Dear Soul_lady, Are you feeling okay walaal, that hadith is sahih but it only applies in real life. Sorry to disappoint you but I really don't have a reputation in this site, nor do I care what others think of me. I'm simply reminding a brother to be polite, if that's a crime, then surely you've been educated in some bizzare land. There is no need to protect your reputation in this forum, cause no one really know's the other in real life. What's the chance's that you will ever lay eyes on Taqwa (zero). Simple and straight forward. Oh and your right Soul_Lady, it's non of your business. Cheers, Taqwa [This message has been edited by Taqwa (edited 05-06-2002).]

Dear Jamal, Let me be as specific as possible. You see, you have used the word "bullshit" in your post, and I'm reminding you that it isn't right to swear. Well if your above the law in this site, say so but confused is something I'm far from. Since you have the power to edit your post unlike some of us, then no one will see it. I' don't have a double vision but I do know when someone swears at a post. I'm not blind, nor am I stupid. If I have to swear on Allah's name that you crossed the line with this poster, I will but are you willing to do the same. I hate when I'm told to be nice, yet the managers of this site go beyond my harshness. Pathetic. Cheers, Taqwa

Jamal_11, since when do moderator's swear, huh. Whats with (b.s), and "Stop the jew whoop-as*ing you first then come talk to us." Please, children are reading some of these things, it would be bad if the moderators started insulting or bashing. Do you smell the sarcasm, cuz I do. And they say Taqwa is rude, come on. Cheers, Taqwa

Dear Miss L, First I didn't insult you nor am I going to appologise. A devoted muslim considers a women who is a model, to be in the same level as a prostitute. This is not an insult but rather a metaphor for where modeling stands, from the prospective's of Muslim Scholars. A model sells her body and beauty to magazine's for fame and money. A prostitute sells are body to men for money. Now if you look at it from this point of few, its HARAM. But then you want be to approach this from a secular point of view. Hmmm let see, since it brings in money and fame, its okay to model. Follow your heart and do what is right. "I was being sarcastic" A women's beauty is meant for her husband, and only her husband. For you to flash it around magazine's and AD's, is degrading to your family, husband, and most importantly Islam. I don't like to preach nor do I want to convince you to not model, but rather make you see the light of this delicate question. I might have came off harsh but it was with respect, and not insulting. I don't appologise for being harsh but if it seemed insulting, that's because you see it that way, due to the fact that you have already considered modelling. END OF DISCUSSION, the ball is at your corner now. Play it the way you want. Wa Salam, Taqwa

For god sake's what is so funny?

Salamu Alaikum, Libaax, am sorry but this is when I take the glove's off. So you want to be a model, and then you ask "aflagaadada iga dhaafa". Sweety that's the last thing you ask taqwa to do. Hey by the way, why dont' you be a prostitute on your way to being a BIG MODEL. Don't bring shame to your parents, relatives and the somali community. I don't need to defend my arguments to you. ITS HARAM, maybe this word doesn't make sense to you, since your IQ isn't that impressing right now. I agree with Buubto, maxamad,. Basically your suffering from something called ignorance to Islam. Now you have two choice's, either be a model and fail at it, since I know you wont make it, or walk away from the magnificant book of Allah. P.S. Maybe I'm in a bad mood again. Cheers, Taqwa

Dear Poster, I don't doubt the story nor do I doubt the person it happened to. The great scholar, Imam shafa'ii, ruled out a verdict when he was alive. He gave this ruling when it came to marrying a JIN. 1. A man may marry a jin, but a women can't marry a jin. This is due to the reason that if the women was pregnant from a male jin, she would be regarded as if she committed adultry. The baby would be a human being. But a man could marry a female jin and no one would say anything since they would think he got married. This issue is beyond our great imagination, and we are not even knowledgeable enough to comprehend its meaning. Remember that this came from 1 of the greatest scholars of Islam. P.S. If your interested in this topic, read the book by the great 12th century scholar named Ibn Taymiah, its translated by Bilal Philiphs. Its quite interesting, but beyond our world. Cheers, Taqwa

Dear Poster, It needs to be clarified, that extravagant spending on personal consumption is strongly condemned by the Qur’an . As for the argument against your points, there is a strong appeal to believers to live in this life with the predominant objective of achieving a better one in the hereafter. So the question isn't why do they buy something they can't afford, but ARE THEY HAPPY? You see life is based on certain principals, regardless of your wealth. When a human beings Imaan is at a level that is regarded Islamically correct, then he or she has no need to show off or consume something beyond their might. Hypocrisy is one reason that we so called Somali's have lately practiced. We believe in the teachings of the quran, its messenger, and the truth it says. Yet we don't put practice to those requirments given by Allah tala. P.S. You can all drive beautiful cars, marry charming individuals, and even look extravagant infront of others, but what have you achieved. Did you achieve fame, honor, or increased your respect. I laugh when I'm reminded that this world is but a figment of man's imagination (so true). Illusion is your driving force mate's. The sooner you contemplate on these issue's, and why you spend the way you do, the quicker the solution. SIMPLE isn't it. If you dont' understand the point behind these comments, then surely see your nearest doctor. Cheers, Taqwa

Dear Poster, It needs to be clarified, that extravagant spending on personal consumption is strongly condemned by the Qur’an . As for the argument against your points, there is a strong appeal to believers to live in this life with the predominant objective of achieving a better one in the hereafter. So the question isn't why do they buy something they can't afford, but ARE THEY HAPPY? You see life is based on certain principals, regardless of your wealth. When a human beings Imaan is at a level that is regarded Islamically correct, then he or she has no need to show off or consume something beyond their might. Hypocrisy is one reason that we so called Somali's have lately practiced. We believe in the teachings of the quran, its messenger, and the truth it says. Yet we don't put practice to those requirments given by Allah tala. P.S. You can all drive beautiful cars, marry charming individuals, and even look extravagant infront of others, but what have you achieved. Did you achieve fame, honor, or increased your respect. I laugh when I'm reminded that this world is but a figment of man's imagination. Illusion is your driving force mate's. The sooner you contemplate on these issue's, and why you spend the way you do, the quicker the solution. SIMPLE isn't it. Cheers, Taqwa

Straightforward, Like it or not.

Dear Poster, I'll try to keep the sarcasm as low as I can. Now are you allowed to date in Islam, hmmm I don't think so. It's not that you have the nerve's, but You don't have the intelligence to know what your doing is wrong. Let me leave my view's according to my islamic perspective. Let me look at your issue from a secular point. A guy who date's you for 4 years, and doesn't even marry you, is just having fun with you sweety. Reality check, we call those guys players, pimps, and in this case 4 year stand (rather then the 1 night stand). I'm disguested that you kiss in this Haram manner, but appauled that you do it infront of your muslim brothers and sisters. And I thought modesty was thing of the future. By the way are you on any medication? I'm serious, I really want to know. P.S. Maybe I'm in a bad mood today. Cheers, Taqwa

Salamau Alaikum Although the blessings can be received just by verbally reciting or listening to the verses of the Quran. It is imperative on us when the Quran has come for our guidance to jannah, to try and understand the context and the meaning of the verses. I must remind you that when the Quran is recited, its recommended to recite it in your best voice, if someone listens to it and finds joy in the recitation, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. But I do advocate for the understanding of the verse's in the Quran. Cheers, taqwa

Salamu Alaikum, If you like the environment of Somalia and the multicultural environment, then london is for you. If you dont' mind heating the water for a few seconds, don't mind seeing south asians in upton park (east london) then I would say, london is again for you. If you love North America like me, then I would say you should think of another European country to visit, like spain. Cheers, Taqwa

Salamu Alaikum brother jaber, I just wanted to comment on your thoughts towards the other brother. I wanted to remind you of some things that you may know. Brother jaber its a must to adhere to purity of intention in what you do. Let your aim be to seek the pleasure of Allahand the home of the hereafter. Beware of showing off and the love of making oneself appear to be superior to one's peers. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Whoever seeks knowledge in order to compete with the scholars or to prove himself superior to the ignorant or to make the people look up to him, Allah will cause him to enter Hell." (Narrated by al-Nasaa'i, 2654; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Nasaa'i). I know that you meant good in your intentions but your motive's of displaying your comments where not adequate. Wallahi, there are brothers that spend day and night trying to contemplate on the Quran and Sunnah of our beloved prophet mohamed (pbuh), and for you to called them ignorant or not knowledgeable is wrong. You said 99%, did you do a statistic on this issue. Since you are aware of the contents of the Quran, I shall ask you to remember surah al-Jumu'ah in the first 6 ayas. Dear Poster, Topic: I must agree with MMA. I think a good muslim women who is worthy of marriage but can not concieve is better then a women who can give you 6 kids, yet not raised them to be productive muslim children. P.S. Brother jaber take my comments as a brotherly advice rather then an act to your ego, not that I'm saying you have one. Simplicity and humility is the essence of believers (muslims). Cheers, Taqwa

Heyyy what's with all this hostility and tension towards me. All I sad is I don't recommend you marry someone who is not a virgin. I just think its a question that is based on moral's and ethics. Plus who am I to stop you, its an opinion. Hibo, I shall leave then (walking away with a sad face ) Good Bye...lool Taqwa [This message has been edited by Taqwa (edited 04-16-2002).]

Sister WildCat7, I still don't understand where your going with this topic, please indulge us with your interesting mind. I have yet to find out what in god's name your posting about. Cheers, taqwa

looooooooooooooooooooooooool. I must laugh at Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar reply. Soomaali Short Society of Men {SSSM}, now this is something unique. With all do respect, I don't think as the CEO, of the Tall Society of Men (TSSM) we could back you up. But hey keep your head up, I'm sure there are plenty of short sisters. cheers mate, Taqwa

With all do respect, what in gods name are you talking about?

For god sake's, just understand these hadiths quotations and Quranic ayah's. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know the point. Any form of sexual relationships between two individuals that aren't married is HARAM, including homosexuals. Allah ta`ala says: "Do not come near Zina, for it is a shameful deed and an evil path." (Quran, 17:32) Allah ta'alla says: "The male and female who commit fornication - flog each one of them with one hundred lashes, and do not let compassion for the two of them keep you from (complying with) Allah's religion, if you believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a group of believers witness their punishment." [Quran, 24:2] This is done so that he/she may taste the results of his deeds and so that every part of his/her body may suffer just as every part of his body enjoyed the illicit pleasure. These days all the doors of immorality have been opened, and Shaytaan has made it very easy for people to commit sin. I think you would have to be an idiot not to understand these points. I do appologize if I'm a bit too harsh on this agenda. P.S. Some perverted people who have little faith do not hesitate to have intercourse but they have no idea or contemplate on the things that await them in the day of judgement...lol. I'm laughing because the torment is unimaginable. If you think the lava of a volcano is hot, wait till you die please. Insha'allah we will all be dwellers of Jannah. I ask Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted, by His Most Beautiful Names, to give us enough awareness and fear of Him to keep us away from sin, and enough devotion and obedience to Him to help us reach His Paradise, to forgive us for our sins and by His grace to make us content with what He has permitted and keep us away from what He has forbidden. May He accept our repentance and cleanse us from sin, for He is the All-Hearing, the One Who answers prayers. Amiin Your brother, Taqwa [This message has been edited by Taqwa (edited 04-15-2002).]

With All do respect, are you gal's lacking the sense to answer a question using morals and ethics? Its mentioned in the Quran (4th Surah) that adultry is one of the major sins, that' is hardly forgiven. It is so severe that when a married person does it he/she should be stoned to death (buried upto their chest). If the person is not married he/she should be whipped 100 times. Usually people die without finishing the number of whips. Now since I have told you the extend of the punishment for being unchasted, let me remind you something. Any muslim who does not fear Allah is worth nothing, not even a penny. So why would you want to be with someone who is nothing in the eye's of Allah. He could be rich, handsome, etc, etc, but when the day of judgment come's he is worth less then the dirt in the ground. P.S. Usually sisters that are not virgins don't mind marry brothers that aren't. This should not be a personal choice but something important that should not be committed. Wallahi I hate adulters and if my own brother or sister was one of them, I would walk away from them forever. I don't care how beautiful you are, how rich, how charming, if your an adulter, the dog in the street has more respect from me. Cheers, Taqwa

Salamu Alaikum, Sister Exdane, the hadith that I quoted is lacking the right translation and contradicts some of the decisions or advice that the Rasul(pbuh) has gotten from women. I also believe that women should be discrete in expressing their voice in parliament. Usually in the mosque when the Imam is leading the prayer, and he make's a mistake men are allowed to say "subhanallah" to get the attention of the Imam, and women are allowed to "clap" their hands to do that. This islamic ruling which is deprived from Imam Hanafi's/shafa'e's rulings shows the extend women should lower their beautiful voice. Cheers, Taqwa

Dear Last Poster, What I meant by the hadith being weak is the translation from the arabic. It has completely lost its meaning because it contradicts the things that the rAsul(pbuh) has done. He has taken decision's from aisha, and many other women. I think the translator brother khan, has done an aweful job in transmitting something important. Of course no authetic hadith in Al-bukhari is weak. First poster, I'm glad we agreed on this issue, and I do advocate for women to be part of the politics as long as they follow the proper islamic etiquettes. P.S. I open to more critics insha'allah. I'm sorry i seem to be in a hurry. Cheers, Taqwa

Dear Poster, There is an Ayah in surah Anisa (4th Surah in the Quran) that an adulter should be with an adulter. Same thing for chaste women and men. I don't think a virgin person deserve's anything less then what he/she is. Simple, straight forward and to the point. Cheers, Taqwa

hmmm interesting, but stick to your traditional ways sisters. I hate to be scared with fashion, after all we are all representing somalia in our own unique ways. Cheers, Taqwa

Dear Poster, I never assume, since assumptions are deadly. All I said is that a women should regard her modesty and honor the number one priority in searching for a spouse. The Islamic value's should be followed and using these lame so called pick-up line's is absurd. When did muslim brothers or sisters become an animal you call by a name. If you truly are interested in approaching a muslim man, then there are honorable ways to do it. Again I am not assuming anything, just stating my opinion on this matter. Cheers, Taqwa