Coofle;937018 wrote: Nice choice .... I love this gabay.... Waxa gabaygaban aad iiga soo jiita Tuducayadan aan QOUTE ka yeelay. Eregya Kuunid sida aan u fahansanahay bal aan sheego, hadii wax la igu kordhin karana ha la igu kordhiyo. Si ereyga Kuunid loo dhugto, ereyo kale oo u eg baan ka bilaabay....(Xan, Maje.erasho, Kuunid) Xan = Waa in qof maqan wax xumaan ah laga sheego Tusaale ; "Hebel Fantax wayn ayuu leeyahay, Foolxumo waynaa ma doofaar baa" Majee.rasho = Waa in qof maqan wanaag laga sheego Tusaale ; saahid qamaan ayaa yidhi "Oo ay weliba muuniyo dulqaad igu majee.rtaane" Kuunid = Waa in qof maqan wax wanaagsan oo uu haysto la odoroso , Tusaale; "Ninkaasi Faras xaweereeya ayuu leeyahay, Alla kiisa oo kale!" Ceesh calaa darsi. Professor baad ku wanaagsanayd.

Safferz;937253 wrote: That's what I mean -- why is she the default primary caregiver in the first place? Why isn't parenting a shared role, as it should be? lol, I don't know, there's just something natural about it. But all i know is theres nothing like a mothers love and fathers don't compare, at all. I'm very grateful that my mother was the primary caregiver for me. As for ur statement about it being unpaid work....everything doesn't have to be valued in economic terms. Having a upstanding and virtuous son who loves her dearly is a better recompense for any mother than millions of dollars...trust me.

Safferz;937244 wrote: I don't think that has any bearing on whether a woman's "job" is childrearing. My point is that fathers have to see themselves in that role too, but because so many men seem to think the everyday (unpaid) labour of raising children is women's work, they're able to privilege their own career and education over that of the wife. Like I said, if a woman is such an asset that the cons of sacrificing her academic and career aspirations would outweigh those of being an academic/career woman first and foremost, then yes in such cases it's justified for her to displace childrearing from its primary position. In such a case the husband would have to step up and do many of the things his wife no longer has the time or energy to do.

A_Khadar;937226 wrote: heheh, blame Oday Oodweyne's indoctrination and feeding names such siyaadist, defeated lot, and looters etc. to many here.. Oodweyne waa balaayo. Allah muxuu cabaad idinka keenay.

Safferz;937227 wrote: lol you're right, "stay at home dad" was tongue in cheek But the truth is that I'm just not into how the burden of parenting and childcare falls on the mother, particularly in our culture, and how women are the ones who tend to sacrifice education and career to have families. I know I'll have a kid or two at some point, but I expect my (future) husband to take paternity leave as well when my maternity leave is up, among other things. That's reasonable if the wifes academic abilities and earning power justify it so.

Safferz;937218 wrote: "The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers." - Socrates (attributed by Plato, 4th century BCE) "I see no hope for the future of our people if they are dependent on frivolous youth of today, for certainly all youth are reckless beyond words... When I was young, we were taught to be discreet and respectful of elders, but the present youth are exceedingly wise [disrespectful] and impatient of restraint" - Hesoid (7th century BCE) Yes, indeed people are biased against and have an especially critical eye for the vices of succeeding gnerations, even though these shortcomings may have been just as prevelent during their own haydays. But I do think there has been a marked deterioration in morals and virtue present in the current generation of Millenials, coupled with a selfishishness and peculiar self-absorbment bordering on narcissism, that truely sets it apart from the perceived generational splits of the past.

Safferz;937220 wrote: A stay at home dad arrangement could work nicely for me... Arrinku markaa waaba jiif oo jaqe, amase fadhi ku naax lool. Niman badan oo noocaagaas ka helaa way buxaan laakiin waa qaar dhufaanan oo dhalmo suurogalba ma'aha.

Apophis;937199 wrote: Now let us see the other side of fatherhood; you know, having to deal with ugly, ugly kids:D To say the least. Just marry a beautiful woman to offset ur genes and ur good to go.

Haatu;937200 wrote: The what what of what are all these obscure songs? For me Ja Rule is old skool Wadani, the Indie look isn't too bad sxb I'll never look at u the same way again.

Interesting. Were they hostorically more numerous in some parts of Somalia over others?

Amazing pictures. Wallahi I love everything about lions. I am in total awe of these mighty and majestic animals. I wonder how many are left in Somalia, if any at all?

Another one from the defeated lot spewing the usual revisionist kacaan history. SMH.

D.O.C;936814 wrote: Don't break the shell mate, you are trying to hatch too late for somali poetry, memorize qur'an instead. Strange.

Kadafi, So where do reer waqooyi's and Somaali galbeed people fall in all of this?

Boondheere;936624 wrote: that was to mr ciyaal Wadani. Markaad ciyaal igu sheegayso maa amaan baa? Hadalkaagu wuu is burinayaa.

Boondheere;936615 wrote: allah is too big to be visited.. hes light will melt you if you go closer... Gaalkan diinteena ku khafiifay muxuu ahaa. Aaryee, aar meheradd kale doono baan ku idhi sacsacyahow.

And how could I forget Huey P. Newton.

Safferz;936605 wrote: 1960s for me... the hope and promise of African nationalism and decolonization, the rise of third world politics and the non-aligned movement, all of the social movements including the civil rights movement, black power, women's liberation, anti-Vietnam war, etc. It would have been an exciting time to be in the world Ahh...imagine that. The era of Malcolm X, Julias Nyerere, Stokely Carmichael and Franz Fanon (even if only for one year)....truely giants among men.

Apophis;936561 wrote: You atheist need to stop bothering SOL believers. They barely post anything Islam related so it's pretty low to attack. I'm looking at you SP and Mr Bullet. Leave these people in peace Apo, Give God a chance bro or else he won't give u one in the hereafter.

80's wouldnt be so bad either.....anything but this era of the Kardashians, hipsters and skinny jeans.

I honestly wish I was in my twenties during the 90's instead of now. I just don't understand nor even really like the times we live in now.

lool oh the memories.

SomaliPhilosopher;936571 wrote: So when is the wedding Wadani and Safferz? Inanta abti baan u ahay.

Safferz;936564 wrote: lol I don't think you're a neanderthal at all, I think you're quite intelligent and could get beyond the "feminazi" stuff if I pushed you a little bit Thanks....and u never know

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