The Siren, I cannot get past reading page 6 of this thing, it is utterly boring!!! Did you say this was the best you read, if so, oh what a shame.

The short answer is no, you cannot be a SEXY muslimah, it is an oxymoron, and it defeats the whole purpose of a hijab. You should look nice, presentable, clean and fresh, but sexy no. Most women enjoy feeling loved, attractive, sexy, and wanted. Most importantly, many of us like the attention we receive from the opposite sex. Yes, most women enjoy feeling loved and attractive, sexy and wanted by their partner not random strangers, and she has it twisted, as a muslimah we are not suppose to like the "attention we receive from the opposite sex" in fact we should avoid that attention, and it is a lie to say MOST, unless she is talking about ALL women, rather than just muslim women. Oh and the bit about what if she gets a husband who does not or would not yayad ya, it is grounds for divorce,along with other reasons such as not finding him attractive or not being satisfied. we all have to be quiet, demure, soft-spoken, dull and practically afraid of men? If a woman is stylish (in terms of her dress), friendly, assertive , and outspoken why do some Muslim women rush to give her an “Islamic” makeover?" What is wrong with quite?? As supposed to loud mouth? Friendly and outpoken to who?? :confused: to men?? well then she does need a "islamic makeover" Val, I agree, I see the mosy beautiful styles on the tube!I'm sure some sisters wonder why I keep staring trying to see how they did it. LOL

Abyan post says it all Everything happens for a reason, maybe there is a perfectly good reason why Allah has not made it so, so count all your other blessings and let it be. IF it is meant to be it will happen, stop obsessing about it, and don't let Shidan play havoc with your mind. Marriage can only enhance what you already were as a person, it is not a solution to problems and a bucket of happiness, which can transform your life from zero to hero. It can be really off putting for guys who might want to marry you if you are so intense and suffocating. Marriage is already daunting enough for everyone without so much added pressure, particularly if you are strangers who just met. So my advise is to relax, let it be for a while, and find something else in life, which supplements the absences of a partner;- for example increase your social/ friends network, do something challenging like starting a new career, take a holiday, go trekking, start a business, do a degree in Islamic study, become a xafidiah, an ideal Muslimah. Afterall, your soul purpose in life is to worship Allah, maybe this trial is just another way to draw your near to your lord and make you a better, stronger Muslimah. May Allah make life easier for you and aid you in finding happiness and contentment. Ask Allah to give you that which is good and beneficial to you, both in this life and the hearafter.

^^^Because he looks bloody Somali, and I always though he WAS for sometime, by then in my mind he was sijui and I've been unable to backtrack since. Waa Somali luumey I tell ya

^^HE is not Somali. Wa Kenyan, just Muslim Does £60 count

^^^So how much is a normal/ enough and not insulting?

^^^YEah, but his been talking about since Feb!! counting the days, now I am just like GO dude. I even forgot today was his last day, when I walked him, he said, Ibti today is the day! I said why are you working! He said, because I don't want to lose the hrs from my pay. Should I get him a present, would it be offensive to give him money?

^^^No, LSK just left you out, he does not like that cimamah and gun!! I've seen senior nomad with 1002

^^^Don't get arrested saying things like that. Ngonge, you are pictured in your street!!! :eek:

Thierry, you don't have long to go , just stick with me for one day and you will be there

^^^Really, right, well yes of course we believe you.

My street is not on there, but my work place is :eek: :eek: Looks nice in pictures LOL

I did not know north was older than serenity, waxab iis ma daantan. oldies **ducks before serenity sends a flying shoe

The sujui receptionist is going back to Kenya tonight to get married, bless him he is so nervous and worried, every time I see him, he asks me to make dua! Now I feel like saying, dude relax, how hard can it be! Salamz everyone.

^^^LOOOOL @ collecting our pensions. I thought it was exclusive, but after browsing for a while, I noticed everyone is senior, well everyone I noticed.

NGONGE!! HAHAHA LOOL That is great! LOL They need to give you some work to do at WORK! How did you have time to do this!!

Huh?? when did this happen<<<< on my status, does that mean LSK thinks I am getting old :mad: On the real, do we get sweeties or any powers to erm bully other nomads [Yeah, yeah I know I already do that!]I mean you know, officially Can you make it look like this Senior Nomad without the commands showing dhee

People are going to sue them now. Line up all, we'll get a lawyer. I don't know how to use this thing. where do I put the postcode in? But check this, you cannot sue them for showing your face or car number, but you can sue them if harm comes to you as a result of them showing your details. So who wants to get bitten up Geeljire! shid, LOL, Waar I meant niid boodweyen

Abu you are to late with the damn duca, Geeljire nasiibkey nooqdey! I will look around in the weekend inshallah, but I doubt I have what you want, almost everything I wrote was about SL.

^^^I told you it was too general ya Abu, stop trying to trick me into doing your work! Give me some articles or authories to look for at least. Otherwise you got to wait till I have an afternoon free in the weekend to go through and read through articles to see if they are related to your research or not!!! Nationalism is not my field either, but I can send you things on the failure and issues that arise from that. My field was economics, so all my articles are related to that, rather than a wishwash idea of nationalism iyo waaxan laa gaaraninin!

Bloody double post! SOL is having problems today; hmm let me find another joke! once in a far away land there lived a king who had a beautiful wife with very voluptuous breasts. in the kings army was the warrior called Nick the Slayer. His main dream in life was to get hold of the king's wife breasts in his hands. One day he approached Horatio the Physician and told him of his wish. he promised Horatio the Physician that if he is able to help him achieve his dream he will give him one million gold coins. Horatio promises to help him. The next day Horatio slips an itching powder into the Queen's upper garments. in court with the king her breasts begin to itch badly. when Horatio the Physician was called the told the king that the only person that can treat that ailment in the whole kingdom is Nick the Slayer because his saliva contains substances that can cure itching. so the king agrees. Nick takes the lady into her chamber and takes her breast into his mouth. before then the physician had given him a potion which he slipped into his mouth. after about 4 hrs of active breast sucking the itching stops. everyone is happy. the next day Horatio reminds Nick to honour his promise. he doesnt even look at him cos he knows the secret will never come out and he's had what he wants already. so Horatio after sometime slips the itching powder into the Kings shorts and guess who was called to come and lick the Kings balls............... moral of story......learn to pay your bills and honour your promises

^^^Your smile reminded me to read my joke e-mails. Hi, honey, this is Daddy," .... "Is your Mommy near the phone?" "No, Daddy. She's upstairs in the bedroom with Uncle Frank," After a brief pause, Daddy says, "But you haven't got an Uncle Frank, honey!" "Oh Yes, I do, and he's upstairs in the bedroom with Mommy, right now!" "Uh, Okay, then......here's what I want you do. Put down the phone, run upstairs and knock on the bedroom door and shout to Mommy and Uncle Frank that Daddy's car's just pulled up outside the house." "Okay, Daddy!" A few minutes later, the little girl comes back to the phone. "Well, I did what you said, Daddy." "And what happened?" he asks. "Well, Mommy got all scared, jumped out of bed with no clothes on and ran around screaming, then she tripped over the rug and went flying through the front window ...and now she's all dead." "Oh my God!!!!! And what about Uncle Frank?" "He jumped out of bed with no clothes on too and he was all scared and he jumped out the back window into the Swimming pool..... but he must have forgot that last week you took out all the water to clean it, so he hit the bottom of the swimming pool and now he's all real dead too." ***long pause*** Daddy says, "Swimming pool? Is this 555-7039?" A little boy got lost at the YMCA and found himself in the women's locker room. When he was spotted, the room burst into shrieks, with ladies grabbing towels and running for cover. The little boy watched in amazement and then asked, "What's the matter haven't you ever seen a little boy before?" A little girl had just finished her first week of school. "I'm just wasting my time," she said to her mother. "I can't read, I can't write and they won't let me talk!"

^^^Gosh how many screens do you have opened! Mind you don't crush your computer, iyo weliba 21 unread e-mails! LOOOL. I know that place :eek: P.s. This is bad idea for a police state, shid house!!

^^^Gosh how many screens do you have opened! Mind you don't crush your computer, iyo weliba 21 unread e-mails! LOOOL. I know that place :eek: P.s. This is bad idea for a police state, shid house!!

^^^I swear a day off is wasted on you!! I am still mad that it is wasted on someone who wakes at 6am on their day off!!! :mad: uuf, what is that about! Sheh Kick ***, but stop stressing about it!