^^^ Girl caawa you are slow! lool I was talking to Che about when I went travelling in India (March- April)alone. Now lets forget about me and talking about you; Maxaad so waada?

^^No AAliya read what I wrote: I said *** from other cultures are more controlling, then I added it depends on what you work out together. We are cool, dont be hating on us girl, ducad keen Che: Not that kind of sixirey, I guess I will start to see true colours in about 5yrs time, haada weeli he is playing the perfect kusband to the T Lool no spies, it is all about trust, at times I forgot to call for few days, just so he can worry a little, it is good for the heart dhee. lol P.s. AAliya tell the truth, you accept the Iraqi more than a Bengali. It is okay, I get it.

Aaliya!!! lool, your friend Iraqi racadey ba you are wishing her well iyo duco and hoping things work out for her, anigan you are asking me to divorce my kusband and leave him after only 2yrs. Ma ka dacadab siadsu? Baal inyar oo duco iyo baraka aha xagan na so mareyi

^^^Loool @ Che. Don't scare her, and I was being nice, you know mine was trained long ago (went to special school), he even let me roam around india alone for 6weeks. Trust everytime wax la ii didio I cry "damn you, a Somali man will let me do that" then he feels guilty and gives in. Emotional blackmail, works everytime, all the time. Loool no he has not, I just aint seen enough Somalis lately, moving around too much.

lol Cadde23, truth be told, cheating is something beyond your control, unless you babysite and police her, or you marry someone who fears Allah more than she fears you, so yes dambi baad gaashey, it is got nothing to do with raganimo. You cannot be raganimo about something you don't know about (trust if she does not want you to know, you wont know- at least for a long time) You might kill her (while this one just left her) if you find out though, that is the only difference I can see.

^^One day at a time sis, but ha iga cay kusbanka maha hindi, wa Bengali! but my somali is geting worse. Mind you aniga online when people say my friend a waxas ku dhecin I assume wa iyga

^Why are you laying on her so much?? :eek: She explained herself in the post after. Miis waa iska kulushaey already?

^^^Allah ka baq and dambiga iska daa, you don't know what you will get. Ha geefin; Maybe because of your pride and attitude above someone will step out on you for years and you would not even know. :cool:

Blessed fine, establishing the prayer is all well and fine, but if it is just for that, then there is no need to plant it in a controversial area, it could be anywhere and I will only half object. BUT considering where it is being built, it needs to provide great service and answers to both Muslims and others who will either be drawn to it for one reason or another, and be able to defend itself from abuse and attack which it will get. It is only worth building if it will help the community provide answers or use it as platform or something. Otherwise is it really worth all the hostility and backlash Muslims will get? Can it even survive (assuming it goes ahead) if it is just a prayer hall/ mosque, without a structure, plan and purpose to sustain itself as the platform for the community and the pillar which supports it.

Aaliya; Wlc to my side dear sis, lakiin Iraqi men are like Syrian men, like Egyptian men, Like Saudi men, like Asian men= less freedom then Somali men, their women are NOT are free and independent as SOMALI women, and they are more controlling (or rather take care of their women) so if you are not use to it, it will drive you up the wall. London seamen/ old Somali couples are great, the husband moves out and lives across the road when he reaches 60-70 without divorcing or re-marrying. Walahi I think that is classic, he comes home for lunch or dinner and sometimes stays over. It is so accepted and normal, this is so cool. Foreign men expect you to be literally there till death, no space. P.s. But wa waxad isla garatan, if you can communicate, know each other well and respect each other you will work it out, somehow! P.s.s. Good luck sister

Adam is in demand, Asga uun baa PM-ka diri kaar, wa one way system! Then you have to reply in public lol

LOOOOOOL loool, weliba iyad ba so taagan!! Loool Classic loool thanks Aaliya for the laugh! lol I feel for the kids, miskeen

Ailamos: Are you offended I think he was joking, dont be so sensative. Sherban I will answer you in the weekend inshallah, as long as you promise not to get upset or take it personal.

Looool @ The average American doesn't even know where (and what) Europe is! I watched that youtube video too, but I am sure the awareness level is not THAT low across the country. When and IF you ever call me up on it, I will explain it. and yes I did have to use it, 9/11 means different thing to people from the East.- half serious

^^^Ngonge let it go will ya, circle line baad noqotey! she is never going to see your point.

^^Then it will be just another "muslim" mosque/ prayer hall, and what is the use of having another one. Really? The fact people know and oppose or support this is a good thing, it means they are talking and this could lead to better interaction and coordination between the communities.

Sherban Shabeel: I think a cohesion center (as seeker and me said above) is just what that area needs and more appropriate than just a prayer place. I don’t think it is acceptable to build anything as such on ground zero itself, but I think a center for cohesion and understanding will be ideal somewhere it that area, because it signifies for the west at least the impact and influence of misinformation and misunderstanding between communities.

Juxa, you know you say that we say whatever, riffi and then have cake iyo barris. I think other people really don’t mix and so sensitive about each other. They don’t talk and tease so cuqdad bey la jifaan. Can you imagine san wax uu mago in real life ama I copy dialects and take the pis*s iyo sidaa ada adigu farah uu fiqfiq burco style is acceptable here where everyone acts like they are walking on egg shells :rolleyes: P.s. You think everyone who is not from hophop iyo xafadi dheer something is from SL. No wonder you think Nuune is SL. P.s.s. I have new jokes iyo chat up lines from your endz.

There are plans to build a 13 story $100 million Islamic cultural center and mosque a couple blocks from Ground Zero So it is not ground Zero, it is near it. Ground Zero can be a memorial, or a park or garden or even remain empty. But really keep the whole area Muslim free because Muslims caused the death of so many just increases the fear people have of Islam and Muslims.

Originally posted by muriidi: what's wron with them ? .. send u.s. troops to france .. hahaha lool

Seeker if that is th case, then I am all for it! See if you can find something on it I hate people/ communities who spend billions on building a mosque which is used just for praying and remains empty the rest of the time!

^^^Because there is nothing to defend and JB is away partying, did you not know today is May 18th?? since SL ciidi kama xiigto. LOOOOL Walahi C&H I nearly choked on lunch @ Odaygi waan cafiyey aniga iyo Ibtina we came together Hahaha

^^I disagree, we cannot afford to hide! We have to be open and not always act so gulity! There are opinions out there that say that Muslims should be respectful of the lives lost due to Islamic terrorist actions and build elsewhere. I don’t agree with these people. It would be a nice open Muslim center to look at issues like cohesion and greater understanding between communities. We as Muslims should not have to provide apologies for the actions of individuals, whether terrorist or murders or rapist!. Other people say that the mosque is an olive branch and not gloating, where people will come and pray daily. I am fine with it as long as it is NOT just a place of prayer, if they want a place JUSt for praying then it can be anywhere. It needs to provid answers to all the people who come or attack it/ Islam While some say compromise and dedicate one side the building to a memorial of the lives lost and educate against the stereotype of muslims are terrorist. A Memorial cannot be done as it goes against Islam. BUt educating people I think is a great idea.

Originally posted by chocolate & honey: quote:C&H, inappropriate thread, yes, performing at a funeral NO; let’s not get too ahead. Al shabaab is not a rumor or something he made up for attention seeking. IT is a bigger reality than everything else in Somalia (including SL) put together which is facing us. The only point I wanted to make was: It was inappropriate and it seems like you agree with me. He didnt make Al-shabaab up, we know that. I dont get this whole SL v.s. Somalia thing. I havent met a single Somali person who takes joy in South's misery(they might say iyaa isku keenay but never I'm glad). Like Juxa, I'm glad that there are some places in Somalia that are safe. There is no cuqdad. Just a misunderstanding. C&H, I was replying to Juxa comment that there are some (few) who make jokes and stupi*d comments about somalia problems. NNC: JB posted a picture comparing SYL to AL Shabaab :confused: If he called you names, THAT is wrong too. :cool:

NNC you are the only calling people names and attack other nomads, and I am glad that you also accept your own Ciyaal suqnimo. And you dirtied you own topic, and you have no one to blame but adiga, you could have just as easily said JB I want to focus on SYL and look back at the past for now, instead you threw your toys out. C&H, inappropriate thread, yes, performing at a funeral NO; let’s not get too ahead. Al shabaab is not a rumor or something he made up for attention seeking. IT is a bigger reality than everything else in Somalia (including SL) put together which is facing us. Juxa: Had someone OTHER than JB (by this I mean someone not associated with SL politics) made this comparison (say Nuune or Tuujis) I will bet you my bottom £ that people would not have got worked up. Cuqada ba ka qaadeen dadku. ibti, SYL lama kala xigo waa runtaa, lakin makula saxsantahay the issue/problem of somalia iney noqoto wax reer s-land (not all, some) ey ku jeesjeesan and they make snide and yes silly comments at every opportunity? No clearly I don’t agree with such xasiidnimo iyo uncaring nature, however I must also say that this paranoia that everyone is getting pleasure from Somalia’s current state is greatly exaggerated, just like northerners exaggerate that the rest of Somalis supported and enjoyed the bombardment of northern cities during Sayid’s time. As I said wa cuqdad, nevertheless people in this forum are always going on about our issue iyo not your business over everything Somali; Song, flag, SYL, poets, you name it; really, are kidding me? Somalinimad mey ka baxin just because they support SL, and therefore they cannot have a view? Or is the fact that they are from the North mean that they have to tiptoe around other Somalis just in case they think they am being xaasid or get joy out of others misery? If people have those kind of hung ups, it is not for other to walk around with an apology or disclaimer taped to our forehead! Malika: you must have missed the part where I said I agree it is not the right thread. the MAY 18 thread I mentioned is in the general section, not politics, and you have people saying all sorts of things. As I said it is today's reality, whether it be inability of being happy that others are nto in choas or being sensative to other people suffering or making inapporpiate comparison. Storm in a tea cup.