Who is McCheese you are shopping for these days? @ Che JB is just jealous he does not have skin as fine and dark as habeen qudcur ah Che I am too fuuley for Diana, plus I don't like things that have to be repeated all the time, thats why I don't put on henna or make up or shave my eyebrows off or do my nails. I can't even watch series on TV let alone take the skin off my face once a week or month or even year.

^^Yes, I do. It is outside the limits of what I am allowed to do in life.

^^^Just because other Muslim countries do it does not mean we should follow, nor does it suddenly make it okay in Islam. Women President is not allowed in Islam, but there are other roles they can play.

^^^Different rules for different folks, he has no problem that I am as dark as diigis, pluz he aint so light himself. But his cousin is white and her dad is a mean man.

^^I think you missed the part about his first wife dying. If I died I would want him to marry four to fill my role in his life

Oodweyne and Castro I am going to send you guys to "how to give dacwa and be nice to people you disagree with" lessons at my local mosque available via the net. You are both mean! The thing is I have a problem is his argument and the flaws it contains, but I also don't like your alter liberal hala is dhex yaaco method. Don't think I have not noticed the few women in SL who sit with 300 guys trying blindly to shout louder than them. That is not the way forward either. I am going to cross the road and stand in the middle, but let see if you guys can find a common ground with regards to Women's role. Between Abu Salman who limits them but allows basic education, to Castro who thinks they should run wild and be allowed to have four husbands as well

^^^I'm not waiting around long enough to find out We have a deal, he can marry how ever many he wants, he just has to be ready to give me my papers before he makes a move on them.

^^^He has no sisters, brothers, or mum. His dad has two wifes back in his country. Sorry, he has a cousin, but she is not allowed to marry black men

Che I was saying hello to Oodweyne, but adiga and JB ba na dhex gaaley.

Originally posted by Abu-Salman: Women protection is what it is all about in Shariah and putting some on show has hardly helped the growing number of our sisters struggling with or throwing away illegitimate children, let alone the public health nightmare associated with laxer norms. I'm sure you are acquainted with all those suicide by immolation and destroyed homes; the key is thus prevention, prevention and again prevention! In appropriate, Shariah compliant ways, Women will have a say and will even receive basic education as a top priority; no more Western cliche of mothers kept in "ignorance", as Islam recognise and optimise their vital role. They are also the main beneficiaries of authentic Equality (but also progressive Environmental protection and Health systems etc)... SalamAlikum, There is no link between illegitimate babies and participation of women in some aspects of society. Nor does their involvement necessarily mean the disintegration of society morality or the rise or promiscuity. I don’t like the fact that you have painted women as the root cause of all evil and everything that can possible go wrong is attributed to them. For one thing Somali history is against you, for Somali women in general have not played a pivotal role in destroying it. For another, Somali women, culture and customs does not promote such lifestyle. Even without government and control, these issues and life style have remained minimal, why then would you think they will increase or be a subject or worry if Islamic government was introduced. It is not a matter of having a say per say, but having a direct role in issues that concern them and the development of systems that are impacting on them. Before you think I am advocate for western style women role in government or challenge for leadership, I am not, I am aware of the limitations that Islam places on their role, however the Islamic limitations are much wider and inclusive then the relegated role of receiving “basic education” and hiding to avoid being a burden on the health system and throwing away babies. It seems that rather than educating people and make them understand and accept Islam and the rule of Islam as the natural way forward, often people want to impose and dictate to them Islamic way of living, which simply won’t work and makes people resent that which has not been explained/ educated on. On a general note, this seem like a wish list or if I could wave a magic stick, rather than working with the realities in Somalia. For example, the probability of finding in Somalia: a none-clanist, none criminal, over the legal age, pro Islam, none qaad eating or other habits is much less than the number of men needed to run a country. Instead of subjugating the women and trying to get a bunch of males to run a country without their input, you might be better off doubling up some of your ministers (education, trade, health and research at least) so that you have almost two co-societies running together cohesively, but each department tending to the needs and specifications. That way you can utilise the full potential of your population.

Loool @ Barafka iridka yaalla ayaan masaxayaa! Why more will come down and you don't leave the house anyway Of course I will make your stay worthwhile JB such waste, no wonder SL aint getting anywhere fast

Naden the guys think a normal headache are the same as migraines. If they had a migraine they will take a month off work or write a will and letters to their loved ones. I use to get them on regular basis like two three times a week, alhumdulilah now I only get them once every few weeks. But I tried so many things at once, I cannot point to something specific that did the trick in the end. I use to take one Aspirin at night for a while as well, regardless of whether I had a migraine at that time or not. As for acupuncture, I had a combination of a total of 12 sessions. I gave up fizzy drinks, still have lots of sugar and bad eating habits which is probably why I still get them now and again.

^^^Last I knew we got him to see a psychologist, I have not been able to reach him personally but coordinated via his wife, so was very upset and sad that he is so depressed and she does not know how to help, she does not know he threaten to kill himself and I did not have the heart to tell her. I’ll check on him today. 1day in London, err you could not make it two?

^^For three months?? or a year? Are you going to my ends Lool @ Qardo aint dusty, but it is, apart from Ngonge who thinks it has flowing rivers of honey Are you taking the hubby or alone?

^^You brought another Cake/ baking book Lool women soon you are going to have a library!!! Ms DD, I meant in terms of you know updating strangers every 5mins or whatever, you don't even do that on facebook. Pluz you know how to shut me up, give me cake or sugar, I will be silent and still When you leaving for Somalia? As for cooking for Faheem, she does not trust my food, even salad she will stand over me to make sure it is done right (yeah I know it is just bunch caalen in a bowel) so I will stick to taking her to our fav joint with the yummy drinks. There can be only one chef in the house you know

Juxa lol we'll try. Faheem your brought a cake and did not save me some (even as small as a cup cake, plus that one looks like the pink cake shop?) Of course you are OUR cook, otherwise you'll live on soup and leafs :rolleyes: Pluz you'd rather be my chef than that damn cuuri Ngonge keeps talking about. Hey Ms DD How are you doing? Twitering, never thought you had THAT much to say. As for so much cake and no weight, I think that era is coming to an end, people kept saying that and now I'm heading towards the Average UK size of 16 :eek:

^^Eeer she just changes names too often this week, this is her 3rd name. You even posted a picture of her

Zakhina lol, I'm still out of the gold Juxa, this guys wey iska haadley, the ones who are married paid with their blood (Dabshid, Khyr etc) and the likes of Nuune is still saving up. I've have yet to see a guy and girl break up because he refuses her request.

^^^Thats a man you know. what you trying to say?? Faheema, stop over dosing on soup and can you cook nice meal today. I am going very hungry by the time I get to yours. Oh and can you bake a cake, I will bring the ingredients. If you can’t do both, just bake a cake, forget food.

^^Even worse, the others should know better, and normally seek long term protection, they hate kids messing up their life when they having fun

Khyr: You got the ages wrong wait, somalis believe: 18-23yr-Exploitation 24-28-Gold 29-35 Silver 36-45 Bronze 50-100 - Aluminum

@ Faheema: LOOL we spend too much time together! lol Oz: Reer Oz must be beyond ilbaax, why do girls carry a kit around with them, Waali, would it not be easier to make sure you don't need to take a test to start with. As for you, you are qaaxar! P.s. It would only work if she has a reason to think there is a possibility, but then again she won't be carrying a kit unless she thought it was possible.

OZ: Eeer how would you know and she does not know? :confused: Unless your a GP or you are going to claim that you tricked her and got her knocked up. Juxa so 7pm tomorrow is cool?

^^^ Hello lady. Sayid is taking time out, can we meet this week inshallah. HE is saying 7pm tomorrow is good for him? What about u?

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: How did I miss this thread. Che, I will have you known I treat him very well, even cooked his traditional dishes a few times you know!! Not the normal raaliyo, but he is still alive By the way: "Poor Bengali, What did Ibtisam done to you" Did you post this after a long day