Salaat Istikhar is only one can save you from this mess. Surrender your self to Allah and make a special prayer at night asking Allah for wht you wish. This's only goin to be a solution to your point. Would you refer to Sahih Bukhar: http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/bukhari/ or Sahih Muslim: http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/hadithsunnah/muslim/

You're right to say this to our women and all muslim together wherever they're. This should not only applied to the women but men as well. Since our lovely messenger of Allah insisted us not to have a meal toomuch in a time. But to devide a belly into three parts (for food, drinks and breathing). This's all about to say for now Thank you