Loool^^ She's never tired, and you cannot fail at somehing you've never tired to get Mantra and ibtisaam I wonder why would any one want to be alone...or be content with being alone?? what is so bad about getting married and establishing a loving relationship with a husband? AAliya i am not going to answer because i fear i might knock you out with verbal harsh reality. I'll let you find out for your self. We'll catch up in a few years time... shall we

:rolleyes: i don't see why everyone is trying to convince each other. To each to their own. Some people are just happier on their own while others feel lost, incomplete, dysfunctional etc. It is a personality thing or a choice based on what you have seen around you in your short life. So AAliya to answer your question; Yes I’d rather be alone than… oh never mind As for Somali men in general, I am sure they are normal people and I sure there a decent guys, clearly they cannot all be the same. :rolleyes:

10pages speak volumes :rolleyes: what you though you were the only one

Call it normal. Same way if i said "i like men and i would like to have a relationship with them" you would not ask me for a namei

Prison is in many society, a place to punish and make you pay for your crime. On top of that in theory it is a place where all the worse people in society meet.

YEah shid happens they say. It is our fault as muslims and as community for faling to protect our youth (firstly from even going to prison, and if they do not get abused)

^^you know reading your thread loool makes laugh. JAcy: i've never told anyone not to marry, i told her to make a decision and not to regret it.

Yeah a lot fo them do, but some of them do recover.

No it is not funny at all, it is very nasty and unfortunate, most victims don't ever recover mentally.

^^nope..,. i don't hate Men. I just don't see the big deal with having relationships with them, marrying them, having kids with them.,... do i have to go on. Male friends i don't mind, in fact i find it easier to have male friends than female. They don't offload all their problems on you to carr, complain as much, and they don't expect you to tell all. Short simple answers to complicated questions. And they don't go around the long way to tell you simple things,.. they just give you the short version with out all the drama. So in short i like my male friends, some of them i have known since i was in primary school.

Modesty: I think..... never mind Oh what the hell... I think you need to get out more (i don't mean that negatively by the way) but in reality a lot of women go about their life as women, without trying to be men, without any hassle or getting raped, without male relatives. I personally don't live with any male relatives in the country, and alhumdulilah nothing has happened and inshallah it won't. Billion of women live like this all their life independently and not hurt by their independency. Furthermore I don't see the correlation between abuse, rape and male relatives??? The facts are that even if you do have male relatives they are not your babysitters, they have a life and you have to get your own life... this does not mean putting yourself at risk or acting foolish. In any case the majority of women who are raped or assaulted are previously acquainted with the man. Only Allah can protect you, so put your trust in him and life your life. I find it surprising you talk about western societies and this issue of women, because in Somali women are very 'independent' even in Somalia.

Why not?? it is very common

^^shaking hands there are different views on that. Dabshid: Lie detector. hmmm Easy to pass i hear. Your word will just have to be enough for whoever you end with i guess good luck. Where i live there is two possibility of why they have not: 1) they are as ugly as sin, did not get offers and they did not want to pay. 2) 0.1% Allah protected them, but he hopes to make up for loss time by marrying 4 :rolleyes:

UK you mean for 5years you did not realize he like you; lool You are even more blind than me! As soon as he started showing symptoms you should have sent him packing

Mantra I am glade you came over from the dark side of like these creeps they call men! lool It sounds normal enough to me girl. There is nothing wrong with you, nor do you need to change or get married. Don't feel pressure from your friends. There is nothing that a man or anyone else, can add to your life that you don't already have. But it is up to you but when you make your decision no regrets. I don't want to see you at 40wishing you had married and had kids or something Give it some thought and make a decision. I’ll PM you a collection of my facts and figures to justify my “strange life style” of no “men” CHe Mantra......I think there is Cynic's syndrome going around. Devil and Ibti have already fallen, and you are next. This is just the early stages. lool, thats odd i must have had the cynic's syndrome since i born. I don't remember ever thinking differently Anyway it saved me a lot of trouble and mental abuse from dudes. All i have to do is look around my friends and see where "love" got them :rolleyes:

^^double that cajiib iyo yaab

There's a name for that, it's called L-U-S-T! Man_ there is your answer and the solution provided by mantra (although girl why are you promoting multiple wife's??)

Loool ^^i assumed they were not somali?? Cambro right?? They can't be. She would;ve told him to hit the road surely :??

^^^sheherazade i don't know about the big sign hun (i have yet to see it myself), i'll tell another day as not to hijack Northerners fame Men's 10km Results 1. Mubarak Al Minhali (UAE) 33m:32s 2. Henry Wanyoike (Ken) 33m:34s 3. Joseph Kibunja (Ken) 33m:34s he finined inside one hour only 26 minutes behind the winner (so close) rageedii North hats off sxb Very good marshallah

^^^lool^ damn look what the cat dragged in :rolleyes: Looks like you have not changed since yourchild years, your side kick is around somewhere still. These people are soooooooo scared... in fact they all run away :rolleyes: :cool:

YEAH C lady.. I've been working on that idea since, hence my absence from dossing here:(, still working on it. I'll be calling for you to do your part soon, don't try and run away

COme one mums don't be so sad, you don't need a posh title to reflect the importance of what you do i hope this did not make anyone feel good about their role or something you sado's

I know i was trying not to go off on a rant or try my best to give benefit of the doubt I guess you saw right through it. As i Said i would not put up with such trash... in fact he should not even dare think about such mad things let alone say it. HE is trying to keep his cake and eat it :rolleyes: Don't bother telling her, she would think you want him yourself lool even though you are married. Some girls just need to learn the hard way

^^neither do I? prove it Just kidding but i don't believe any guy that says that. They are just trying to pull a bag over your head :rolleyes: because they know there is no way to prove otherwise :rolleyes:

^^^loool^ i can imagin your face when you read than lool@ segis