The notion that the ajnabi has an easier time is just ludicrious. The number of these marriages are extremely rare and not as rampant as you would have us believe too. Similarly, there are somali men out there who marry ajnabi and whose children have been kidnapped by ajnabi women, never to be found. Qofwaliba asaga naftiisa xor u ah. Marka dumarka yan lagu mashquulin. C'est la vie.