Oh my god, someone shoot the player player please!! and the cheesy love songs. Oh my god I hope Farah is less eeew Libaax farah in UK have gone on TV to find a date with 30 women, they pick each other and go on a date. It is called take me out. Finding date/ love on TV is the new thing. Lord have mercy

I already feel like dying with the thought!! I think I might just stop watching it now.

lOOL Oh my God!! such desperate show. Where do they find these people! Waiting for Farah to come on, I hope he don't dance!

Who on earth write 11pages in a will!!! What were they writting?? Mine is half a page long! Faheema

^^Firstly well Congrats to you and I only know because you posted about. It is not for people to approve or understand what I do in my personal life. You seem to think I was asking for permission. As for it being Xaram, read the above discussion- they could not decide one way or the other. Either way my objection is not based on clan (hence why I said minorities are on equal levels with other so called clans) but rather on distance and smooth life. As for my work in development, again it is nothing to do with this issue. I work for people who are not even my own more than my so called "clan" because they are more needy. Lastly I'm done with this topic, you and whoever is free to think as you wish, form a long line to throw you shock and insults this way and then claim you are joking or was provoked. I don caare. Salamah

No Loool The show Friends, It is 8pm! Go HOME!

I can watch friends all the time. Always makes me laugh.

^^^Did you save us some cake??? Lool @ More of you to love. And bigger Loool @ Cara and Fat!!! LOL Ngonge yes. Faheema the killer , she is going to blame me and kill me!

^^^I did not know Cara had obesity problem or love for cake- I thought that was limited to some of the London Girls

^^Wax Walan Hey Lily Val, Hello and belated congrats and all. the old troll went out of capacity coz Faheema posted a large photo. It won't let us open the thread no more- so we were forced to open a new makhaidey.

Looool @ Ngonge!!! Shiid I did not see that! Juxa: I think you got the wrong end of the stick with that one- I explained to Faheema and the girls on Sat what I meant and they said that is not what I said on the thread. So I will settle that with you over a cake fight inshallah.

^^Sheh Depends on how much they object, and how much you stick to your guns. If you feel strongly enough I'm sure you will object loudly enough. Some parents are more set than others. My family will object- but quietly, so I would not have to fight them- they will just tell me lots of stereotypes about the said clan and joke about it, but they will never say you cannot marry this person. Sayid: Do you have guys from Qardho just sitting around your office- meel kasta you are offering one to girls

Loool Sheh. I think everyone sees individuals until the parents ask "oo waayo and then you go back and say War maxad aheyad?" and that only happens in matters of marriage. I think in the west that is the only time anyone ever bothers mentioning clans or it is likely to impact on us. Nevertheless we cannot control what people think of us as an individual or clan, but we can control what we think and how we justify it. In the Somali context clan matters- if not to you individually then to your parents or someone in your family;- at least enough for them to ask wa ayao. Maybe in about 3-4 generations or so, parents won’t ask what clan is he/she, but it is a dominate question still. Juxa Somalis will be Somalis. Remember when we were doing the fundraising, people kept asking me if the money is going to Burco. :rolleyes: Sheh enjoy your shopping and don't kill the shoppers with your cill- you should've gone while everyone was still at work though- now you have to fight the after work rush.

^^The PMs- thats for them to get over, well half will write me off in the bad bad people's book- and the other half, to be honest I was never going to get on with someone who shouts you effin islaweyn qaladan. I think they have more issues with clan than I, who they are trying to preach to. The voicemail was a request for help.... Well not with the lynching mob but with my mad boss.

Qarxis.com @ JB I would have gone, but these things are always 90% Male, old and everyone wants to give a speech at question time. They did not even bother to invite a women as the guest. How can you have a conference on development with no female rep?

^Ma adiga aya chai walle aha today. I'll have one thanks.

Sayid; I doubt you can term it as "poor Ibti", and I was not bashing heads, I was just saying my view.

Strange I don't feel that at all. In fact don't even see what there is for me to get over. Maybe I will notice next week or something.

Tasmanian devils have a notoriously cantankerous disposition and will fly into a maniacal rage.... ....Tasmanian devil as a seething, snarling, insatiable lunatic is Sounds like me;- I did like the being on drugs better though. Juxa; it is Okay for a girl to be short Sheh I won't.

What is a Tasmanian Devil fever? (never watched cartoon?) I did not say anything about Juxa :confused: Today I am being blamed for what I have done and what I have not done alike!. Yaab and a half. :confused: :eek: Ngonge You wish!!! lool. Edit: Sheh I am not good at hints either- so far wawaney ku diig please.

^^^Lool Malika; Aniga? :confused: I was asking why it was so important, but thanks for the tip, biyo anyan isku qulaamin even though aan deganah. Juxa, Kuwa aniga iga sii gaabanah P.s. I guess I need to beat about the push for everything in the Somali context- plain speaking is offensive. :eek:

Ngonge is the same hight as me. Aniga aya is aga tagey. What is the big deal anyway?

Sheh: You mean medication?? Why?

^^What are you and Ngonge trying to say about Juxa :mad:

Juxa: I don't have a daughter and if I do, she will be half Bengali and almost 20years younger than him. I already have issues with that and it aint coz he is southerner Blue loool strange goals!! Sheh I was talking about the PMs she is getting saying how she is so nice and lovely, how can she put up with me. But I agree on the looks part.