rudy....im sorry to here that,,,and hope you didnt love her that much that you got distraught over the situation, but its like u said brother,,,,its not about trust, its about health. and i like your litlle list. -std -blood test. -genetic up normalities. me 'Istinct brother,,,religious brothers used to be players' instict peot Aigh't see, I'ma religious brotha..I knowz where my limits iz..Somethings are not worth testing.. Strong faith,and killer instincts is what i live on... i did not see u deny the fact that at one point you slept around!! latiif What..................asking my wife 2b to get tested, isn't that another way of saying you don't trust her or maybe she is Prostitute ? walaal, i see that you need to be educated, on the many ways that aids can be spread, its not only/always through sex.(ill give u the lesson if u need it...just shout!) and there are many different types of deseases that can be caught and need to be checked out,,,clemedia, is spreading fast around the UK, and amongst teenagers its caught through sexual interaction,(i thing songging was included-but dont quote me) im tryna tell you, that its not about him/her being a prostitute, its about staying safe.

lol @lakkad... wish i could say i enjoyed it,,,,i did,,,but i missed out all the good bits, coss me somali is not that good, my loss,,,, i'll only nominate u for the award after u give me the translations.

^^^^ lol @lucky... hmm....anywayz..nice flows sis, i liked it, thanx for sharing.

hey ,,mizz lexus, glad to see u still with us sis

mizz-unique,,, after my topics, i have to say that this proofs, there are some good somali's out there, and it gives some hope for the rest. hope your Auntie (hoyoo) is ok walaal... and InshaAllah, i pray it all works out in your favour and not in that of the fat gaal eediot!

usa,,ppl...have fun....wish i was there, coming back to the UK, i think that the SSA, is a real good organisation, and yeah, hopefully we could expand it to join the other somali student orgs. around the world. me, my fav events, are the Islamic talks and conferences that take place, specially in leister and birmingham (ooh and the brixton one was good)

guys....comm'on....lets be civil about this.... we shall go to the aids, (and other desease) clinic, 2gether,,,,as a couple...before our wedding night... before he has spent his life savings, and i have given up my V, and we will both get tesetd,,,,i think thats only fair, coss, the guy gotta be sure, the girl is clean aswell.

Athenah/ opinionated,.,,,,,my points exact sist's... the kids should have a somali/muslim home/organisation to turn to when they face problems

amiiiin@ muslimah, and well said, mujahid, i like the way u explained it aswell, the sister pretty sweet girl , you may have been a little harsh with your words, but i know the point that you was trying to make, since we have all been told that Allah is suprime -nothing like us or anything that we could imagine, when Allah says, im the all-seeing all-hearing, we should not assume that Allah has ears and eyes, we just have to accept and beleive the little that Allah has revealed to us, and should not question it.

MASHA-ALLAH.... that was beautiful, and yes,,,its got me thinking, 2morrow could be my day....sister, we all 4get how near our individual Akhira is,,,JazakAllah khayran for reminding me, may Allah reward u! and amiin to ur du'as

woooooooooooooooooooooow. that was good, thanx for sharing bruv

^^^^^^^^^^lol, walahi thats funny. instead of calling 911, the mexicans beat them up. gives new meaning to 'kick-a-man-while-he's-down!' i say do whatever it takes to protect yourself...but dont be quick to get your gun out and murder,,,you could suffer alot more in jail.

MashaAllah...and Alhamdulillah things worked out for him!

^^^^6 that was soo well said. i spoke to an uncle of mine, and asked him, how he felt after divorcing his wife, and why he doesnt visit his kids no more,, he said, 'i loved her, when i married , i married her, the kids where not there. now that im not with her, i dont feel the same love for the kids.' my small mind cannot understand that statement

hey sis....im getting an error message when i click on the link... is it just me?

MashAllah......and Alhamdulillah, something good came out of the shambles.... Allahu Akbar!

ilhaam SilentSis: I'll come to you, if you'll teach me how to do all those styles...since I cant bring you back with me...I gotta learn to do for myself free ticket.....girl you could take me with you anyday!

rudy,,,,i think that the highlight of a rer xamar wedding is the niiko,,,well buraanbur, ir the highlight of the rer wogooyi wedding... maybe im wrong...but i think its that way round (even though i have seen rer xamaar do buraanbur) anyways...we need:- 4 ladies to beat the durbaans. 3 singers (they will need to rotate and freestyle) and as many dancers as possible.. i see its the london folks ..girls tape the practice and send it .we could use a tape to learn..... get you group together,,,many of the sisters in here are not from the UK,,,but i am...so uk ppl lets jump!

hey,,,,get me the danish goverments email..... i shall be the first to send my hate mail!

wooow...all the girls be talking about mothers,,, im told that, im the opposit of my mother (charachter wise) and posses the exact same persoanlity traits as my father. but i wasnt raised by them for me to know.

One thing I know for sure is that SOmali people have Dhiig! thats the one and only thing that i could say i love about somali people, i know that if another somali see's me struggling in the streets, they wont think of nothing but HELP.. they 4get gabiils, and every other prejudice and they would help. hey...thank y'all for praying that i pump into better somali people. InshaAllah, Allah knows best and things will work out for the best.

i would also get his a** checked out! instinct-poet....religious brother used to be players, u all had history my friend,,,so go get ur a** checked out

northener,,,walaahi i liked the way that that guy spoke,,the somali guy saying that he doesnt care about americans bodies being dragged accross the streets.. and true, walahi the americans been watching too many movies where they always win the war... flying-still....lol...walaahi u 1 funny girl!

soul train.....you are my friend always and 4ever... hey..and thanx for the advice... hmm...i know your somali, and following your advice,,,ive known you for a while and can honestly say, you aint the 'typical' somali. thanx babe

flying-still....thanx hon... hmm...i dont htink im going to stop hating on them....i think i preffer hurting them, rather than being their victim