^^how is it genetically related? I was under the impression that it would share the egg doners genetic make up? All the mother is doing is providing it a womb to grow in no? :confused:

sorry girls, i couldn't help it

Er, how is it her kid if she is getting eggs donated? The child will have the genetic make up of her husband and the donor, she is just a surrogate mother? Better to adopt, or allow hubby wify no 2

Lol@typing error. Wishful thinking dear, very distasteful to have that kind of leaflet. Is there a number to call? I would call and give them a piece of my mind and then not go.

Lilyeey, all of the above symptoms apply to me, so should I get my husband a second wifey...lol KK, Naa hide your meds and shush... Ghanima, below 10.5? I didn't know that. Stop picking on D&D ppl, she is bluffing . Wey is hubta inoo Faraxkeeda waxas oo kale wiligiis xita ku riyoon doonin, And rightfully so.

I agree with Che, this is not mice we are talking about, it's rats! And the street wise ones are not scared at all. Their beedy eyes, how I hate them. I'm off home, good day to all the folks still at work.

No D&D, anaemia can affect your blood count but I don't think it's actually lack of blood? The most common ones that I'm referring to are caused by iron, vitamin B12 and folic acid deficiencies. They can all be easily treated. Obviously, there are very serious types as well. Either way, with genetic screening available these days, this is still not an excuse for second wife

Zenobia, I doubt it, not normal anemia, because half the world's population must have it and especially Somalis. Lol @ Jimcale, these endearing sayings are getting more humorous.

Dooli Yaanyuur leeg aa arkay Omg, move as soon as possible. My sister and I were actually chased by a rat one night as we walked to the carpark from my aunts house. These things should be exterminated.

You topic highjackers, get back to the subject. Some people are at work and that requires doing work sometimes… FB, good luck with that homerun, I’m guessing she feels the same way haddey nag somaliyeed dhashay. Miss S, are on hol? Why are you up so early? Actually, dont asnwer that here, go trolls thread.

Ghanima, stay away from perfumed stuff. From hair shampoo to face and body products till things get better. If you actually want perfume you can spray it on yourself without your skin having to absorb it. Try Simple range or Clinique depending on your budget. Good old E45 does wonders for your skin.

FB, What's that got to do with anything? Even though I'm not married I can still have an opinion on what marriage should be like.

Well everything that I was going to say has been said by Ghanima. Just to add though Ghanima, marriage is a union entered by free will so that it adds to the quality of your life, it’s not an institution where by one person can threaten another to stay (you said about the man being scared to remarry because of the wife). Miss D&D, Are you sure you’re not just having a bad day? On a serious note, I respect your honesty and by all means some women are perfectly all right with a shared situation. But for those who aren’t, they should have a dignified way of coming out of it without being subjected to humiliation, emotional turmoil and psychological breakdown. Somali women have been raised to believe that they are nothing without a man. As if they never existed before marriage. A man is a bonus, he is not a life requirement nor do you need one to survive otherwise single girls, single mothers and widows as well as spinsters would have been in a dire situation indeed. As for sisters not meeting men, this is not an exclusively Somali problem, life is so hectic nowadays that there might not be many opportunities that arise to meet potential future partners. Besides, Gurka wa calaf. p.s. LooooL@ Nephthys, clearly you don’t live in London. Women with 10 kids, no grandmothers are not only getting remarried they are having hotter wedding parties than the singletons of this world. By the way, waan ku faraxsanaha they way you cam round to accepting Sharedhood.

Miss D&D, no one said it wouldn’t be devastating… I’m just a firm believer that a man you have fully given your all to should at the very least afford you some loyalty or a fair and square separation, this is not rocket science :rolleyes:

I’m afraid this ‘competing’ logic is seriously flawed. This ‘jiq uga dhig’ is once again about the man, always about the man, pleasing him, making it difficult for him, worshipping him, what the hell? You only have one life. There is no need to destroy yourself just so you can make it ‘hard’ for him. What you have described is just a jazzed up, feel good way of allowing yourself to be walked all over when you should be enjoying the fruits of your labour and looking forward to quiet and exclusive life as the kids get older, but no, you have to compete with some other b*tch as if you were back in the dating game? Simply pathetic! Furthermore, you can only fight for something when there is still something worth while to fight for, this man has rejected you, completely and utterly, oo maxa kuu dhiman? Degrading yourself with uunsi and sex? If that was enough he wouldn't be playing away from home to begin with. As for the money, surely decades of marriage cannot be reduced to ‘monetary investments’? Save the uunsi & xaax for another Farax who will appreciate. And yes, these days it is possible. Him: Salaamu calaykum Her: Wa calaykumu salaam Him: Iska warama,,, Her: Waa khayre,,,, Him: Dee arin yar baa kordhay,,,, Her: Waar waraaqdaydii isii, waraaqdaydii isii Him: Puts phone down,,,,, Naag nasab ah iga dheh p.s. I'm very much aware having 4 wifes is allowed in Islam, it's just not an option for my man, my dad, my brothers & any other man who is married to a female member of my family wixi kale shuqal igama galin.

Some lessons are best learned the hard way.

It will probably spice up their love life, who knows Layzie?

..You would expect this woman to throw a tantrum,nah she actully went to the saloon ,did her hair,did the qataab and wore her fav dircaa and awaited for his return...! raliyaa or in denial? No one said you couldn't look your best while you deliver your final blows to him In fact, its the best way to go about it.

But not strange MEN if you can avoid it. There is a difference.

^^^ Lol, I cant believe ppl actually think that way. Oh well.

Just for Anemia? Must be way more serious than that. Second wife kulaha, caruurta dhan ba ha wada dhintaan. This is way too generous...

Ha ha ha, very silly. Why are they 'room mates' to begin with? :rolleyes:

testament to the kingdom's radical transformation It always amuses me when I read comments like these.

^^^Says who? No one ever gave them a chance!

Acuudkoow, hal hawar aa qatyaan ka taagneen waxaanoo hawro see u heesiin? LooooL