Ibtisam

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  1. Aaliya, I think adiga aya Politics ii daba waada and you need to easy up. I said you sound the same, i.e. she has the same vibe as you, I don't care if she claims Garowe and you claim wax kaley. You still have the same postive chatty vibe (normally you do), it is not an accusation, if you do or dont have multipme accounts is not my business nor does it matter. Relax dear, and yes it did escape my attention that she claimed a different tuulo, after all the discussion had nothing to do with hometowns. As for you being offended, seriously? lol you need to get a thicker skin then. Take it as my random view with no intention to offend. If it makes you feel better, me and Juxa are one and the same- or two sides of the same coin. Hello Chubacka and Adam. Me and Aaliya always start off throwing shoes at each other, then we see eye to eye or look away. Dont take it too seriously. It is Somali style love.
  2. Resistance, I don't care enough to be suspicious about anything. Aaliya, I don't know, you just seem the same, or two side of the same coin.
  3. Seeker, works now, let me look for a link. Thank you. Aaliya, Did I tell you, I think GG is adiga (or your sister) GG enjoy the game baal.
  4. GG a world with him, err dont get too ahead, baal try to watch a 90mins game together first, then you can go and half a world with him
  5. Seeker, it says Forbidden and I don't have permission. Where did you send me to
  6. ^^^Errr It is your business dhee if you sit on his lap ama chaperoned kaxaso, I thought it was someone semi important like kusband, adiguna mid chaperoned aad uu kaxasatiid ba hold ku yidi, I take back my advise, my new one is leave him. I mean those stages he should at least pretend you are more important. Dont protest so much, foreign man and Soomaalinimo go hand in hand.
  7. JB for sure, Telephoneka ilali tomorrow. Cheering for Cameroon; someone find me an online link to watch it please.
  8. Recently I slept on a moving train for two days and one night. I only woke up two times to go to the toilet and two hours of writing. When I got off, I went to the hotel and slept for one more night and half a day. Aside from that, I normally sleep for 4-6hrs apart from sundays (8hrs).
  9. GG, how could you not like the world cup??? Err if he is Somali, watch the games with him and then keep commenting on the good looking players and their legs. Soon he will pay you NOT to watch them Ngonge, I already have them :rolleyes: Resistance, Here I thought you was already grown man JB the discussed package arrived in Hargisa this morning, expect a call. I am happy Holland won.
  10. Last week, soaking wet and waiting for a friend at Great Portland Street station, I got a message from my mum saying that the government are introducing English tests for non-EU nationals wanting to join their spouses in the UK. Panicked, I looked up the story on my phone. "I believe being able to speak English should be a prerequisite for anyone who wants to settle here," Theresa May stated. But it was when I read the words "it is a privilege to come to the UK, and that is why I am committed to raising the bar for migrants" that I felt myself starting to cry. In November 2008 I met the man who, to my surprise, turned out to be the love of my life. I was sitting on the floor at a party, probably slightly tipsy, probably chatting about something inconsequential to someone I recognised, when a tall, skinny man with a mess of curly black hair and extraordinary cheekbones came and sat on the wicker chair next to me, and said nothing. I spent the next three hours or so haranguing this quiet, bony man about what he was thinking and what kind of music he played on the accordion, and within eight months we were married. That night was the beginning of a love story so improbably wonderful and correct that it took me a while to believe it was happening. I had found the other piece of me. It was also the beginning of one of the toughest periods of my adult life, because as soon as Basel and I got married, we parted, and have lived apart ever since. Basel is Palestinian and lives in Syria, where I was studying when we met. After our wedding last summer I moved back to the UK to complete my degree, thinking he would join me soon afterwards. However after three months of waiting, we learned that his visa application had been refused because although, as a student, I was financially supported by my family, I wasn't earning a wage. In February we made a new application, and are still waiting to hear the outcome. We have now been living apart for almost a year. The reason I got teary about coming to the UK being called a "privilege", is that throughout this whole ordeal, my right to be with my husband has been ignored. Contrary to what most people think, bringing a non-EU spouse to the UK is already very difficult. Seemingly reasonable criteria regarding income and housing are pedantically applied in an effort to, as the nice lady from immigration advisory service told me, "discourage foreign marriages". I proved that I had sufficient regular income, but this was rejected because it was from a third party. I proved that I had adequate accommodation, but this was rejected because I hadn't had an expensive inspection done on the property. Requiring non-EU spouses to do a pre-entry English test will only make this painfully long process even longer. It is not just being apart that is difficult, it is the strain of not knowing when or where you will eventually be together. If integration is really the issue, then why not make English lessons mandatory once the spouse arrives in Britain? Extending subsidised English lessons (as Daniel Trilling suggested on Cif) may cost the taxpayer, but so does maintaining such a restrictive immigration system, a fact that no one ever seems to mention. Such responses to Daniel's article as "a country has the right to choose the type of migrants it wants" lump married couples' pursuit of a life together with economic immigration. The latter may or may not be a "privilege", but the former is a right. I have the right to live in my country with the man I have chosen to marry, and the fact that we speak Arabic together, and that he isn't rich, and doesn't have a university degree, is no one else's business. Basel is learning English, and will do so much more speedily once he is here. I don't know if he would pass Theresa May's English test tomorrow, but I do know that requiring us to jump through yet another hoop will further prolong our unnecessary separation. I am stunned that it is now seemingly OK to refer to "importing foreign wives/husbands", as if they were cows. I am trying to be with the man I love, and there is nothing foreign about him to me. The simple fact is that if Basel were British or Italian, we would not be apart. Our immigration system punishes people for falling in love outside of the EU, which raises profound questions about a society that claims to be modern, tolerant, and anti-racist. www.guardian.co.uk
  11. When I get older I will be stronger. Inshallah. Salamah people.
  12. Originally posted by AYOUB: quote:Originally posted by nuune: PS: she is a member on SOL(last time she posted was late NOVEMBER 2008), just found out now, Oh well if you’re reading this; I'm the old man who was sitting in front of you in the Bethnal Green last week (1/6/2010 that’s the date on the travel card I wanted you to autograph for someone ). I was shy and thought not to bother because you might be tired after working with Nimco Yaasin ( overheard your phone call) and your comments about old people (overheard).. PS You’re pettier in real life than on UTV. HAHAHAH are you serious!!? LOOOl
  13. Abyan, I think it is more of a fashion think rather than for covering purposes.
  14. ^^^No it is a hijab/ lots of scarf’s wrapped together to give volume.
  15. Seems like her hand/head movements are not saying the same thing as her mouth. How can you even see her eyes Adam!! She is pretty mashallah, looks like a regular somali girl. She is somali Arab, fashionka halka aya ku so barety.
  16. Sheh, you can still put it together I write it freely on my blog too! lol JB, u do the Somali version
  17. lool @ sheh, HAHAHa u are something. Yes shed the bad mood. Did I tell you I started writing a book “Stories of a lone traveler", A collection of all the funnies I come across in the past and future.
  18. I like Shakria normally, but I don’t like this song. Patronizing, and we are not all African, and the first 2mins is all white people. Stereotypical songs and adverts I generally don’t like. I hate the sprit advert with the jumping naked Africans too.
  19. ^^he is dreaming of her eyes dhee Sheh that is the new style of hijab you silly women, wax fahan, London hijabi wey daqaqan!
  20. JUxa likes her , not sure for the same reason though!
  21. Loooooooooooooooooooooool @ she is not here iyo do you want powder!! HAHAHA sheh be safe sis, Dont talk to them at all! Freaks, the pain of travelling alone. Uuuf makes me feel creepy remember random pervets just following me about!.!
  22. Ibtisam

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    Admin please dont delet her, waali ba haaya, she needs to learn self control not everything made easy for. P.s. On second thought, delet her, I need her to do work on her days off
  23. Maybe Dahabshil should run for President, clearly he knows how to manage a multination successfully in Somali environment. That is half of the job.
  24. Yahooo. When did Dahabshilwatch.com start. Somali shaqoolaan aa heesa.