how r they with refugees this days? lool

Totally with u xalimopatra, n why xalimopatra btw? just curious

One thing i want make clear. IAM NOT HAVING A PROBLEM WITH MY HUSBAND, the only problem he has according to me is he is a man of a very few words! n i talk like to talk alot! i cant help that is my weekness. SECONDLY the scenerio iam talking abt r my gal neighbours not me. i cant help bt am outraged with their husbands especially 1 of them. This wife came here just 6 months back, she has a bunch of kids and miscarriages alot Allaha u celiyo midkaane can u guyz believe when she was in the hospital almost bleeding to death coz of a miscarriage, her husband went for dalxiis n he called my husband to go and help out the wife coz she cant speak to doc as she doesnot understand the language! and when discharged , he made her pregnant again compalining that this woman gets pregnant way too quickly! c on KK, ur lucky mine likes to help but not when the little one cries, he just freaks him out! otherwise I could nt ask 4 a better husband but am paranoid that he will pick on his freinds trendy guur lifestyle! u know dariskaa diintiisuu ku baraa!

Xalimopatra sis very sorry u had a negative experiance but if one can cheat or lie to u from far, be very certain he would do it right infront of ur eyes too. It,s all abt trust though it is difficult just TRUST n also TRUST ur own instincts. If he/she breaks it, ka jaf jafo oo ka dhaqaaq and dress 4 number too, who knows. Skipper is a gentlemann from what am reading n he knows what he is in for. All am saying is that they blissful marriages n relationships next doors that end up in disastors fter a HUGE investments.

Keyf, dont ppl have onother kind of live where a man n his wife spend sometime togather, talk n help out each other, other than working, eating n sleeping, there is more to marriage than that. what do say abt those who in addition the above r working?

Alla caano geel aa oo dhay ahbaa? unbeleivable, i craved them when i was walac, can anyone tell me where 2 find them so i can stock them for next time insha Allah. I miss the freshly pressed one back home oo xoorta lahaa, i even miss the backed ones in UAE. I shal move to UK

Skipper thx bro, ur wonderful, i really admire ur courage n committment. Hope in Illahay isukiin calfo n may u be kuwii isku waaro oo wanaagsanadaa insha Allah. remember good things come to those who wait. Kool Kat, waaw, all this time u were in my mind this little sister with raging hormones, iam ashamed of myself now. Sabeen baan kugu xiray, cimaamadna madaxaan kaa saaray, lugaha fiidooda horana waan kaa shumiyey sis. 7 yrs married, ur my senior. Maansha Allaah. I remain, Salute!