I met him at a bus stop :eek: I thinking that is freaky (not the fact you met him at a bus stop) but when strangers talk to you on the street, or while you try to fight for a space on the tube, running late for work or they follow you about while you shop. I always thing Freak :rolleyes: don't you have something better to do. A normal man will not have that much time on his hands to follow someone around or even notice the stranger that rushed passed him.

^^^loool. I assume you use to do this with him back in the days, he just forgot to grow out of it:D

hhhm, even in here it is dead today..... monday!!!

my habo is not old you rude old man, you wanna take that back before i find my high heels and aim for you funny shaped head

^^^^looool I don't really go to somali do's/ weddings or parties unless family (which is hardly ever, no one in my family likes to get married ) I sit next to my habo and she gives them evils, so one will come near you. I think parties bring the worse out in everyone, so meeting anyone there is just strange. You would not make friends with someone you met at a party so how could you pick anything else from there. :confused:

Modesty: Don’t take this the wrong way, but I don't think you grasp the seriousness of you accusations. "Africans are brainwashed to the max" Really, how odd, most Africans I come across are not, and nor I'm. Also you spoke about "Somalis" who do not speak for the whole of Africa. Further more, historically civilization started in Africa, if you understood the roots of African history, you would not hold such racist views your self. I suggest you read "Roots of Black History" by Robin Walker. Anyone who argues that Somalis are descendents of Arabs should also read that book (you will have the shock of your life ) Janna: Having recently read a thread, in which you argue that Light skin girls are better looking than dark skin girls, hence why many dark skin girls use Diana, I find your comments above hypocritical!

^^^I agree. But i think that your job, must be more than just making money (this does not include Part time job, while at uni ) But the slave labour we all do after we finish uni. on average most of us work long hours, there must be (or at least should be) another motivator as well as money,.. Can’t for get the money I work more than 40hrs a week, I could not do this if I did not enjoy my work, regardless of the pay. Giving the choice I would rather do a job I enjoy for less money, than doing a job which I don't like for more money. I spend 90% or even more of my time doing work, that is a lot of miserable hrs if I did not like it:(

^^^he needs "HOW to give dacwa" classes, what to say and what not to say, How and when to say it, and most of all who to say it to. He will do you guys no good, if he sounds like a mad man on a rant. :rolleyes: A non muslim will not get his message and it will push non-practice away from the general muslim community. I for one will not communicate with people who say such thing. How dare he!

May you see many more in good health, imaan.......how old does that make you just kidding

Damn right i did, It was either that Or nasty, nasty words that would make even you turn red. I just did not want to swear,... what is your issue?

South Africa sucks. The Crime rate in that country is so high. I personaly feel sorry for the white people in that country. Seeing their country being ruined slowly. I hope Aids does it magic quickly. come again!!!! :confused: :mad: WHat!!! Are you on? :mad: Sounds like you missed out you history and geography class at school. IT also seems you are deaf and Blind :rolleyes: I am tempted to call you few more names, but why borther with someone who is clearly misplaced and ignorant at the same time :rolleyes: I don't believe you, seriously i am utterly shocked! eeeeeeeeer aakh too!

Cambarro i agree. I always feel sorry for the groom and bride, not to mention their poor family. XP I could not agree more, Possible cold feet or the old case of we always want what we can't have, If we have it we don't want it anymore, or at least not so keen on it anymore.

^I don't think so, I think there are just more people passing away these days. My friend’s dad died last week. I live behind a mosque, and in the morning as I rush pass, late for work as usual I see the funeral car getting prepared. Everyday!. Freaks me out a little, I always stop for a moment. I wonder when it is going to be my turn. Too bad there is no way of finding out.

what is wrong with these women. What happened to the brain God blessed them with. :rolleyes: :mad: How nasty. :mad:

loool; Honestly, I don't give guys dirty looks, but I do hate anyone that approaches me on the road- what has a stranger got to say to me....Why talk to me, out of everyone on the road?? How do I Know you are not a freak? The fact you are Somali does not automatically make you safe. Somali guys think that they should get special treatment, or you should say hello to them, just because they are Somali, but that is a messed up mentality. If I don't know you, why would I Talk to you. As for Salam: Why would you give salaam to a women who is clearly by her self, then ask if she is Somali, when you can already tell she is Somali. What is the purpose of stating the obvious? Why waste her time and yours with meaningless, endless questions. ~Then she says no and you argue with her!!! What the hell. You asked a question, she answered, deal with it. p.s. And if you do speak to Somali guy, against your better judgment or because you had to, they automatically think you fancy them; p.s.s Most If not all, guys who approach you on the road want something or the other. So you should be thankful they are saving you some time and effort, Rather than lead you on then laugh in your face.

more jahliyah cultural Somalis...bantus . getting married in church with the cross instead of masjid and having a half-naked bride music iyo munkar...weddings looking like hschool dances..........jahilyaaaah :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Khalaf; My dear, take a chill bill, don't you know that that It is a wedding.!!! not a bin bag occassion or a Islamic Lecture. There is got to be a little something, something on display. p.s. She is not half naked only her hair and one arm is showing, which is saddaqa. :cool: What is the difference between an average Farah and a bantu farah? :confused:

^^^^looool Kaf: erm erm, I don't think the Muslims need anymore kids, they need help looking after the one's they already have. They have already had far too many kids, without planning what kind of life they can provide for them.~I know that allah provides for both you and the children, but that does not mean you should drop them in every where with out some sort of direction.

salamz kaf yes i watched it, i even watched it two times. there are some little cute little kids! marshallah thanks

I like him, i will look for him to sit my test after he comes out loool that was funny. loool If only he used different cards! :mad:

^^hello dear what kind of madness is this??? I think it is sad when religion has come to this. Mockery of madness :cool:

^^^which list is that okay castor, i mean castro, hang on how does that work out, you posted a stupi*d reply before i said anything aboout your name. Nistisa: posted September 14, 2006 01:00 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- It started last week friday and ends this Sat. I went to see the orgins of aids yesterday, i was so dissaponited at the number of black people that were there. As for somali's i saw one girl. That was it. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Don’t you know Somalis don't associate themselves with 'blacks?' ~I am assume you are kidding :confused: ?

^^^what to you castor and What, what jim :mad: :mad: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: I don't know which one of you is worse. I don't get it. IF you are not interested move on, why do you have to post stupi*d replies. :confused: Move over please :cool:

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. First things first. MAn in Malaysia I remember your first thread; you were looking, begging for Somali women. I remember telling you to go to matrimonial pages. The sudden change just shows how fast you have adapted in Malaysia. I wish you well. Truths hurts but sometimes without it can be more hurtful than letting it out. The naked truth is that Somali girls dont click at all, we(men) might have called them "Queens" so many times without realising how shallow they(girls) are sometimes. We have written poetry and even sang for them many times but i feel those praises are wrongly directed to the Somali girls. Why would you praise a girl who is even hard to deal with or understand? You can deal with a deaf/blind individual knowing that they have a disabilty, but Somali girls dont have any, they are naturally slow. Their ********* never ends as we (men) don't see that ********* , their brainless approach to guys becomes the evidence that they have nothing in common with other women. A Somali girl will never be able to contemplate on what a brother is trying to achieve by seducing her, or even talking with her. How much brain capacity does it take to realise that the man gets into alot of trouble for the good of her and him too. What disgusts me much is the way Somali girls like to hide their feelings and emotions, even when she loves you she will pretend not to love you. They (somali girls) like to complicate matter from bad to worse, not becouse of wit and cleverness, but becouse of foolishness and lack of understanding. Sometimes, copying other communties wrongly can lead even the so-called educated ladies to act irrational. Whether they are educated or not, the truth is they(somali girls) lack that creativity and the reasoning which other non-somali woman do have. An educated sister will ask you to treat her like a lady lol, how can i treat her like a lady when she is not treating me like i am supposed to be treated? She circles behind me hidding and malgamating the truth with arrogance? The truth is, we dont have women/girls that we can be proud of at all. My advice to the somali girls is, come back to your senses, we only called you "queens" to make you feel good inside not to behave like a phoney queen. My advice to guys is, it is time we should be assessing the possibility of intergrating with non-somali girls, they are cool and understanding I don't see the big deal. THe guy speaks of ignorance, ********* , backwardness and lack of comprehension. But pray do tell, is that not the description of someone who cannot comprehend that the few he met does not speaks for all. You are just bitter that few/one women did not tell you she loved, ( i don't blame her mind you, what is there to possible love?) :confused: Maybe the reason you come across women who share the same characteristics is because you go to the same old place to meet them. Try a change of place, widen your social network. Somali raves anit exactly filled with the best of Somali women!!! I agree with this The Xaliimoz are scared of the faaraxs,they blame them for various reasonable bad habits and the faaraxz are are scared of the xaliimoz and blame them for various reasonable bad habits that infact arose from the misunderstandings of the xaliimoz and the faaraxz.Its a total madness in both two fronts ie,the xalimoz front and the faaraxz front.Will the issues be resolved in time?Yes.Is a white woman the solution for the faarax crisis No.Well,the faaraxz are going as far as bangaladesh to look for women,so atleast i would say the sistas are still,some how better than us faaraxz.Yep u heard me,faaraxz have gone as far as sri-lanka and now they are in bangaladesh,and whats their excuse?They say they can't find no good xalimo.Bulshyt!!! . I disagree with this. One thing that really astonishes me is the fact that a xalimo would want a faarx who is 6,4 tall,with a gigantic built body when she herself ain't in shape. Tell me one person, man or women who says they want an ugly partner, although they may end up with one.

^^^okay hints I can deal with, just about. But what is wrong with him as a guys that he miss's all the clues, the hints, until he has to be smacked with the question. Why would you marry such slow, clueless guy anyway. As for the people who mentioned khadija. Come on people, that was a different time period, he was the best of men. NOt these good for nothing creatures that only share the physical description. NO man is worth asking anything let alone marriage