LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO L HAHAHAH LOOL This thread cracks me up!! Qax qax qix looool hehehe. Adnaan your even worse than him!!!

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Paragon Hunguri baad kaa soo riitey!

BOB for sure, thanks for the reminder. Guys in English from now on. Sister is going to be confused trying to read this.

^^The Patani are like the South Indians right?? aint they also the lower class??

^^^What do we (me & U care) I'm sure Sabriya is worried though!! LOOOL Paragon: HAHAHA waxaan aad raabi iinu curry kaa uuro You don't know what your want, at this rate you aint getting anything, it'll be too late, so make up your mind aniga aya kaa naxay and kuu qaabo

^^^But she is Pakistan, they are tiny, she is going to be skinner than her farah!!! He will hate that Slim is okay, but I said Kate Moss (she is starving)

^^^Cuunto baadaan bey siinsia, and he once told me, he wants a obedient wife, where he is the boss, he does not want miid laa muuraanto

^^^I agree, Only think I love about Somali marriage. If it does not work, I jus have to make enough hu-ha about it and after few attempts they let me out. The Asian Community is like a prison, your never coming out. Paragon: inaanta Guurso waryaa.

^^^Paragon, I know a few brothers (one who nearly got killed by Bengalis) for Asian women. Sister if you want a Somali man and your Pakistan: Eat lots of PFC (they like big hips and other parts too, try to look more like a black women body shape than Kate Moss) Grow your hair, argue with him (don't be a push over, they like a challenge (they pretend they don't)oh and learn your deen. I know half Asian half Somali Kids. They are stunning mashallah.

Well considering the unlikelihood of a divorced women getting a husband within the Pakistan community, it is not suprising that divorce is very uncommon. In addition, the fact that Asian families have to PAY the guy dowery(money/gold) to marry their daughter makes marriage a family run business where a women cannot simply decided to walk away from her family investment because she no longer gets on with her husband. The reason Somali divorces are more common than Pakistan divorces is in fact a positive thing, Somali women do not have a huge guilt or severe obligation to stay in an abusive or unworkable marriage. Living in the heart of East London, I have seen my share of abused Asian women who cannot walk away or speak out against mistreatment, often staying in unbearable situation, at a huge psychological and at times physical cost. So please don’t preach to me about marriage and oh how divorce is so bad. Asian cultures have made a hala option (divorce) almost haram, making it impossible for women to leave. There is nothing worse than feeling trapped, with no exit strategy, immense pressure from your family and shunned by the community. In contrast to that, Somali women are not seen as burden or investment by their families, while every effort is made to make a marriage work, and the family will put pressure on them to try harder, there is no force, nor are they required to stay in abusive or uncomfortable environment. Somali women can remarry (some remarry many many times) Furthermore ultimately they women can turn around and refuse or go against her whole family and his if she feels that it is not work. This is mainly because our families don’t have to buy a man for us, in fact the guys are required to compensate the girls family. Obviously if I knew my family has been saving up to pay for me to marry some guy, I will feel obliged to stay with him regardless of how I feel or what I am getting out of this marriage. Somali women expect a lot more from their husbands, and they demand more, there is not an obvious hierarchy of I am the husband and you must obey me like the Asian community, it is more informal and mutual agreement. For example a Somali women will never live and cook for her in law, even back in nomadic life styles, they demanded their own space, house, food and sources of livelihood. So my dear sis, to answer your question, yes the rate is higher when compared to the Pakistan or even Asian community, but this stems from our different cultures and approach to marriage and we do not see it as a negative thing. It is a good option compared to be stuck. Cheers

Che, stop spreading lies, otherwise I will not be allowed to use the net at this rate! :mad: Sabriya, like your ducas, thank you. Amina lool you've seen it all.

^^^never ever lie, I worked with a guy once, there was always someone dying in his family. I've never called in sick, ever for anything, I just don't turn up or get cover or pretend I forgot. Whcih reminds me I need to get out of a conference, I hate presenting, any excuses I can use.

Che isn't Ibti what????

^^^You know waax kaasta waa caalaf, meeshi ayah iila gaashey dee.

^^^I don't, I mean that, it could not get any greener at our end, the rest is like abaar compared to it.

Sister1000, Amina/Tammy can probably tell you better, you see me and Sabriya are bias, we think Somali men the king don of mankind, anything we say is bound to be coloured. P.s. Tammy Wlc/ I'm on ur facebook and been using your website for about a year. Brother named Adam posted on on SOL last year. Your site rocks. Mashallah

^^^LOOL @Che!!1 HAHAHA Leave it alone waryaa. Sister1000 You can use it any time sis; So, where are you from?? What is your culture like?? And what are your men like?? You never know, which side of the bread is buttered

Okay, okay, since you know in tafa la qaabto, I'll allow you.

There are loads of Somalis in Harrow, holla a one of them. Culture: you will find opposits, huge topic. should we tell you about the typial wife?? Sabriya: You forgot about Camels and baarookad, you sure you is Somali??? HAHA

^^^I did not say do the FBI rounds on him; people will tell you all sorts, particularly if she goes around saying "hey I wanna marry that guy" There will be two camps, ONE: Will say nothing but good stuff, the other will say nothing but bad stuff coz they on't want brothers marrying out. hehe She will be left confused. I meant ask a trusted source (like his teacher, brother, sister, guy next door, his work mate, oh and his ex ) Sabriya, the SOL boys think you the best thing since slice bread, they will never get angry with you.

You are thinking of marrying someone you've never spoken to?? Okay when you do speak to him, don't mention it. Your biggest mistake is assuming he has anything common with anyone else. Just take the time to find out. You don't even have to ask him. Somalis have a great extended network, ou can find out everything about him without asking him anything. Good Luck. Sabriya; there is no one better looking and as nice as our dear brothers. They rock LOOL @ cara

Call him "somalian" if he corrects you, marry him, if he lets it go or tells you he is Somalian, run as fast as you can. On a serious note: there are no personality traits, get to know him and treat him like an individual, Somali guys are like any other man, just better looking and nicer.

^^You mean the big fat arrow on all the regions, this map is full of bad bews!

^Fuulayo waaxid. LOool Good to hear the kids still have the old fire in them Don't know what happened to the adults. They probably only noticed when he left and got mad that they missed the shiiding fun! HAHAH