It is true Waterlily, most of somali parents are disconnected from their children either they are struggling their daily life or they don't see the need of it. But think this issue needs more attention then the parent, I mean as whole community. As we know western countries child molestation is high specially in the elementary schools where the child is afraid of the teachers. I beleive no mother/father checks the moral, and the feeling of their children after they come from school. Most likely they both tied. I used be tutor in middles school and honestly some parents don't even know what is going their children's school life such homeworks, books,and even behaviour. so this is molestation I think we will be the biggest victims and we will never find out till these generation grows up and speak up for what had happened to their past.