LIL ANGEL, IN ORDER FOR SOME ADVICE TO BE GIVEN TO YOU, YOU NEED TO DESCRIBE YOUR SITUATION A LITTLE BIT MORE, CUZ IT TAKES DIFFERENT APPROACHS TO DIFFERENT SCENARIOS. FOR EXAMPLE, IS THIS A GUY YOU GO TO SCHOOL WITH? IS HE A GUY YOU SEE AROUND OCCASIONALLY, DOES HE HAVE YOUR NUMBER, DO YOU GET ANY VIBES FROM HIM WHEN YOU GUYS DO SEE EACH OTHER THAT HE IS FEELING YOU? HAVE YOU GUYS EVER TALKED BEFORE? SUPPLY A LITTLE MORE DETAIL, AND I THINK YOU CAN GET A LITTLE MORE HELPFUL FEEDBACK SIS. SAFIA********

LIL ANGEL, IN ORDER FOR SOME ADVICE TO BE GIVEN TO YOU, YOU NEED TO DESCRIBE YOUR SITUATION A LITTLE BIT MORE, CUZ IT TAKES DIFFERENT APPROACHS TO DIFFERENT SCENARIOS. FOR EXAMPLE, IS THIS A GUY YOU GO TO SCHOOL WITH? IS HE A GUY YOU SEE AROUND OCCASIONALLY, DOES HE HAVE YOUR NUMBER, DO YOU GET ANY VIBES FROM HIM WHEN YOU GUYS DO SEE EACH OTHER THAT HE IS FEELING YOU? HAVE YOU GUYS EVER TALKED BEFORE? SUPPLY A LITTLE MORE DETAIL, AND I THINK YOU CAN GET A LITTLE MORE HELPFUL FEEDBACK SIS. SAFIA********

LIL ANGEL, IN ORDER FOR SOME ADVICE TO BE GIVEN TO YOU, YOU NEED TO DESCRIBE YOUR SITUATION A LITTLE BIT MORE, CUZ IT TAKES DIFFERENT APPROACHS TO DIFFERENT SCENARIOS. FOR EXAMPLE, IS THIS A GUY YOU GO TO SCHOOL WITH? IS HE A GUY YOU SEE AROUND OCCASIONALLY, DOES HE HAVE YOUR NUMBER, DO YOU GET ANY VIBES FROM HIM WHEN YOU GUYS DO SEE EACH OTHER THAT HE IS FEELING YOU? HAVE YOU GUYS EVER TALKED BEFORE? SUPPLY A LITTLE MORE DETAIL, AND I THINK YOU CAN GET A LITTLE MORE HELPFUL FEEDBACK SIS. SAFIA********

SEXY---------* :rolleyes:

I WAS VERY ANNOYED AND DISTURBED BY TAQWA'S COMMENT ABOUT ACCUSING SOMEONE OF DOING WRONG BY ADVISING THIS MAN TO TELL THE WOMAN HE LOVES HIS TRUE FEELINGS. FIRST OF ALL BROTHA, AL-XAMDU-LILLAH THAT YOU ARE IN TOUCH WITH YOUR RELIGIOUS SIDE. BUT MARRIAGE DOES NOT FALL FROM THE SKY, YOU HAVE TO APPROACH IT AND THE WOMAN YOU INTEND TO MARRY WITH WORDS. DIDN'T NOBODY ADVISE THIS MAN TO GO UP TO THIS WOMAN AND SEX HER IN THE MIDDLE OF THE STREET. CHECK YOURSELF BROTHA. SAFIA-----------* :mad:

"HAVE YOU EVER" BY BRANDY I CAN RELATE TO EVERY WORD ON THAT TRACK "YOU GOT IT BAD" BY USHER CUZ I DO!!!!!! SAFIA---------* :rolleyes:

FIRST OF ALL BROTHA, I MUST SAY THAT I FEEL YOUR PAIN. I KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE IN LOVE SO MUCH THAT IT HURTS. I HAVE TO SAY LOVE IS A TWO-WAY STREET. IF LOVE FLOWS FROM ONE PERSON AND NOT THE OTHER THAN THAT IS UNHEALTHY. YOU GOTTA FIGURE OUT(OR TRY TO GUESS AT LEAST) HOW THIS GIRL FEELS ABOUT YOU. IF THIS GIRL SEES YOU AS A COUSIN, AND IT NEVER CROSSED HER MIND TO LOOK AT YOU IN THAT WAY, THEN YOU GOTTA REALIZE THAT THIS LOVE YOU FANTISIZE WAS MAYBE NEVER MENT TO BE. I THINK 9 YEARS IS ENOUGH TIME TO HAVE DWELLED ON THIS GIRL AND IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON. BUT THE PROBLEM IS SO MANY PEOPLE ARE SO QUICK TO SAY "JUST MOVE ON", AND I UNDERSTAND THAT IT IS EASIER SAID THEN DONE. THE ONLY CURE TO THE PAIN IN YOUR HEART IS TO LET YOUR HEART FREE FROM THE PRISON OF YOUR FEELINGS. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND JUST LET THIS GIRL KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL. SO WHAT? WHO THE HELL CARES IF SHE SAYS "IM SORRY" OR "I CAN'T BE WITH YOU LIKE THAT". AT LEAST YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO WONDER "WHAT IF I WOULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING?", AND YOU CAN FINALLY ADMIT TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WERE A MAN AND YOU LOOKED THIS WOMAN IN THE FACE AND YOU TOLD HER HOW YOU FELT ABOUT HER. AND AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW YOU ARE CAPABLE OF EXPRESSING YOUR HEART TO A WOMAN SO WHEN THE RIGHT ONE COMES ALONG YOU WONT HESITATE TO EXPRESS YOUR LOVE FREELY AND FEARLESSLY. AND WHO KNOWS THE POSSIBILITIES BROTHA, MAYBE ALL YOU NEEDED TO DO WAS SPEAK UP IN THE FIRST PLACE AND THAT WOULD HAVE MADE THINGS HAPPEN. MY POINT IS BE REAL WITH YOURSELF AND BE TRUE TO YOUR HEART. NEVER BE AFRAID TO SAY WHAT IS TRULY IN YOUR HEART BECAUSE HONEST TO GOD LIFE IS TOO SHORT. GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE YOU TAKE MY ADVICE. SAFIA--------*

IM SPEAKING TO ALL MY FELLOW FEMALE AND MALE NOMADS WHEN I SAY THIS, IF YOU HAVE A PIC, AND YOU GOT SOME GOODS TO SHOW AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE SEEN AND HEARD, PLZ LET THE PEOPLE KNOW WHAT'S GOIN ON SO WE CAN HAVE A LITTLE SOMETHING SOMETHING CRACKING UP IN HERE!!! I WILL BE THE FIRST TO START OFF, LOOK AT MY PROFILE TO FIND THE LINK TO MY HOMEPAGE, AND IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE, DON'T HESITATE TO SEND YOUR BABYGIRL A PRIVATE MESSAGE. HOLLA-----------* :eek:

IM SPEAKING TO ALL MY FELLOW FEMALE AND MALE NOMADS WHEN I SAY THIS, IF YOU HAVE A PIC, AND YOU GOT SOME GOODS TO SHOW AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE SEEN AND HEARD, PLZ LET THE PEOPLE KNOW WHAT'S GOIN ON SO WE CAN HAVE A LITTLE SOMETHING SOMETHING CRACKING UP IN HERE!!! I WILL BE THE FIRST TO START OFF, LOOK AT MY PROFILE TO FIND THE LINK TO MY HOMEPAGE, AND IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE, DON'T HESITATE TO SEND YOUR BABYGIRL A PRIVATE MESSAGE. HOLLA-----------* :eek:

IM SPEAKING TO ALL MY FELLOW FEMALE AND MALE NOMADS WHEN I SAY THIS, IF YOU HAVE A PIC, AND YOU GOT SOME GOODS TO SHOW AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE SEEN AND HEARD, PLZ LET THE PEOPLE KNOW WHAT'S GOIN ON SO WE CAN HAVE A LITTLE SOMETHING SOMETHING CRACKING UP IN HERE!!! I WILL BE THE FIRST TO START OFF, LOOK AT MY PROFILE TO FIND THE LINK TO MY HOMEPAGE, AND IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE, DON'T HESITATE TO SEND YOUR BABYGIRL A PRIVATE MESSAGE. HOLLA-----------* :eek:

IM SPEAKING TO ALL MY FELLOW FEMALE AND MALE NOMADS WHEN I SAY THIS, IF YOU HAVE A PIC, AND YOU GOT SOME GOODS TO SHOW AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE SEEN AND HEARD, PLZ LET THE PEOPLE KNOW WHAT'S GOIN ON SO WE CAN HAVE A LITTLE SOMETHING SOMETHING CRACKING UP IN HERE!!! I WILL BE THE FIRST TO START OFF, LOOK AT MY PROFILE TO FIND THE LINK TO MY HOMEPAGE, AND IF YOU LIKE WHAT YOU SEE, DON'T HESITATE TO SEND YOUR BABYGIRL A PRIVATE MESSAGE. HOLLA-----------* :eek:

THE OTHER DAY MY MOTHER AND I WERE TALKING ABOUT WHO I COULD BRING HOME AND WHO I COULDN'T. AND FOR SOME ODD REASON I SAID I WOULDN'T CARE THE MAN'S TRIBE THAT I MARRY AS LONG AS HE WASN'T MIDGAAN. I DON'T KNOW WHY I AUTOMATICALLY SHUT THEM OUT THEM OUT BUT I DID. AND THEN MY MOTHER ASKED ME IF THE A MIDGAAN MAN THAT WAS A DOCTOR, THE FINEST MAN ON EARTH, WITH THE BEST PERSONALITY AND A HEART OF GOLD, WOULD YOU MARRY HIM IF HE WAS JUST SIMPLY PERFECT? I THOUGHT ABOUT IT FOR A MINUTE, AND I STILL SAID HELL NO CUZ I COULDN'T SPIT OUT NO MIDGAAN CHILDREN. WHAT DO YALL PEEPS THINK ABOUT THAT, AND WHY IN THE WORLD DO WE LOOK AT THESE PPL LIKE THIS?? SAFIA----------* [ April 29, 2003, 04:38 PM: Message edited by: Admin ]

AS LONG AS THE NIGGA IS WORKIN A LIL SOMETHING SOMETHING ON HIS BODY IM STRAIGHT. BUT WHAT REALLY MAKES A MAN FINE IS HIS STYLE. TYPE OF NIGGA THAT BE WEARING NICE *** CLOTHES WITH SHARP *** HAIRCUTS---THATS MY NIGGA. AND LETS NOT FORGET A HELL OF A SMOOTHTALKER AND KNOW HOW TO SPIT RIGHT. I THINK THAT IS WHAT IT PRETTY MUCH BOILS DOWN TO. SAFIA----------*

FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART, THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR FEEDBACK AND POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT. MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU ALL. SAFIA--------------*

SISTA, I THINK THAT DEPEND ON THE BOND THAT YOU TWO MADE IN THE FIRST PLACE. IF THIS PERSON IS A PERSON THAT USED TO LIVE IN YOUR STATE AND YALL GOT TO KNOW EACH OTHER REAL WELL AND YALL WAS REAL TIGHT, THEN SAY FOR EXAMPLE THAT PERSON MOVED AWAY, YALL COULD STILL KEEP IT TIGHT AS LONG AS YALL VISITED EACH OTHER ONCE IN WHILE BECAUSE THE CONNECTION YALL TWO MADE IN THE FIRST PLACE WOULD ALWAYZ BE THERE. BUT IN THE CASE WHERE YOU MET AN OUT-OF-TOWNER IN YOUR HOMESTATE THAT WAS ONLY THERE FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS, AND THEN YALL TRY TO ESTABLISH SOMETHING WHEN THAT PERSON WENT AWAY, THAT IS VERY HARD. ITS HARD TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE WHEN THEY ARE SO FAR AWAY, AND YOU CAN'T SIMPLY SAY "LET'S GET TOGETHER THIS WEEKEND". IN THAT CASE, IT'S NOT EVEN WORTH IT. I KNOW CUZ I BEEN IN BOTH OF THESE SITUATIONS. SAFIA------* :rolleyes:

FOR YALL YOUNG PPL IN MINNEAPOLIS, YALL KNOW HOW DISSAPOINTING IT WAS TO FIND OUT THE BASKETBALL TOURNAMENTS WEREN'T GONNA BE IN MINNESOTA LAST SUMMER, SO WHO KNOW'S WASSUP WITH THIS SUMMER. HOLLA

PERSONALLY, I DON'T WANT TO MARRY A MAN THAT IS A VIRGIN BECAUSE WHEN WE GET MARRIED AND WE FINALLY CAN DO THE DAMN THANG, I WANT HIM TO PUT IT ON ME AND KNOW WHAT THE HELL HE DOING. I DONT WANT MY HUSBAND TO BE AN AMATEUR AND NOT KNOW WHAT THE HELL HE IS DOING, QUITE FRANKLY THAT WOULD HELLA TURN ME OFF. POINT BLANK--MY HUSBAND HAS TO KNOW HOW TO TEASE AND PLEASE ME, AND I DONT THINK A VIRGIN MAN WOULD KNOW TO MUCH ABOUT ALL OF THAT. P.S. I AM A VIRGIN AND I AM VERY TRADITIONAL ABOUT WAITING 'TILL YOU'RE MARRIED TO DO IT, BUT WHEN WE FINALLY DO-------IT'S ON!!! SAFIA

I KNOW A LOT OF MY SISTAS CAN RELATE TO ME ON THIS ONE----- BUT HOW MANY OF YALL ARE LIKE ME AND FEEL LIKE IF YOU PUT A SCARF ON OR ARE NOT WEARING YOUR JEANS AND LOOKING STYLISH, THAT YOU CAN'T GET A GOOD LOOKING BROTHA? I FEEL LIKE AS IF I WOULD PUT ON THAT SCARF AND SKIRT THAT I WOULD NO LONGER BE ATTRACTIVE TO NOBODY AND THAT ALL MY FUN WOULD STOP THERE. WHAT DO YALL THINK ABOUT THAT?