aniiga,,,call me somaliEn, somaliAn, or somali..the fact that u recognise my country of origin is enuff...and i really dont see the difference. ok ,,,u guys are telling me that the original word was somali..(i guess that y araabs say 'u are somaal?'), but when im talking i say somalian, maybe because like X-dane said,,it is the western way. and i was i speak the same language as them

walaahi,,,that story mad me cry.... may Allah help him, and make life better for him, and reward him for his patience and strive---Amiin. shyme....may Allah give cafimaad to your old man--Amiin.

nuune,,,well,,,,at last we meat in the forum.. well ,,,,true it is quite simple,,,as sunshine bust your bubble,, but for the sake of entertainment, ,,,my ansa was 18,,,, next time b a litlle more psychic!

personally ...i thought ,,,her sister got with the guy!,,lol simple....u psychopath! ooops .,,,,,plz dont get upset or angry,,,,

and pray to Allah,,,of course,,,somethings Allah does not plan for you sorry what im tryna say here is ... if Allah does not plan something for you, you wont get it. i do not mean, that Allah does not plan for you, the books have been closed and the ink has dried, Allah knows what the future holds for you. you make your plans and Allah makes His, and ofcourse His will over-rule yours. sorry for any confusion ..InshaAllah salaam

aaaaaaaaah...well ,,,,,since u all stated what you are.... im very common. im with the 98%....which ever group you end up in....give your self a pat on the back. and thanx guys for the support...im still alien,,and u guys are soo friendly! muah atcha!

MahsaAllah...u guys are off the hook! "dear God 4give me, for i have sinned, i feel wretched black and ugly, from within, you have answered each prayer of mine, everything for me , you have mad fine, but i 4got your cause , to think of you, i mad no pause, now i have problems what do i do? once again, i turn 2u. "<---ANON from this day forth , i know what i'll do, ill struggle and strive, for that day, when i'll meet You, you blessed me, protected me, educated me, gave me life, gave me health, gave me heart, gave me wealth, gave me mind, and mad me smart. peole are dying ,you mad me safe, people are scared, you mad me brave, i am human and i feel weak, without You Lord, im in complete.

u guys are jokes,,,walaahi,,,well i left somalia when i was three,,,but some how i remeber this one...excuse my bad spelling... hoyo iyo aabo, maanta adigenii, waxaan lasoo jogay, brashi baraayo, iyo banki, ???? waxaan ka soo gaday, labaa waslo xiliib aah, waxaan u sii dibaay, labaa tuko sahan aah, waxa kasii gaday, inaan yar oo uur leh, uur ogaaden leh, oo ardaa shiftaa, oo Alahayoo leeh. well that the only one ,,,and correct my mistakes if u wish,,,i dont know why they say Ogaaden, ,,and i dont agree with it if its racist ,,,but its a poem i remember.

Amiin @all the prayers ma din your beautifl poetry. P.M.E....I love u for the sake of Allah and the fact that some 1 is seeing things the same as me, your poems made me shiver! complex mind,,,u put in 1 poem. and it mad me cry,mad me realise, that im a muslim, but i and help! MashaAllah ,,,may Allah increase your talents, ( pray one day i write one back)

well,,,i have alot to learn ...and u all put down beautful poems..May Allah increas your talents---Amiin

wooow..true,,,it is great!

captivating girl well said ,,,,u stole my words! it is all about determination, and persistance! and pray to Allah,,,of course,,,somethings Allah does not plan for you. do salaat, pray 2 rakaats ISTIKHAARA, and InshaAllah,,if the job you want is khayr for you , Allah will give it 2 u. if you dont get it ,Allah knows best, and may b that job was not khayr, and Allah has something better in mind for u. b patient!

well...i never met u ,,,,but some how im sad your leaving, i hate goodbyes! wish i did get to meet u, well u could alwasy say one last bye! and tell us where home is (where r u going?)

having said that.. i understand where you are coming from. some somali guys have turned into male-hoes- dhilaays! they are sleeping around (with every type of girl(black,white,asian) and then they coming back and sleeping with somalian sisters. They are not fearing Allah, and soon the aids will catch up with them.(and the sisters that sleep with them) May Allah have mercy on them and protect them adn us from this horrid desease---amiin

Alhamdulillah she hasnt got aids! sister listen,wish for something and Allah may give it to u. say ASTAQFIRULLAH. this is not something to joke about.

i think we all wondering,,,and true at muslim sis..Astagfirullah and Amiin @Allah 4giving us well, i think that we are always sexually frustrated and have this strong attraction to the opposite sex, Islaam helps us control our urge. why is our frustration appear more active in the west? well i think it is because you can hide and get away from the human eye more, u having got your uncle, aunt, cousin ,gran, or father, mother ect on your case watching your every step. there fore you experiment and more and act out your disires (SubhanAllah) there is Fitna in the west, more distractions from our deen are everywhere, and we stray. May Allah guide us----Amiin

HIJAABI IS A SISTER! Y THEY ALL CALLING YOUR BRO?...DID I MISS SOMETHING? well real funny and reaslistic cases. true of most guys, and true of all somali guys!

well.....i agree with asraa...all though i didnt understand the somali quote. women cannot rule, because they are moved and make opinion with thier emotions and not with their brains and reasoning. i have jumped to conclusions so many times and made msitakes soo many times because of my emotions--when im imotional i dont think rationally---thats the nature of women. how can they rule the world? i mean...they get upset - ask for a divorce,,and the next day they 4get what the arguement was about<--we cant b put in charge of marriage so how can we rule the world? women are imaginative and revengeful and if we were in charge of the world their would b war every day, i dont think we would have reached the first century.

loollllz,,walahi .. i didt know this, but i can warn the sister not to make the same conclusion for guys, ***ugly guys have beautiful voices and handsome guys dont.*** ***ugly guys can hold a conversation and have handsome guys cant.*** well,,,,as for the sperm thing ...i'll take the sceintists word for it!

origionall posted by shyme Let her talk.Don't interrupt to regale her with long stories of that trip u and u'r cousin took to Toronto well,,,everything else was good advice expet this one. sometimes we do like to hear your stories, and we like for the guy to lead the conversation, we may like to b the centre of attention,but not 24/7....we sometimes like to give our mottor mouths a rest. the rest...well u keep telling these brothers how to aproach us, and u said it well, telling us we r 'pretty' aint gonna lead nowhere, and asking if im somalian ,,well ,,lolllzz,,,but then women ask me that Q.

w/saaam wr wb and Amiiin@ Allah 4giving us! MashaAllah, thanx for sharing that with us sis, and may Allah reward you!...amiin

mimii sijui well im 100% somalian, but i was just saying i dont know-the answer to your Question. i love u: 1-because your a muslim 2-because your a somalian 3- because kenya,uganda and tanzania are nieghbouring countries of mine. dont feel like we hate u waalaalo, somalians are always finding a way of belowing others and tryna look better than what is different to them. i think some of us fear change! walaaalo, we are racist to eachther, somalians living in somalia in the same area that are the same tribe but the sub-clan is different discriminate agaist eachother. it is a desease, dont take it to heart. and not all somalians suffer from this desease. May Allah cure those that suffer from it!----amiin

well,,,good quetsion ..but it think it is hard for a somali to have their mind changed PERIOD! i mean, we have too much pride and hate to admit we are in the wrong. a person who is taking drugs, has already thrown deen out the window, so very little can persuade them to stop. the only thing that can stop somalian is Islaam, ooh! and their fathers!

well,,,,i dont know my age ...so how can i tell u ? all i was told was 'u was born under a tree( or was it behind a bush?),, in the miyii on a hot day. well...this is a good topic, and as for the sister that said women lie about their age more than men...i say we get caught lying. men lie more... theY have a bidaar (bold-head) and they say STRESS IN STILL 23!????? OH and i guess out of the people that said their real age im the oldest ,,,gonna b 22 at the end of the year! guys ansa the girl seruiously..i wanna know O_motti's age!

u got tallent ...i wanna know the ansa to LATIFAA'S question!