Hibo aree mad karoo behen........mad karoona........! bas karoo ........tum bagal hogayaa? Ham kuj nahii jaantee. Ham behle ( India ) nahi gayaa khuda ke kasam........4 real. Tum achi achi tara bolti.. aap India se me ayaa? Aap achi larki hee bilkul!

Fartun first question was if is it OK to date a non somali guy ( Black American ). The second thing was I am 19 yrs old & I have been with this guy for 4 & 1/2 yrs, so you were about 15 when you met him. Now you are asking if it is OK to kiss your boyfriend in public. So I can predict the next question will go like this: Is it Ok if I sleep with him without being married? I have one thing to say most men like to get a woman like you they call her YES WOMAN. The type of woman that will do anything, anywhere, anytime with no strings attached. You see you have been with him for 4 long yrs, if he loves you he would honor you & your family and ask your father for your hand instead wuu iska kaa biya biyeystaa and you are OK with it. The most painful thing is that you are proud to share this tragedy with everyone else. May God have mercy on your soul Gurl.

Hindi movies bahot accha he, lekin mera macluum ziyada nahi hee. Samaj kartee? Aap Hindi jaantahee? My favorite actors are: Amitab Bacchan Rekha Rishi Kapoor Neetu Singh Sunil Dutt Sharmilla tagore Mithun Sri Devi Dharmendra Hema malini Did i forget someone else

Love is mutual brother, after all you are my NOMAD KING & deserve some Love. We all came here to share our opinions without biting each other's tail off. I like your postings they are mentally stimulating & somewhat challenging. Keep up the good work Shaqsi. One more great Nomad Indeed********* Lots of Love

Shaqsii brother I am sure that you have a great deal of respect for women as you talked highly about your sisters We are on the same side brother. I personally do not like women who use education as an excuse for their ignorant behavior. If you have no class you have no class no matter how educated you are and that goes for everyone. I know where you are coming from. Take Care!

????????????????????????????????????????????? Who is the Victim in that region? Are Israeli's the true victims or class act perpetrator??????????????????????????????????

There was this Italian guy that came to the States for the first time.....so he went back to his homeland, everyone was excited and wanted to know the mysteries about America. He was asked the question what did you see in America? He replied " I have seen the most strange thing in America which was * Una Negra Bionda * Translations: A Blonde Black Woman, he never thought he would see that in his lifetime. But I am proud of the courage of proud lady You go gurl Judge Judy and commonsense your sentense is too harsh

I have some family members in London, but I heard it rains almost every day & that scared me a bit. Is it true and if so how can you have fun when it rains constantly?

Tell me if I misunderstood you, Quote "Universities and colleges are HOTBEDS of femminism. Most well educated women are FINE, but a good proportion of them hate men to some degree why increase your odds of ending up with femminist****** when you can chat up with other women who more likely to be reasonable" Other women referring to non college educated ones, mostly high school teenagers, that are easy to manipulate. I think that only rapists take NO for an answer and feel confortable when they are in control of a situation. Real men are not threatened by a college or univ educated woman and appreciates if his future wife is a college graduate, that is one of the qualities normal people look for in a woman unless you have a different agenda......... Quote: "If you find a good woman and she happens to have college education then don't let that stop you but if you are still looking why look for diamonds in a junk store" Junk store is referring to colleges and universities. By writing this article not only are you promoting anti women campaign but also are discouraging women to persue any type of post secondary education that will empower them and not label them as femminists. Think before you cut and paste any negative information. Education is key to success we should promote it not discourage it.

I hope this turns out to be an intellectual debate and not another war zone between the sexes. As far I am concerned NO MEANS NO plain and simple, there is no mystery to it. I have seen from time to time that a group of women haters spreading propaganda and labelling strong opinionated or educated women as femminists. If promoting for an equal rights for women and refusing to be treated as second class citizens is called femminism then I am proud to be called one. Educated women most of the times are reasonable, fair, like to share, like to give something back, compromise and that is the fact. This femminism propaganda has affected lots of women to a point where they can't even express their point of view, because they are afraid to be labelled as femminist. This onother anti women campaing....uh uh it is not working! I think that Somali's new women's generation are different breed and require the equivalent breed in Somali men. Meaning men who are equally succesful and not threatened by her level of education and success and support her to achieve her goals and viceversa. Lots of Love

CAN I GET SOME HUG PLEASE ( ) ( ) ( ) SHOW ME SOME LOVE

Lady Fatima I heard this song sang by the couple Fartuun birimo iyo Cabdirashiid Raaxeeye it is even more beautiful to hear the song live. Thank you CARTAN keep up the good work walaalo you sure made my day.

Abdinuur I agree with Lulla paying for everything sounds very good but if he does wrongs like: cheating, abusing me, not spending time with me or abuse drugs and stuff that is not going to happen. I would rather pay for my own things and be treated very good. You know that money does not make everyone happy, caring for one onother does. If he did not have lots of money & just gave me love & respect I would do anything for him.

Alla ceeb baa meesha ka taagan~~ tana ma ii dhimaneyd. Yaa maxaa tiri ina hooyo inter hee.....Soomaali ka xishoota waxyaalaha qaarkood ayaa la arki jirey. War bal waxyaalahaas oo kale waa wixii xaalka lagu kala qaadan jirey,,,oops mise gaalo ayay aheyd wuxu........iga daa go'dadu ceeb ma taqaanee waxay doonto ayay iska walaqaneysa, laakiin ninka muslinka ah ee u bareeray sinadaas foosha xun ayaa ciqaab u taal Aakhiro. Iska daa ayaan ku oran lahaa hadii aadan weli falkaas ku kicin waayo waa fal xun oo ka soo hor jeeda diinteenna iyo dhaqankeennaba. Take Care

What's up with everyone and their lip gloss, for me i can't go anywhere without my huruud, cusbur, qasil and uunsi with bukhuur got to have that guys don't hate me if you smell uunsi Araweelo is around the corner so holler please!!!!!!!!

Shaqsii that is one more reason to stop smoking right....................... Cause you can't handle more Araweelo's and Barwaaqo's don't you think? Take care

Og-moti you are still pointing fingers! I am not saying what you have said is not true I agree with you 100% and it breaks my heart to see women abusing good men and using the system and sometimes their children as a way of controlling their men. It is a shame and those women are making the rest of us look bad, but at the same time there are men who are well known in the community to be irresponsible, dead beat fathers, wife beaters, qat eaters, alcohol and other substanse abusers, cheaters you name it. It is not fair for some bad men and women who have no shame in their game to destroy the Somali culture and the rest of us. I give you a credit to bring this issue because I think that it is a real problem within our community, and we can learn about some of those mistakes and use it as an example for future conflicts. Take Care!

The funny thing was i used to call women auntie and there was at one point when i was about 18 yrs old when a child called me auntie i got shocked cause it never accured to me that i was old enough to be an auntie. I think that most women I know would not mind to be called auntie simply because it is an honor and respect, sometimes your auntie could be younger.

Reer Guuraa aad baad ugu mahadsan tahay warbixintaad nala qeybsatay. "Lama huraan waa cowska jiilaal" afkeenna hooyo waa lama huraan ee aan horey u marinno carurteenana aan barno. Haddi aan dib ugu soo laabto mawduuca boggaan, ma fiicna in farta la isku fiiqo Og Moti you & Shaqsii have taken men's side it is only fair for women to take women's side. My point is we can keep on blaming each other that will not solve anything. The problem is real and it exists what can we do to make a difference. How can we address this issue that is going to affect the future Somali's who are here or going to be born in this environment. Peace and Love

Guys I love this topic it keeps me moving, here comes my MARYAN MURSAL lyrics: Inan yahoow rag iyo dumar rabbi baysku uumoo Wixii uurku uu rabo afka lagama reebtee Waan kuguu riyoodaa Waan ku daalay raadistaadi eeh heey heey Qalbigii ku raacaa reysan waayay awgaa Igaa daa rog rogashada ~~~~~ ~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~ Ra'ayi yarada dumarkaa iigu wacan rafaadkoo Inankaan rabaan anigu hadalkii ka reebtoo Kana reeysan waayee Waan ku daalay raadistaadi eeh hey way Qalbigiiku raacaa reysan waayay awgaa Iga daa rog rogashada ~~~~~ ~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~ Keep them coming they are all Good Songs

Shaqsi very interesting topic. I was reading this article that talked about how to increase the chances of conception of either a baby boy or a girl. The study said the Y bearing sperms ( male )are smaller faster and tent to die sooner,while the X bearing sperms ( female ) are heavier slower and can survive longer. The reality is any harsh environment such as chemicals present in cigarettes such as cynide and others can eliminate the more active and less resistant Y bearing sperms. This is just one of the factors but not the only one. There is a good factor about male bearing Y sperms since they are faster they get to the OVA (Female egg) first which is a positive aspect. That means more Shaqsii and other nomad kings to be born. Lots of Love!

Before we start applauding let us be fair and talk about the whole truth. Soul Lady spoke about some real cases that I myself have wittnessed, but the truth about the rest of the Somali families remains unspoken and unadressed. We all know that that there are a great number of Somali men who are unemployed not because of a lack of opportunities but simply because they are too busy either chewing chat all night and sleeping all day or chatting at coffee shops for the rest of the times. Still the miracle is most women are willing to keep him regardless, if he is willing to at least contribute something to the family whether it is grocery shopping, baby sitting or taking kids to the playground, schools or Doctors office. In some cases these issues raise tentions and arguments that would lead into violence. My point is the immaturity exists in both men and women and at this point they are both responsible for breaking up their families.

A plus thank you for being with me here!! Og moti my name is Araweelo not Barwaaqo kow dheh. Secondly there is nothing wrong with men cooking and cleaning and taking care of their children. Some men are doing it better than their wives..it is the year 2000+ where do you live brother? Men should be involved in their childrens lives as much as the mother, because we know that most children who grow up close to both of their parents are more succesful, more stable in later life, and become better partners and parents themselves. Both partners also have made the committment to be there for each other forever, so if you are worried about how other people from outside see you rather than how healthy your family is doing ( physically, emotionally, financially etc )you are in a fantasy life. Og Moti my brother do you see the big picture mise hadal leen heyneynaa.

Alla qosol badanaa waryaa SACAD alla lagugu khasaar waryaa ma hadaa ii keentay inaad buraanburtid sidii naagihii ,,,,Alaa balanbali waayey. Bal waad buraanburtaye ma taqaan sida loo boodo.......Bal ku bood tixdaan buraanburka BISINKA KA BILAABA SHAYDAAN HA BAYGAGEE MALAA'IGTA DAAKIREYSAA HA SOO DEGTEE BAHALKA BUURAHA KU JOOGA HA BAXEE CALANKA SOOMAALIYEEDOOW CIRSHIGA KA NUUR CIRKAAD U EGTAHAYE RABIYOOW LAGAA CABSADO KUWII KU CAAWIMI LAHAA KAAMA CAAJISAAN WAAKAA WAAKAA WAA SACAD WAA SACAD WAC WAC WAC WAC WAC WAC WAC........WAC WAC WAC.....WAC WAC WAC.....WAC WAC WAC....WAC MASHXARADDA IYO SACABKA: BAC BAC BAC BAC ULULULULU ........ULULULULU....WAY WAY WAKAA

Naasir i have mentioned muufo AKA qamiir iyo maraq iyo moss iyo macsaro leysku jebiyo I guess you are not a real XAMARI otherwise you would have known the word qamiir. Try to eat muufo this way it is gooood!!!!!