Orignally posted by smilez email+pms = the not-so-real life. Hey I use msn on and off but I rather use phone the whole point was she emails me and chats more with me on msn but when I go to see her or on the phone I mostly do the talkin but I can see what your trying to say Originally posted by rayaana You know there are those type of girls. It is only a matter of personality, and it takes nearly 3-5 years unitl they really open up and talk freely. And even then they are obliged with saying things you will believe to be ok. Maybe then again she might be a one of a kind. So just maybe be patient. Yes definetly I do believe she's one of a kind thing is I just turned 19 and shes 17 and I assure you we've spoken about marriage b4 but she insists on waiting. So I guess I'll have to be patient Thanks for the advice I appreciate it Orignally posted by nuune her personality at the moment will change by the time you marry her, that is if things go well!if it is shyness or it is being quite, the two are different, if she is so shy, try to talk something that is general and then mix with self-issues like marriage and special things that relate to your own selves, in that case she will get used to it and in a matter of time, she would do the same. but if she is quite, I would say, you need no advice, cuz when u marry her, she will becoma talkative by any given moment, so this is good news for you before you marry her I mean Yes nuune thats wat I was looking for, Im not saying Im a dull character and carry boring conversations is just that Im not experienced with this and everything is new to me, Now I already know speaking with her without a mahram is not halal but I couldnt help it b4 :mad: thats why although were in same place we use chat email more often ^^....but still thanx nuune one thing when you say general stuff you mean "how u been, did you hear bout this that~~nethin new how did the show you were runnin go..so on so on...Thanks for understanding Im a sucka at this

Originally posted by MsWord: Qac, in 2005, Metrosexuals are like so freaking in dude not bad boys. As if! metrosexuals come on they're on the fence neither homo's or straight folks to simply but it ewww...as if theyre in

she'll either tell you to get lost, or go and see the dad! either way u'll have you answer; The thing is I can communicate well with here through email or pm....but when I go see her or over the phone she's always quiet; this is not about her liking me or not I doubt just super shyness....I hope i dont get lost anytime soon does anyone agree with me on this?

Yes rudy perhaps I am the chauffeur but remember chauffeurs need directions as well they just dont lead you anywhere they choose to. lol and I aint afraid to drive I have been "driving" all this time. perhaps its be better to set the analogies aside for now and give it to me straight up.

Hi to all my mali's out thier sisters and brothers im just a noob :rolleyes: with an awkward question for all who can answer it much appreciated. Thiers a very shy gurl that cant seem to barely talk to me when its face to face almost a whisper and when its over the phone I do most of the talking and I sorta have to bring the topics up. Ladies is their any topic or something I can perhaps do to persuade her to open up and talk more freely or should I give it more time; its been half a year though....I really find a shy sister to be quite attractive and cute but its sorta tough being the only one carrying the conversation. Thanks for helpin a brother that cares much love to all of you......

Well here goes another shitty story Back in my old residence a (4 story townhouse) when I was around 13 years old there was this horrible incident where a neigbour of mine got locked out of his house, so while drunk he tried to climb from balcony to balcony to the 4th floor mind you, and as he reached the roof he first realized his windows were locked and that their was no way down, so i guess to pass the time he decided to piss and shit off the roof, as the storey goes he's stuck up thier for most of the night but most residents on that side woke up to a horrible smell and shit stains were all over the 4th, 3rd, 2nd and on the ground floor. Anywayz to finnish up the story the shitter never got a chance to go back into his house cause of a forced eviction I beleieve and perhaps some charges...lool I can imagine him in court Judge:" Sir Did you or did you not shyt on your neighbours"....shitter:"I do remember pissin but shittin must have been the birds" loool

Abaayo I still eat my moms bariis and baasto with my hands and I love it It should never be a bad thing.....especially if thier is meat involved ;a fork or knife aint gonna cut it sis, unless you want to see world war 1 all over again you gotta let a brother use his hands

Welcome: Im new here as well modest, been a guest myself for a while but being a member sorta has its perks cya around sis...

omg lool,,but its so true

Funny joke sis, caught me way of guard I thought it was her reward as well. lool makes me wonder what kinda heavan is this where no matter what you do you lose...

Salams Just wanted you guys to check out these videos some of it's too funny...now thats reality television!!! http://www.scifi.com/scaretactics/exclusive/

very interestin story bro, you going to finnish it anytime soon?