Nuune, this meher thing is very archaic, I stand to make alot of money, but now I'm a college student ready to drop college for business in Somalia (there are many opportunities, if you can't find them, you aren't a business man), all that I desire is loyalty, a woman (especially a somali one) only wants your money and nothing else. This is the same for most women who grew up in the west, don't forget most of them aren't even virgins, why should I pay the meher? I'm not paying a penny even if I were rich. It is what it is.