Marrying minority clans for me is the same as marrying someone from a big clan from far way southern lands, I have nothing against it, but not fan of far away places. It is not about clan or blood line (needless to say mine is better than everyone and all that) but a personal choice. There is no such thing as purest blood, ma ciid ba la so shandeyeh?

^^sale it to someone who has a fetish for law firms. Eating Crispy cream doughnuts.

Juxa come over tomorrow or sunday- anytime after that Xalwad ka quuso. I'm past half of the xeedo already. Was tempted to have some for breakfast. Morning all. Just got into work.

Hmmm Salam peeps*

^^^Lool Your not stuck- just heading out of Baker Street- If I can make it so can u- beat it. Salam people- wish me luck, I'm ski home. Faheema snow fight? *Waves @ Oz

Hahaha heheh C&H your sick. lol

C&H lol too late. Londoners- better run home NOW- snow is coming down fast.

Hehehe this is fun- watching this.

^^^yes like that, but less Saffron, so colour is lighter. She is a Lebanese, married to a Kuwaiti. What does it matter, it is yummy

Ngonge I got the Xalwa- uncut and filled to the rime, and not by some old lady, but by a professional nuts sprinkled on top and embedded into it. It is delicious. I asked her if I can get it in London, she said No. :mad: Juxa and Faheema it calls for a girls night. Safe journey Faheema

CL Loool @ sitting and waiting and waiting. Juxa I already said I am not fuzzed about what people believe and follow in Love or Religion as long as you are happy with it, I will clap you on your way, help you pick out boxs of chocolate and kusband shirts and all that. CL is the one on the mission- I live and let live.

^^Now they will say you are a lesbo Faheema is confused- she believes and dreams of what Lily terms as Love- but she wants it to be renamed as commitment with a close male friend. Now I know why she has all those friends- makes sense- mid bey xanbaari *ducks CL now now, leave them be. Gosh this xalwa is so yummy. Carry on girls.

I just got a sliver bowel of Lebanese xalwa (I thought it was uunis when she gave me the metal bowel). It is so yummy, packed with nuts and god knows what- it makes Somali Xalwa just seem like sugar and oil/ hot water. This thing even smells yummy. Juxa I know you love Xalwa, shall I save you some?

^^If you accept Lily believes then you must also accept mine and CL and Faheema to a lesser extent- that one is a fast one. Lily now that Juxa has broken it down, I conclude I don't believe in your kind of love for the simple reason that I don't trust anyone beyond a certain point of about 40-45%. I only trust myself and Allah. So no trust, means lots of respect and okish understanding- that I can live with and live without. Juxa- sounds like boring and hard work- I don’t know if it is worth it.

^^Lily that makes no sense to ME. If I believed I would go out there and make another a believer so that I have evidence of my believe, and I would make sure that believe is beneficial to me! I guess it would make sense if I believed- looked, failed and then decided I don't believe. But that is not the case- I always knew it was not so, even as an 8yr old. I don't mind that you or anyone else believes- I think it is good for you and inshallah I hope and pray you find what you are looking for, but I object being treated like a freak because I don't share that ideal. CL and Faheema are the extreme ones- CL does not believe and her role is to make sure no one else does and if they do she mocks them. I just think Oh lord I hope they find something they are happy with. *Faheema don't be a freak now, but then again I often think people who keep seeing things are just talking about the Jinn and the Shidan.

^^^No, I have no such ideas at all. I cannot loose out- if it existed I would get my own- no need to get green eyed over someone else. BUT I don't believe it, at best there is tolerance, connivance and common ground for the time being. Those are things people always try to shove down others throat to try and make sense out of something like believe. Why can't it just be that I don't believe it, same way I don't believe in aliens even though people swear they seen, eat and lived with them. Faheema- now why would you say that- I have a heart, I just use it for useful things.

You love believers really need a new line, your assumptions of why people don't believe in love is out of this world, it is always: - Oh it is because you've been hurt before (err NO, never ever not even in my dreams - Your parents hate each other (not true) - Domestic violence (No never) - Other love related disasters ( No - Low self esteem or believe that you are unlovable ( err no, not true - Fear of rejection ( No, what is the worse that can happen) Can you please discuss in your next meeting the reasonable reasons we rejection this notion rather than your fake piety diagnosis *waves at Lily, how are u?

^^^That resolution lasted for about 5mins. I don't believe in poor chap syndrome. That which does not kill them will only make them stronger so maah. I'm sure one day they will thank me Faheema believes in measured love, she is a percentage lover. It is only love if it makes perfect sense like 2+2=4 and never 5

Some guy tried to convince me this the other day: Love is an integral part of Islam, if I don't believe in Love, there is something wrong or dent in my Islamic foundation. Can you believe the cheek?

^^^err does sugar count? Juxa: What??? :eek: *Blond mode* say walahi? Sayid you heard- I cannot take it back, so please take the daasaado.

Juxa I agree; Acceptance that it is a myth and patience not to kill him CL Juxa is one of those ones too- she just hides it under her jacket. Cara: lol I guess so, they look evil though

^^^too early for Qardho talk. Faheema do you remember you once told me to buy a box of oats to eat (8 or 10 bits) I'm nearly done with it- just had one and realised that I only have one left- I thought it was never going to finish! At Least it warms me up. Sayid I need to you pick up some stuff from me- the charity boxs and collection things. Oodeygi might want them back too you know.

^^^Loool Or maybe you area has too many junks that walk around at night and by the time you woke up, the snow was dirty brown with footprints and melting. In my area it looked like a carpet cover of snow and made nice sinking sound when you step. I did a little dance on my way to the tube- creat my own snow beat

^^^Fine don't call haadow and say you are stuck in some far away drive way and the car is slipping down hills. Even if it snowed a drop you should call and say my car is stuck in my own drive way NOT yours.

^^^I think I am sad, in a good way. Leaving work at 4pm inshallah. I have to go to Dahabshill and start a fight.