Ibtisam

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  1. ^^^Loooooooooooooooool^ Fuuleey! You got defeated by a fly! hehehe Loool. I'm just having breakfast... O:
  2. Oh lord mercy. No wonder Africa is burning. How can we burn a human being collectively and watch them. I'm sure some even enjoy it. Subxanallah.
  3. ^^^WHy would you burn a person, even a thief!? :eek: Acudubililah...
  4. ^^^Loool FB, sucker!
  5. Ibtisam

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    STOIC: Bless her, she has you whipped and trained. Congrats to the sister, so so proud of her! Can’t remember, but I kind of remember. Ngonge okay then, I will. :cool:
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    ^^^Loooool^^ haha are you getting him back for the dream
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    If you are on FB, just get Cadaan to add you, if you are not, get someone to lend you their password and username, but since no one will do that, set up and account and get an invite by cadaan. Maybe you need to see what I see before you tell me to do my worse
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    ^^^Stoic, I saw you on someone else list as well! and their are many pictures of Ngonge. Ngonge, don't make me do it!
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    YEs, you could not possible imagine what I can do with your picture on FB. You better be nice to me from now on or else! lool MAlika, I thought so....
  10. ^^^^hence the thread has no point, it relates a pointless story with an ending not fit for public read as you already said. strange to see you commenting on norms after what you've been posting in the last few days. :rolleyes: Ngonge I thought he was cool at first, his political posts are not bad. Then the last few days in the general section, the dude got too comfortable with SOLers posting all kinds of shid that comes into his mind. Waa distasteful to say the least. I cannot believe someone born 73 can be so ciyaal But then no one forced me to read his shid, so I’m take my leave. :cool:
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    Loool I posted them on troll corner this morning for all to see lol For real I'm going to blackmail you with those pictures for years to come! I found the card to play against you now.
  12. ^^In any case what is the point of this thread ruunti?? :confused: Xiin Please school him and few others on what can and cannot be said or shared in public, even if it is on your mind. Xaaya la aan some people on SOL. :cool:
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    ^^^Looool I was close to doing that! P.s. Ngonge have you seen your pictures?? looooooooooooool HAHAHA at the SOL boys looking like they are going to a job interview, with the exception of North, who just needs a football to complete his look. lool
  14. I just looked at the title of this thread again. I have a fair idea now based on hygiene, which I shall keep to myself. :rolleyes: What was the point of this thread?? :confused: Pointless.
  15. Something which is also important is the gap between the educated and the non-educated. The different paths their experiences and life choices take, often means they hardly cross path for any prolonged period of time. It is hard to influence and help people you run pass or occasionally say hello to. Some educated ones look down on the other, often name calling and running away as if they are half afraid failure may rub on to them too. While the other camp, also do they fair share of name calling, develop complexity such as assuming that the “nerds” are looking down on the, because they did not go to college. It is a strange position to be in. North; You can only help those who want to be helped! You cannot force anyone to do anything. Last year when I had more time I started a Somali-professional group, despite the fact the mentors were available and willing to give an hour here and there the kids were not interested. Only kids who attended were few girls whose parents forced them to attend. They sat drooling on the table for the whole two hours. It was like talking to a brick wall. Too much energy and effort for someone who has another life, job and family, you cannot chase people or force them. It is easy to under estimate the effort and energy that will go into this thing.
  16. North I think you missed my point a little. Parents need to be more than “informed”, they need to take an active role in their children’s life and education. No one else is going to do it for them, not role models, or education centres or community services. Lily, it is a shame, because kids need a hands on approach now, the constrain is that the parents (most) have not gone thorough any formal education and cannot have any input or as suggested by north can only be “informed” and not “involved”
  17. Now me have two "big brother" role models. :rolleyes: In any case I do not think that everything can be blamed on the lack of role models. Kids are out of control these days and too many opportunities to be gangsters. This coupled with lack of parental control and lack of supervision gives kids too much time. Every problem starts at home, and this society will only make these problems worse. Parents need to do more for their kids, but due to lack of knowledge and know-how they cannot provide this support. I don't if government provided services will make any difference or substitute for parental control that is missing. So called community centres run by somali's for somali's are often just an excuse to make money and do little. there are a few who do, but the majority don't! More of them will not help, we need less, but effective community centres. Somali parents take very little interest in education and how their kids are doing, let alone help or monitor their progress. This does not mean they do not care, they will pay to take them to after school classes, pay for private tuition etc, but that is as far as their involvement goes. I say this from experience of working with pre- GCSE Somali kids and my own family who have yet to attend a parent evening, NRA, results day, graduation, the other graduation and could not tell you what I studied or even do now. :cool:
  18. Smith, walaalo you have problems with comprehension me thinks...or a split personality. Exactly what did I say that caused you to attack me like that?? Maybe you just like typing half of my name before you say random things. :confused:
  19. ^^^Hey Red Sea A few years ago, you taught me and this other chick the baa taa ja right here on SOL. As you can see I have improved a little since. Thank you.
  20. ^^^It is the point if you want every pervert and normal person with eyes staring at your chest! Otherwise you better cover up! I'm sure Dirac was not intended for outside wear, and now they are getting more see thorough by the day, It is the same as rocking up to a wedding in your bar and skirt, Scary spice style! Hello girls.
  21. Subxanallah Was she sitting on the window before?? did anyone notice the little kid standing next to the man or I'm seeing things. If it was a somali man, you can bet your last penny, her clan would've tore him apart and cooked him alive. :mad: Only time I'm pro clan!
  22. No way, no please dear god no, not another retard. At least Ahmed was kinda ok (ish) He prayer, did not eat pork or have sex on TV. :eek: :eek:
  23. :rolleyes: Right, it was not him... :cool: