Lily: I'm super stuck, waiting for inspiration, I’m thinking if I leave it for a while, then go back to it, I might see what I missed last time around. P.s. I can never bribe myself It never works. MyOwnboss: How so...?

^^^^Come on you two, such tease! why don't you speak on MSN, seen as your both logged on! show off's LOZ: Waa laa ee sheek already. You are too late.

^^^I could be an aussie for few mins... Ok only tell me if it is interesting, or I can sale it to the papers, or use it to blackmail someone into doing some work for me, or I will learn something new, or a new skill that will help me..... Hadii kaal iska daa. Waax kaal ee sheek. Lily

^^^Dude I've blocked u on some! hehe lol. I'm kidding yeah. Just appearing offline in FB.

^^^Tell me as well dee!

^^^No I'm doing it now. I got bored on Sunday and went out when I was suppose to be doing work. When I got back in, In watched bulletproof monk for the 3rd time. Anything to avoid this damn paper. Now I'm on SOL, facebook, Yahoo, BBC news, BBc sport, BBC Africa, BBc Somali.....

Man at Costa coffee convinced me to get vanilla tea (as they did not have lemon &ginger)... Akhaas how do people drink this? Hello ppl.

Ngonge: That was not a dig, but now that you mention it, I really don't think much of a women who knowingly agrees to be a second, third or fourth wife. There is fundamentally something wrong and desperate about this. It is wrong on so many levels I can’t even being to list them. I can never understand what would make a 25yr old or 18yr old marry someone who already has a family, and I've seen it happen too many times. They are just so........... :rolleyes: nevermind..

Lool you guys are jokes! Just answer the question. Yaab badaan daadku!. Adam is probably doing some research about that part of Somali and wants someone who can offer insight in an area. OR, HE has just found out his Xalimo of 20yrs is a Makhiraian and wants to find out some background info or waax daadka lagu sheego HAHA lool.

^^^Yes you are. Often people assume that if they convince you it is good to love you parents, you will suddenly and magically start to love them. You cannot convince someone to love their parents. They either do or they don't. Often if the parent has been absent in the childhood, in combination with painful memories or abandonment, it will only be natural to resent him as an adult o even question him. To be honest he has no right to demand parental treatment since as he was never there for them or assumed the father role. Providing the sperm does not absolve him of parenthood. In saying that it is good for her as an individual both mentally and psychological to let go of the past and try her best to do her duty as his child. Otherwise it will affect her whole life, her views of men, trust, love etc. Her father will be questioned for his neglect and unfairness to his wife, kids and the responsibility he did not fulfill, therefore she should try her best to observe her Islamic duties and be kind and helpful to him. She’ll probably never love him as much as most people love their fathers, but spending time with him, may foster some understanding and mutual respect if nothing else. I personally think haad she is a bit pis*sed off and emotional hence the outburst, but seen as she is qoof deen taa gaarisa, she will see her error. That’s my 2cent.

^^^LOOOOOOOOOOOl. HAHAHa Don't mind her, she's never been there and is just pulling you leg. I use to think the mad coloured hijabs were from another world. Lool @ play wid stones.

Samawad: Sky carrier?. It sounds like a habaar. P.s. How many of you are using these name son your kids?

^^^I'm not worried for myself, rather as I said, that it has emerged in my family within the last 6months and I'm still trying to cope with it, part of that is understanding its trends. something that was alien to us, has suddenly become a major topic in our household. I’m just wondering out loud…don’t mind me.

^^^Well, give me red anyday rather than green or aaf-laa

^^^Loool @ Maano Koobiyo! HAHA lool. Geel Jire these days wll the guys have red..or rather green teeth regardless of which part they are from (that is if they have any left)

^^^How so, I know too many and it has given me nothing but grieve. Ngonge: I was not asking him as doctor, I was asking him if he noticed the same trend. :rolleyes: I thought you was an accountant?? :confused:

Loool, niimaki somaliad waa waashiin!! Say WHAT?? He is going to pretend he already has a wife!. lool Sorry honey but what ever is putting women marrying him now will put so called 2nd wife off as well. Tell him to man up, pull up his trousers and haablaah nacnacad kaal taag plz. What kind of story is that?? :rolleyes:

^^^YEah Alhumdulilah. Can you shed light to why we see a lot more cases now days, compared to previously.

Maskiin. May Allah have mercy on him and his soul rest. There days I have been meeting a lot of people with some form of cancer or another. In the last year within my own family there has been three cases. What is going on with these disease that never use to affect our community before, or is it that people are now diagnoses and aware of what they are suffering from?

^^^Loool. Indeed it is. Che it is the water.

^^Coool, have fun. Ngonge: I know him, he use to come around, We went to his funeral, and his dad was there, his mum use to send tapes from Somali to us and he use to come and collect it. Did not really know many Somali's from what I remember. Everyone was saying that his GP hide the diagnosis from him until it was too late for treatment. Allah haa uu naaxaristo. but if that is the case they should take him to court, damn him Did he leave kids behind, I remember we went back home to marry.

^^^Lool, if you have a family there, they will look after it dee. Che: Ask someone who's been there recently dear, before agreeing with ancient folk tales. Red teeth Somalis hail from many places, I did not see more in Burco compared to other places I went to. But some only have alittle line and it looks fab, I wanted to draw one on! Serenity you have not been to either so waaxba laaga deegisan maayo.

^^^^Loool, dude I know the whole somali community via that method, so it means nothing. But still that person could have been CL.

^^^YEah right, I just saw pigs fly pass my window. Ngonge! lool, chance are it is not there still, get north or JB to check for you. Burco is not for the weak of heart.

^^^Hello Serenity, maa shaaqolaan baak kuu heese?? You know perfectly well that is not the case. We are peace loving, nice people, so nice that when people like you insult us, we only flash them a beautiful smile