^^^loool; sorry, maybe someone should be taking notes or something Scarlet yeah i will; thanks Tahliil: 20-25 is a better age range; i don't plan on getting married. men are (insert your own word here) and just want to abuse women. So not an option. Pacifist thank you; websites are greate and i will remember not to trust the port people. Waterlily Ibtisam, if you are going alone, (under no circumstance would I travel with a group of guys) it's a lot safer if you have your money and won't need to work as you travel & to stay in decent hotels in well known cities. You can always join us once you get to N Africa. hhhm how about one guy just kidding. thanks, if we are around same time. thanks all for your 2cents. appreciate it. i still have no idea. i'm going to focus on getting my exams and dissertation out of the way and then decided. chances are i will go! i'm going think, dream about it for at least another month, then see... cheers

^^^^ :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: NB: plz stop abusing the thread>>> take the door and move your black A*ss out. I hate people who are half lost. If you are going to be a lost individual, it is better you are fully lost rather than hanging off a cliff and stuck between western ideology and the rest. It is bad enough hearing the bullshit you are advocate for, from a white man! :rolleyes: let alone a refugee who feels he has to kiss the as*s of his neighbours. :mad: :mad:

^^what has my hijab got to do with anything :rolleyes: Shihaabuddin thanks but marrying a complete stranger is almost as bad; don't you think? :confused: he could be a wife beater or something But all the same thanks

are u experienced traveler? no; you can only be an experienced if you've gone on many trips. i've been on one with family members when i was a kid. does that count

^^^ i was kidding did't need puting off. i think the fact that you are a user name nothing more is a put off all in itself. Khalaf; hhhmmm. To answer your question, i have not been to any of the countries i plan to visit; hence why i WANT TO GO!! And the world is not that bad. i've lived for 21years without a muxrim in sight, i can't carry on sitting in my room waiting for my little brother to grow a few more years

^^^HOW could you put me in the same category as THAT farah, disgusting nasty so and so.... :mad:

^^^ go to hell behave you nasty man! it is a public forum, we don't need you childishness. How contradictor is that, one minute you are preaching me then you come out with THIS so wats in the deal ibby .. u pay for my expenses .. and i get all the extras too .. cause it will be hot, steamy and u will need a cuddle and maybe allow to me to navigate my way through ..unless there is a security seal .. u best go and EIDT your post dear, go on run along :rolleyes:

Yahoo. I am aware that women are not allowed to travel alone regardless. The reason I mentioned it when I was talking about Umrah is that they would not let you in, without a muxrum, so you do not have the option of not taking one, where as any other travel, you have the choice of obeying the Islamic Law or ignoring it. It is this that i am having doubts about rather than concern for my safety. It is strange because if I decide to go (act of disobedient) then it is hypocritical of me to ask Allah to keep me safe or bless me, or even say simple things such as inshallah when mentioning my tripe; the words won't come out IBY .. let me give u an answer ur dilema ... just hand the tikets over to me and i will gladly travel in ur hounour ... u will get pictures and excellet ubdates .. so u will feel like u are. or u could just marry moi .. and wat a honeymoon it would be ... but u will need to fulill few other conditions like makin me fll in love wit u .. I would rather eat my ticket then give it to you or anyone!! As for your second offer. i don't know about no "LOVE" but we could have a temporary marriage I hear it is a common thing in North Africa. NB: you do not get any of the rights that a rightful husband does it would be like a convenient marriage, we will get a divorce after the summer holiday :cool: How about that!! if only it was that simple.

Luna and laVie: thanks; lool at life insurance Khayr. i would love to go Ummrah, but i have no maxrum, so i can't. i'll have to wait for my 8yr old brother to get a bit older and magical appear in London thanks for the duca's water; lol

yeah i know how i will get from A-B etc the thing is, next year, i have to go back to depressing studying. planning to do my masters. This summer is the only time i will get the chance to do what ever the hell i want i have friends all over these places as well which i can call on if things go a bit wrong, so i guess thats one good thing.

From London to France, To Spain across to Morocco, to Algeria to Tunisia, across to Italy, back to France and London. It should be quiet cheap and if need be i could always work while travelling. Have bit saved up! lool. I would be gone for 3months. water: hhhm yeah i'll look into it and get back to you. And my girl friends have controlling parents. they are not allowed to come!!

yes but there are also many people who travel and come back well and alive!! You did not tell me anything new, my friends have been screaming the same things in my ear since I told them. EDIT: No I’m thinking of cancelling. i booked it on the spare of the moment thing. Only thought about after

Hello guys. There are times in life that you really really want to do something (in this case bag packing by my self). But I know that I should not from a Islamic perspective, safety etc… How do you decide which road to take. 1)Don’t go 2)GO: I’ll ask for forgiveness when I come back: which is not valid because I’m choosing to do a wrong, what if I die? :confused: 3)Go with my friend<< which is worse from an Islamic point of view because they are male! But at least I would be safe! 4)Just GO. I’m thinking too much. :confused: p.s. i have already booked my ticket

And to think i almost didn’t post this, as i thought people only read debateable and controversial posts.

^^^are you learning anything. Been a week since this so called "lessons" started, show me what you learnt dear

^^^^ I thought that too. :cool:

A guy should desire beauty. Since the woman is going to be bearing his children. The woman should also be photogenic. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

loool mantra, what plane!!. i need to take one out of london ASAP dear. And i'm not following you. why would i follow a self confessed loner who meets strange farahs in central london :eek: NOw that is scary, i'm glade you lived to tell us about it.

it is when you talk like that^^^ i think your a man. stop trying to messing with my head lady. stick to the norm just kidding.

Accommodation in Spain is taken care off. I’m staying in my friend’s family villa. Thanks all the same. Any nice places I should defiantly visit while I’m there?

you only joined on Apr 2006, when did you become such an expert dear?

is that what you normally do, start something you can't finish i mean :cool:

^^^it means "soft" or "tender" J.lee yes it does, why don't you believe me?

^^^^IBY I've already got Halle Berry & Beyonce....... GOOD for you :cool: just waiting for yours 2 come out....... Just make sure you take off them Geeky Eye-wear........ sorry; here is a much better picture: www.kissmyass.com. enjoy It's true that beAUty fades, but plastic surgery is getting better all the time....... JUST ASK IBTISAM hhm slightly belowthe belt, but hey i know your hating, so carry on :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

^ :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: cloth come off, whether she wore more or less would not have made a difference regardless, and her profession is neither here nor there. i see you are trying to say as polite as possible that she should have expected it, due to her chosen profession. which is load of Crap. as for me liken you, lets just say your bit backward for my taste