Masha'Allah' Thanx for the reminder bro. We need it.

I know this is getting off the topic but have you guys seen that new show Big Love lol.

Asalaamu’calaykum. Sister you highlighted two main points. The distance and her wanting to have children some time soon, both of which are valid reasons when considering the future of a marriage. Islamically these are all rights of any married person and can be the basis of a divorce. 4 years is a very long time and one requirement when a man dwells in polygamy is that he divide his time evenly between the spouses unless of course there were other arrangements. However at the end of the day your friend has her needs. I think she should really reconsider her marriage situation and weigh its pros and cons. Also tell your friend to pray Istikhara and make plenty of duas. Good luck Insha'Allah

This reminds me of the movie Water . Really sad.

Google NGONGE and you get : And you wonder why Val doesn't come over.

LoL @ lesbian. Bisinka. Wouldn't that be worse?

Masha'Allah, beauitful picture. I'm so jealous. Makes me want to fly home right now

The hot nanny is the future 2nd wife Lily. Whether or not marriage happens after the pregnancy or before is the problem.

LoL who am I to argue. I take it all back (he'll kill me when he sees this ) so I’ll have to declare my undying love for him to make it all better .

Excuse me Mr NGONGE but I resent being called a convict. Take that back! It's not our fault that she doesn't do mid-life crisis house calls to so call "baby-sit" for you mate. Plus the view is better down here for both men and women. Haven't you been watching Home and Away? Zu, Rokko is still working on his game mate. All the Sheila’s are still comfortable in their cosy lofts lol.

^^I couldn't have put it better myself Northerner. I'll officially hang up my heels on this argument, or else it will never end.

Khalaf, What is wrong with that picture? I'll admit the rolls in his hair must go. There is no need to get your knickers in a knot about my views. All I said was that it is basic common curtesy shiid. What I can't seem to fathom is how when a woman decides she does not want to be conformed to just the daily duties of house and home there is uproar. It is not about “nac nac” it is about being able to for fill your life and not just be a servant to a man. Some of the greatest people in Islam were women mate. Prophet’s first wife Khadija was a very wealthy business woman, and guess what, the Prophet used to work for her. The life of Aisha is proof that a woman can be far more learned than men and that she can be the teacher of scholars and experts. Her life is also proof that a woman can exert influence over men and women and provide them with inspiration and leadership. Not just rub his feet. And another thing why can't men iron their own underwear? Is there a rule against this? Maybe a Hadith? Please provide me with some sources. The prophet (saw) used to sew and mend his own clothes and sweep the floors and help his wives. Are the Somali brothers of today too good to help out their wives? Look I did not shoot down the idea, maybe I was a little heavy handed in my explanation of my view but at the end of the day all I said was that its common sense and I will not sit here and praise a brother for common sense. To do so would be grave insult to his intelligence! Ms DD, I didn’t mean to attack you I was just venting, no hard feelings Insha’Allah.

They say the first step to recovery is to admit you have a problem. I'm not really ready for all that. I don't want to recover. I don't a have a problem. You hear me everyone I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM!

Farax, LoL. I was only teasing mate, fishing for compliments nooh . Sheherazade, We have plenty to give so get your cute lil behind down here girl.

Hope your enjoying your trip, is the country settled? How are the people handling the current situation up there? How long are you there for? We will be waiting for your summery and all the pics.

LOL That is a curse! Never!

In all seriousness, I have always felt Rokko was supercool, Rahima to be civil & Zu to be reer magaal. I don’t know Intuition that much to make a judgement & its not suprising to see her top the list though. Mr Farax B, Rokko is very cool, Rahima very calm, Zu reer magaal?...that one I’m not sure of, lol. Only kidding Zu plz don’t shoot me. Nothing about me… lol. Why is it not surprising that I top the list then. As for Val moving down here. Yes quality of life. With quality people hehe. Caano Geel, Very scary picture. I’d defiantly be cured by him. Struth just looking at me will get rid of anybodies problems, if a problem means talking to him about it. I await the flood of applications form the SOL nomads.

^^^LoL^^^ Careful there you are adding fuel to the flames there. This is the part where I say "and why is it unattractive for a woman to be angery". Don't even get me started on the wrinkles part lol. Am I the only one offended by the recent "How women should be fragile slaves to men" antics? Where are the other strong minded sisters I know exist in this place. Bloody wusses.

Yes yes. I do agree with most of what you have said. But it is just every where I turn it’s about our down falls. I think there is an even longer list for all our qualities. Ours strengths I believe out shine out faults. Even all these chicks in this list, trust me there is someone out there who'll accept them for who they are. That’s the great thing about having so many people in the world. Eventually the gold digger and spoiled brat will come to a point in her life when they realises that the best things in life is usually free and that life doesn’t not evolve around them. Ms been around may one day repent and change her ways, most men have been around and around and around. They are in no position to judge her. Ms insecure and hate may just need some good old fashion TLC and some much need support and encouragement she may have never gotten growing up. You get my drift. *I'm in an argumentative mood as of late, don't mind me Lily*

LooL I see the moderators have moved in. Will you rebel Mr trevor lol.

What is this, Attack women week.

Grrrr!

LoL What the ef... That picture with the half naked woman, I almost passed out when I saw that one lol. I wonder where the moderators are? Interesting advice. I think there is an even longer list of men to avoid when, will we be discussing them? I def agree people should stay away from the fighting kind...my god they are crazy!

XOG-ogaal , That is not a good enough excuse. But hey if that is the case then where is their trib? They should adopt them. My main concern is that these boys get adopted by a lovng and caring Muslim family. Who cares if it is of the same trib! This is horrible. UK nomads wake up and take them in some one has to. I would but I'm just too far

^^Puke to you to^^