Me don't understand all the arabic like habla eesh stuff but anywhooo i always break me fast @ home,,,always come to make the aftur serv.....lol...girl...u can't eat after u cook...all the smell gets to u....don't get me wrong i luv cooking 4 my family....but i would like one day of break.....someone to serve me.....just sit and then be called to the table....hey i can dream atleast.... i feel the same way too and i only take a drink a couple of sambusaas and striaght to work. i only eat a meal in suxuur time.

Jacayl Baro i don't need to tell them iam a somali person. they would quickly guess iam from the horn of africa wothout me even mentioning it. Its in me blood yew know and the first thing they'll say is somali's are the most beautiful ppl in Africa. and i will reply " oh of course, i know" And why is it that the article does not state all those countries from North/East Africa???

Sisters and Brothers i do memorisation of three sura maximum a day. is that ok??? and then if i think i have mastered what i know so far i go learn a new sura. But what my pakistani friend does is she reads the whole quran in ramadan or atleast once a year even though she hasn't memorised the higher juzez. Is that allowed???Shouldn't you memorize teach new ayah and then proceed???

The surprise thing about our president is that he hasn't uttered one single word about the people of the North West and yet we are experiencing continuous roar of cries and complaints. ahem i think you are wrong,,,go listen to his speeches once more before commenting

YOU ALL ARE FORGETTING THE NORTH WAS ONCE PART OF SOMALI WEYN THEORY BEFORE THE WAR AFTER THEY DECIDED TO JOIN THEM AND GOT THEIR INDEPENDENCE FROM THE BRITS. SO IT AINT LIKE THEY ARE WONDERING HOW IT IS TO JOIN WITH SOMALIA AGIAN. THEY ALREADY TASTED THAT DEVESTATION AND DESTRUCTION. GO LOOK UP THE ENCYCLOPEDIA there was always a BRITISH SOMALILAND from the beginning no matter how much you deny it. so please look up the past to predict the future state coz Somaliland has learnt it's lesson and does not want unity with corruption. You all saying unity is bringing hope and blah blah but hey why did it not in the past? the million dolaar question somali's flog. like dusty said an old dog does not change his tricks and this president is just like himself 20 yrs back...

i do believe the magic word is democratically! that word dont apply here! period!!!. since that means locals have voted in democratic way! u might call this a hilton hotel democratic vote casting in another country!! dos that ring a bell homie! aye!! u might as well say Paris hilton voted 4 this dude!! since her vote was courtesey vote! namean mean! as a customer!! lol.. Rudy you da best man. Just what i was going to say you read my mind. Lol at Paris Hilton,,,no what about Monica Lewinski. Suldaanka i ain't gonaa make this public on sol coz iam scared of getting in sshit but you and I know how the So called presidaent was elected. Lets see how the intellectuals of xamar accept him as a president. How is that someone who has just been elected democratically, and has not yet taken up the position of President be labelled a dictator? What has he dictated in the last 3 days exactly? And can you really compare this to the overthrow of a civilian government in 1969? More likely it was just a 'catchy' title... Abdullahi Yusuf was born in 1934,,,Ever since then he was practically in every dispute from xamar to punt. It's up to you if you conceal that.

Iam not part of reer burco but man i see alot of disagreement. Why do somali fabricate things and then expect ppl to belive when it something a 2 year old won't. Maybe it is a Puntland style

Sis i know how you feel i could feel your emancipation but guees what you call those people,,,perverted. I went to all girls school and some girls somehow never finished thier menstrual peroid for more than five years and they will go to the non prayer room day in day out and when you ask them the reason will be the same . That made me sick and special becasue the worst deed and biggest sin insight of Allah is a person who does not pray and even if they do who doesn't do it on time. We laugh but in the sight of Allah it is tremendous

AND THE FUNNY THING IS EGYPT IS A MUSLIM COUNTRY. staghfurulah

nur 2 and 7 jazaka alaah

Garab Tujiyee you all beleive in love and you are all depressed,alienated soles in this website, a bit contrary but will let you explain that.

Spadez you are crazy waraa who told you to practice your diin on some old science driven teacher who beleives in science as a religion. Miskiinada she thought you were talking of thier reactivity. Jbaro i think this story is fabricated and which girl will tell a stroy like this involving her. I think it is made to scare the somali girls in the west so they stop having relationships with the oppisite sex. Garab tujiyee i can't believe you are saying something so right?? it must be the end of the world. Thanx for the advice brother it is just very hard these days to trust a bloke from the west no matter how nice he seems or what people say about him. Alleh uun baa kuu qaran kara like you said.

Silent sistah no wonder you wouldn't answer my emails. Coz you were in THe transfusion of despondency. Walaal iam sorry about everything but can i say a few things that may maybe make sense to you although you already told me you beleive in love. Thats what i thought but i was wrong. SIS there is no such thing on earth. IF there was love and i mean true love then the man in your life would never have dissed you wtih the beautiful qualities in you. If there was love thousands of children would never die every day. IF there was love there would never be wars or QABYAALID. if there was love the earth would be a peace full place like in jannah, but this is a fake version or reality of janaah that causes us to misinterprete the true ramification of the social structure and love in a society. We wake up and never know where we would end up the next hour or minute,,,so how could you dispose or trust your life in a person who is like yourself and hasn't the capacity to give you love. We live in a time of ONE NIGHT STANDS in one night cheap hotels and man to man relationships so tell me where is the intrigue and happiness between a man and a women. in some countries there is not one girls safe in her bed. Even if you don't do these things it will somehow reach you and you would experience a peice of broken relationships as a cause of this fitnah. sorry to scare you but it's the truth and all but the truth. the man you say MR LOVER left you withought knowing why and what good he has left. Because He hasn't the idea what love is and neither appreciated it. The only one who you would get love from on earth is ALLAAAAAH not your mother, not youre father nor your husband to be. Everlasting love thats worth giving and you would always recive in return BUT there is something called companionship on earth and Allah said it in the quran he grants it only to the good doers, men and women are like each others garments...so when you marry you want to recieve love through companionship and in turn you recieve it through ALAAH subhana watacala. so it is a whole circle, humans cannot percieve love or would not be stimulated by it if Allah didn't provide them the means to do so and embbed it in them. we don't have the correct receptors for hormone "LOVE" if we wearn't given. We are frail and when you lose you"re companion you don't know how to get them back because you are insignificant only if Allah helps you. Sorry for going against your idea and boring you with this but i think in this world there is no man or women to trust except that whom Allah makes easy for you and hence makes you thier garment and makes them your garment. salam sis and i pray that you will continue in gaining knowledge to recieve bounty and the happiness you found.

i couldn't help resisting so i read it all and i heard it before from a friend. But in a different version. Walaahi when i heard this story i thought there is not one man on this earth you could trust...it scares me a lot and marraige is out of the question but then again i say waxaan dhani waa calaf. So tii Ilaahay uu noo qoray baa inasugaysa. If this stroy is true gabdhan wax layaableh baa ku dhacay, but we should be aware not to fall easily for strangers. Especially when they are wicked, waxasi wuxu aha shaydaan, i think he wasn't human. This is how i can tell a thug from a normal person. 1 he is desperate and fast 2 he admits things so fast you would think he is an actor from the BOLD AND THE BEAUTIFUL 3 if he talks very sweet with no objectivity and respect.Just says it with no reason, then of course it does not come from his heart.

pleez iga ajarso oo english ku turshum,,,maybe iam asking too much. I would never get to finish it in Somali now so maybe later

Nur which one uses more energy: octane or petrol??? i thought it was petrol using more oxygen...maybe i'am wrong. BUt anyway thses are hydrocarbon gases and the main pollutants of our atmosphere depleting the Ozone layer,,,so they don't look good to me instead i think the imam is like that of solar or hydroelectric energy. It gives enegry with no damage or regrets, rich in resource and conservative in maintaining our environment. And ramadhan should be remembered like no other in this year so do you have a special program for us NUR? To make your busy schedule even more stressful please come up wih your imagantive and never ending creative thoughts and lets do something uslefull during ramadhan.

Nur which one uses more energy: octane or petrol??? i thought it was petrol using more oxygen...maybe i'am wrong. BUt anyway thses are hydrocarbon gases and the main pollutants of our atmosphere depleting the Ozone layer,,,so they don't look good to me instead i think the imam is like that of solar or hydroelectric energy. It gives enegry with no damage or regrets, rich in resource and conservative in maintaining our environment.

Og Girl i can imagine you to be like those girls from arabta like ha ii taabsanin camal. Very sensitive and mukuur galore,,,so much , never do any housework but hires a shaqaayad, coz the nails are gonna break. You don't know anything about the somali dhaqan but more close to an arab,,,only listen to arabic music and have arabic friends, talk arabic non stop and dis the somali. I might be wrong but my conscience tells me so. For some reason i imagine all somali girls in the middle east to be like that and why? coz every damn one of them i meat is like that. They become transformed and fussed into arab tradition.

DEVILS ADVOCATE what does the word sucide bomber mean to you and what implication do you get as soon as you hear it??? Arabs, muslims palestenians etc So you cannot say you even know the real meaning of it and what it implys when you have been totally brainwashed by CNN and other amrican media that have given the word to be directed straight at the muslims when what they are doing is nothing but invading smaller countries and using weapons of mass destruction including israael which has the greatest amount of nuclear weapons. But you don't think of tham doing sucide or terrorsit acts because you are made to belive muslims are the suicide bombers. In American Media it's called SELECTION AND OMISSION. 95% of amerca didn't know how many children in Palestinee Iraq Afghanistan are dying from American and ISlaraeli Weapons and you don't target their promotion of racial genocide. I think your biased and brainwashed. Go and see were it says in the quran SUICIDE BOMBING. No Muslim nknew of the term until the west called them those fallocious words. Anyways, are you implying that Jihad is haram ??? are you defaming the laws of which Islam is based??? And who gave you the position to pin point whats halaal and whats haram. No scholor in his highest degree or experience has been given the right to state whats haram or halaal unless of that which has already been prescribed by ALLAH

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All those ppl commenting on mombassa grammer should shoot coz i wouldn't make sense of all that arabic myself ...we are not perfect so be a bit humble ppl. Queen Mombasa sis wiilka maxad uu dhaaftay. You should have asked him to get the hell out coz he isn't practicing what he is preaching as you tell us the story. Next time sheekha waxaad kuu odhataa hana soo ag marin coz edaabta some of our somali brothers show is disgusting and then they blame us when some of our somali sisters marry JAMAICANS sheesh.

All those ppl commenting on mombassa grammer should shoot coz i wouldn't make sense of all that arabic myself ...we are not perfect so be a bit humble ppl. Queen Mombasa sis wiilka maxad uu dhaaftay. You should have asked him to get the hell out coz he isn't practicing what he is preaching as you tell us the story. Next time sheekha waxaad kuu odhataa hana soo ag marin coz edaabta some of our somali brothers show is disgusting and then they blame us when some of our somali sisters marry JAMAICANS sheesh.

Somealien i wrote a whole long answer fro you and just as i clicked pst reply, i got disconected and it got deleted. i hate when this happedns iam tired i don't want to write so much again so i will make it short. Sis baisically what i wanted to say was the whole idea of women wearing only skitrs or dreasse is this. We don't have the same anatomies as men, you and i know the shape of a women. All the curves and protruding parts i don't want to name the slang part of. The figure of the women is interesting, somthing to be looked at all the time. When you watch the tv the ads are mostley presented by womeen simply because they look better. The fugure of the man is straight and plain boring, no curves just plain striahgt. So sis knowing all of this and recognising it atleast no matter what the western world embedds in as, we would come to the conclusion that men and women are not the same. They are equal in front of Allah, but they are not the same, lets not abuse the divine and practical Laws of islam of good conduct. No matter how much trousers you wear you still don't feel like the oppiste sex in them do you.. I for a fact feel discomfort when i would wear pants in sports gymnesiums alone and at home, but they are cosy in winter. And i always wear pants underneath my skirts though. Sis sorry for making this short and i have alot more to mention but running out of time so i would strongly suggest that you read surah NOOR as it contains imperative things of the duties and dress code of the women. Read it--you will feel happy and say thak God iam a MUSLIMAH.

OG GIRL And i remeber the time you told me you are going to come and visit Australia and you still haven't,,,it has been a year. Don't do some stereotyping sis, you don't know how slanders are like. I can;t even read the article because it has a virus but boy we have racist ppl in this place it's getting hot so i beeta go. WD gabdhaha why baad isku diraysaaa??? we dont' bit like you fellas who cannot share a descent arguement without nailing each other on tribal names.

Somaalien there is opinion and there is the truth, if you want to blind yourself from the laws of islam and i am the fundamental, non modern values of islam then you go ahead, but i was telling the girl the truth it wasn't like i was telling hear she is going to die or go to hell...thats not my obligations or objective. Sis i was in that stage you mentioned,,,and no body just all of a sudden wakes up one day and says i am going to wear the hijaab or re equip my whole closet and style. But there is also no point in wearing tight clothin knowing it's wrong because then you are a hypocrite right? When the ayaah of the hijaab came down the women in that context were not ready and they neither had the right type of islamic uniform but they hear and obeyed ripping thier curtains off to cover until they sewed themselves new proper hijabs. So keeping that sterile mentality with little progress is only going to make you more vulnerable to the shaytan and you see days going by and your still not dressing in the proper way.