labellavida;883639 wrote: Ibtisam , that's really harsh don't you think? He is still in his 20s (which makes him young to me) and he's very good looking and tall. Plus, we have a lot of great conversations together. * No, that is not harsh, being harsh would be me saying; stop being a family wrecking ho*e, but I didn't. :cool: plus your reasoning is shallow- he is good looking and tall (so are so many people) and as great conversations (you can have great conversations with strangers and friends alike, does not mean you jump into bed with them or marry them- after you finish your convo, you keep it moving). Anyway when you are a big fat whale just like his wife, I will come and chat him up and ensure he leaves you before introducing him to pains he can never imagine. How about that for a deal. P.s. You can't ask people what do you think of this (story) and then force us all to agree with you or re-enforce your ideas.

Raamsade;883555 wrote: Bal eega gardarradan kas iyo maaga ah! What makes a married Faarax a loser? As a 3 naagoodle, let me assure you that married Faaraxs are true salt of the earth. I used to be 4 naagoodle till I divorced my 4th wife, the ugly one, for domestic abuse. Like that Somali maahmaah, the uglier the she donkey the nastier the kick, she had this nasty habit of kicking me in her sleep. She claimed she was unaware but I think the qumiyada was doing it on purpose. One night she kicked me so hard that I fell off the bed. That is when I said enough and is enough and I called the police telling them this qumayo beat me up. Since then I had tons of barely legal Xalimos throwing themselves at me not only because I'm smashingly handsome with deep pockets and sport a wicked swag as I sashay about my ways in town but also because I'm already taken. Women/girls are attracted to married men for same reason they're attracted to bad boys - the thrill or the chase. Laballavida, you're 19 and not married yet? What are you waiting for? If you're not married by 16 you're old. Actually you're worse than old, you're what Somalis call Guumeys go ask your elders if you don't know what that means. I suggest you accept this dude's overtures right away and get married before it is too late or if you're gonna do the dirty deed do it safely. Looool!!!! Dearest as a bold, beer belly, chipped toothed farah, I can see how you are a four timing saint. It must be all that money eh. Loool you are funny. lol it might be your humor.

Interesting developments. I hope he is well and coping where ever he is.

^HE is probably doing some research on how lose Somali xalimos have become and will use these posts as advice from the Somali community who are equally as lost in culture and deen. Poster: of all my post, you only picked up on the gay part? so is he gay????. And read again- I didn't say all gay man are cross dressers- In any case, on second though, and based on your other threads, I have any idea which will help you and this forum. Nariah, labellavida and the two master copies wa iney isku qooq baxaan. It is part of the growing up of one person really. It is time for a confession thread.

Juxa. His next offer is going to be do you want my big a*ss bed- it's free for you. lol They are too far gone for waxaan aad sheegesid. Married men are just silly running around still hitting on other women.

Lol Yiiiiks, Looserad as my friend likes to say. Akhas all that calcal for a married loser farah. iiiish yaa kab kula dhac. At 19, what are you even doing running in the same circles as old washed married dudes. The world is full of young beautiful single males- find one. Better yet concentrate on something other then men. My edo would tell you waad qooadey- leave the married loser alone and find an outlet for your qooqin.

^^^ superficial pleasantries and professional talk with people you live with? err living with strangers soon becomes a strange marriage where you share the dishes and cooking and noise- only thing missing is fighting about who picks up the kids from school. Poster: You said a male friend- how friendly are you willing to be with the male friend for free rent? The world is give and take- if he is giving you a free house to live in WITH him (I have been given free houses to live in for short whiles in various countries by male friends who lived else where or countries) but this friend wants you to live with him- he is expecting something back. Even you can figure that out- naaga dhaa just say you want the house and what ever else that comes with it if not then learn to pay for your way. P.s. I hope it is not the married man P.s.s. You have some interesting "friends" P.s.s.s. IF he is gay then what I said above is wrong, he wants your shoes and dresses, but living with a gay man will have its own challenges.

Loool miskiin. Oh well at least you was not asleep and it crawled into you mouth/ nose. The average persons swallows 6 spiders a year. :PYep.

Adam that is one ugly thing. Juxa- work meeting. YEah Somali Week is a lot of work.

Was not hungry till I got to the restaurant. Now I feel like I'm gagging with gaajo. Lol monsoon as usual is going to take hrs. Juxa your last week is SWF. Nice.

Lol howdy trollers.

Lol why were u looking for sheep.

Lol they don't kill breastfeeding ones

Lol. Madness. A women can be in love with a married man or women. I've seen it happen. The feeling itself is not haram or harmful. I don't see how someone can bank their happiness on someone else misery particularly another women. Truth is he will never leave his wife. So she can either be content with being the bit on the side or at best a second wife. If you don't want to be on bit on the side or second wife. Then she needs ruun uu sheeg naftadiidina ha raadasan. Incidentally I can't believe any farah worthy being a bit on the to with rather pathetic excuses of love. Iish keep hitting her till she comes to her senses. Accept him with wife or leave him. Sounds like a losser anyway.

Should goats be allowed to live. That is my question. What about nice ones that produce milk.

^^^LOOOL the fact your imagination even attempted is revolting. yiiiks. Alpha you find all women a threat and intimidating, stop trying to justify you chicken nature.

If I dated everyone who though I was cute and good looking I would be the resident Paris Hilton, going through men like clothes. Alpha has all the maids on date waiting, man dont need your help. Let it go= unless of course you are really a women and developed a soft spot for him- I could put in a good word for you.

I find it difficult to share a forum with alpha, and he hates me with passion. That is torture for the child and the general public. You and him can adopt a cat together though.

Alpha, sounds like the CID had more sense than you. After all, when you leave Somaliland in a few years you would;ve left him behind- if not before then when your brainless skin whitening xalimo demanded it to be so. Plus I have a feeling you would remind him all the time how lucky he is that you adopted him and give him life- he would hate you. Try having you own kids, if you are good at that then, maybe adopt. You need to be settled and stable to adopt, one of the reasons I have not adopted myself is because I cannot yet give anyone (kid or adult) the stability of family.

If you like him so much and you want something out of it ask him. But if you dont want to marry him and you dont date, then what is the point of knowing or making him go out of his comfort zone just so you can shut him down? If you wanna date him or marry- just ask him and get it over and done with it. He would either say yes or No, and voila problem solved! From what you wrote- I think he is just religious and a little scared of your brothers- rather than him having a crash on you.

I hope this is a joke. If not good luck with it all.

Are you on my facebook. How did you get on there without me knowing. That picture is not black and no where near the mad multi-nomad.

I mentioned it to my landlord, and he just said, waaxas uu carur aha bey isku heesa, naagah oo dhan wa iska cankaas. Made me wanna smack him. Inanta guriga said the mother is a very pretty lady who is always dressed up when I asked if she knew what her mental state was. Imam have no power here. Elders means I have to find out her clan to track them down. I am going to see if her bloody husband ever shows up to father another one, might be worth telling him, it is pointless to keep having them if you are not here to raise them. I just wanna hear if she is nicer to them or her language improves when he is here. lol Ngonge you are just making excuses so u can insult me Did you send me the link?

Looool, warya ha ii cayn, the first time you met me- you called me a baboon with red teeth- yes I still remember despite it being 4yrs ago. Now lizard. You are one mean old man. lol

I am in a hot country. I should be darker Ngonge. Miis you thought I would start bleaching in Africa. My darkness is a sign of Vit D warya, leave me alone. Juxa dont bother with sun block- all sitting on my desk- I just forget, plus it is sticky and not intended for long term use. I live here, la qabso. Ngonge it is always shocking, no matter no often you see it. Abu- She is scary, I feel she will just turn around and say ma adiga ayaa ila daal my kids, get lost. I like the peace, dont want to start a fight. Ngonge if it is the one Im in a green dress and the security guards? otherwise send me the link. Another thing about SL, ciid walaba wants iney iska ka sawirato and stick it on some website.