SubhanaAllah. To those that said that those two man deserved that. You wouldn't like that being done to you. I know that the Iraqy people lived a horrible life under sadams dictatorship. Le ilaha ilal lah muhamada rasulul lah. I don't know who these man really were but my heart hurts. A muslim will remain a muslim. Even if he uttered the shahada once in his life time. It'll benefit him in the hereafter for that one time. May Allah destroy those that target muslims for their own interests let it even be if they target a bad muslim. None of that would've happened if we muslims all acted on the sunnah and the Quraan. We would've helped ourselves. We're being sold out. Nobody is going to liberate us muslims or bring peace & Integrity between ourselves. THEY'RE WEAKENING US! CAN'T YOU SEE? :confused: LA Hawla Wala Quwata Ila Billah!

MashaAllah. Jezekelah, indeed a precious reminder. Thanks bro/sis, keep em coming. Wa/Salam

Oh Jawahiir, Sorry about your broken leg. I hope that you recover well and soon InshaAllah. You'll enjoy your summer InshaAllah. I know it's hard walking with crutches i've been in that situation when i was 11. InshaAlah all will go well for you. May Allah give you a speedy recovery!! Ameen Fi-manaAllah

Salam all To the poster Sista, You don't need to marry someone that you don't wanna marry. Whether it's arranged or any other. What matters is only what you think is right for you. I mean it's you who's gonna live with the person not your father. You have to have a good gut feeling, and i can tell that your not comfortable with your fathers idea. Why not be upfront with your Dad? Tell him how you feel sista. I know that your father wants the BEST for you. Marriage is a Beautiful thing in islam. It's to enjoyed and not to regret a few years from now. So try to do the thing that pleases you the most without trying to please anybody else! Wishing you all the best. I hope that i was helpful. Masalama

nice topic! this my list 1 lasagnia 2 Rice with sabiib, yum! 3 Sukaar and rooti 4 Nuddles<<<< indonasian nuddles, i bet og_moti know's all about it, he's in asia 5 Pasta and sauce, those very veery thin pasta, i luv them thats all! lol@proudSista. is there a such thing as a chocolate dish? lol, chocolate chocolate loads of chocolate kulaha u remind me of my lil sis! Masalama

Salam I'm a very forgiving person. What is important is only who you've become today. Honestly. But i expect to know everything ( the whole intire thing about the person i'm gonna spend the rest of my life with! I mean I have to know who you were in the past to really understand who u've become today. Or else pieces would always be missing. <<<< Not HEALTHY at all! I'd tell my future husband everything about my past. Every little thing. My files and records are all pretty clean so far alhamdulilah! for the people who've been naughty, let it all out! You don't have to be ashmed of who u were, What matters is only who u've become. There is even a bigger possibility that you'll be respected. You'll appear strong. You stood up and made ur wrongs right. Your future wife or husband will even trust you more. If there is no trust than there is nothing! Masalama ps : let hero's like malcolm x inspire you InshaAllah. From a hustler to a picious muslim! May Allah be pleased with him!

Hey guys, c'mon read it , it's worth it!

6 YEAR OLD WISDOM One day a 6 year old girl was sitting in a classroom. The teacher was going to explain evolution to the children. The teacher asked a little boy. TEACHER: Tommy do you see the tree outside? TOMMY: Yes. TEACHER: Tommy, do you see the grass outside? TOMMY: Yes. TEACHER: Go outside and look up and see if you can see the sky. TOMMY: Okay. (He returned a few minutes later) Yes, I saw the sky. TEACHER: Did you see God? TOMMY: No. TEACHER: That's my point. We can't see God because he isn't there. He doesn't exist. A little girl spoke up and wanted to ask the boy some questions. The teacher agreed and the little girl asked the boy: LITTLE GIRL: Tommy, do you see the tree outside? TOMMY: Yes. LITTLE GIRL: Tommy do you see the grass outside? TOMMY: Yessssss (getting tired of the questions by this time). LITTLE GIRL: Did you see the sky? TOMMY: Yessssss LITTLE GIRL: Tommy, do you see the teacher? TOMMY: Yes LITTLE GIRL: Do you see her brain? TOMMY: No LITTLE GIRL: Then according to what we were taught today in school, she must not have one! "FOR WE WALK BY FAITH, NOT BY SIGHT"

Tamina, it might be possible Allah knows best. If it's in the family it might carry on thats what i've heard. My father was a twin, and he aslo had 4 brothers that looked all alike, what do you call that? 4lings? May Allah be pleased with them. I wanna have as many as ALLAH wants me to have InshaAllah. I'm thinking of 4 cuties. MaSalama

Salam. somalsijui I don't think that the kids will be totally somali because why else would they be called mixed? So it's half somali and half american or german etc. They can still learn about their culture so long the mother teaches her children about their roots and they'll carry that as part of who they are. certainly they won't be blonde or have blue eyes...black and brown are dominating colours. I've seen blue eyed and green eyed somalis. I have them in my family. So it's what Allah makes of them. And the thing about the black being dominant is not intirely true. This my personal Opinion I encourage everyone to marry whoever they want so long the person understands their Islam fully and practises it too. There no need to set limits or barriers in places that ALLAH subhanaAllah wa'tala didn't set limits too. If you do it with Niya ( good intention) and if your goal is to please Allah in the end than do it. What awaits ahead of you is only Allah's blessings! Masalama

Salam Mob_deep, I decided not to answer you because i didn't think that ur question was worthy of being answered :confused: . Sorry brother, but i'm not the kind of a person that judges on Looks or skin color. I honestly do not even believe in falling for physical attractions. So, u'll keep on getting me wrong if u don't even know where i'm coming from or what my thoughts actual intentions are. Talking about Aqeedah and Islam, how many of ya would marry a nice, pious, devout Somali guy from one of the "enslaved, ostricized, discriminated" Somali tribes? SubhanaAllah.I do not have to prove you a thing at all. But if u really wanna know. I never think highly of myself, I never put myself above anybody. I'm the kinda of a person that will sit next to you and smile with you & I won't carry any hate in my heart regardless of your tribe or skin color nor will i think even for a sec that your less than me. Thats what I believe! Originally posted by thought_control i guess what u want it to hear was for everyone to say go right ahead? if thats the case than thats wishfull thinking. Your wrong. I don't need nobody's approval nor nobody's councel. Thats not the whole point i posted this thing for. It was just to share your thoughts and see our differences and debate and Learn all for the better. And to advice me, and so many did that already Alhamdulilah. You said something about my posts, this is my reply to you lol, why do you include urself in my posts than? Suppose u find them interesting! So, i didn't ask you to reply me or give me ur inputs. Stay away in the future if it's too much for ur mind to bear. I understand Wa/Salam

Interesting! Thanks for keeping the site clean. even though i've never seen those people post anything ( I guess u know better)!. Wa/Salam

LOoooooL, i didn't know that we had two comedians here. Ar iskaaa tartibiya boo ,Wahh lee meshaa finiinoyo lol. Seyy ka-noo-qaatay illmatic dadka inaad kala-kabatiid waye, waluu iskuu sii dira miyaa?? lol.

True Kisha, just because she has the quote don't mean that she's necessarly from the FAKE NATION OF ISLAM aka NOI the african-american religion very fabricated. back to the topic, Jealousy is important in my eyes. I think if you love someone very deeply & Madly then you gotta have some jealousy na mean. But too much of jealousy can be sickening too. So you have to have some balance i guess. Peace

I'll be In San Diego InshaAllah. Wishing you all a safe trip forth and back! Wa/Salam

Salamaalaykum everyone Og_Girl Habibti thank's I also must admit for the short time you've been here i came to figure that Your a Great sista Keep up the good work sis. You need to come and see New Zealand.Esp the south Island. It's just magnificent! Hey OG_GIRL do you know Miami Band? From kuwait? Ohhhh They're great. Allah Hafiz

Mandeeq , w/c sista, enjoy ur stay! Hmm, simple_woman, chill sista, no need to attack the new sista, thats not a nice impression! Wa/SAlam

Carays Welcome, Enjoy your stay Salam

Salam everyone, hey i never expected the topic to be this long. Thanks to those that were so supportive and understanding and for all the amazing advice. May Allah's protection be with with you all. And no need to hate Mob_deep & Thought_Control, You'll never know when love is gonna hit ur heart. Thats not a matter of deciding who you wanna fall in Love with. All i'm trying to say is, Allah can make you fall in LOVE with anyone regardless of his/her skin color. Your skin color is just the first layer of your body & it also happens to be very thin too, anything else beneath that makes us all the same. What you aslo need to know is that we're muslims. All slaves of Allah. Allah is not gonna look at your skin color at judgement day. It's your deeds & Imaan. Munfia , Sista, I don't wanna tell you what to like or anything. But the believe you hold about Black converts is just wrong. And remember that your not that white urself either. i guess, So no need to hate, esp when your just backfiring at urself. No Offence! Wa/Salam , take care

Salam's family Ameenah, Batuulo ,biG mOm, My Sistas in Islam thank you! Oh your all so sweet and awesome walahi. Jezekelah kheeran I truly appreciate all the advice from the bottom of my heart. Jezekelah kheeran. Originally posed by : the other thing to consider is are you a practising muslima if not are u willing to do everything in ur power to be a good practising muslima so that once u married to the brotha he doesn't get confused to why u wouldn't cover yourself or pray. I am no where near perfect but I do consider myself a very Practising Muslimah. Alhamdulilah. May Allah always keep us all on the true path ameen. silent-sistah You really are a precious sista. Jezekelah kheeran ya ukthii, luv you! Sista He has been a muslim for almost 3 years now & He practises it too MashaAllah. I'll definitely let you all know how it all turns out InshaAllah thats a promise. We still have a few months to go be4 the big day InshaAllah. May Allah's protectiob be with you all! Masalama

Walaykuma salam wr wb Ya Mujahid , Hmm, u never offended me alhamdulilah. Infact i've learned alot from you. There were Times u told me that i was wrong and u told me what was right. I'll never forget that Mujahid. I can not thank you enough. May Allah shower his blessings upon you thats all i can say! I've seen many Nomads on S.O.L, for instance when a innocent unskilled young person at times even inculding myself or many others ask for some sincere advice about a difficult situation they tell him/her the last thing that they'd do themself, Whereas u advice people always islamicly and to the best of your knowledge & Ability, I think thats a Gift from Allah. Just know from me That you Truly are one of those I look upto & totally Respect on S.O.L! Fi-amanaAllah

Mandeeq welcome to S.O.L sista. , And thaanx for warning me sweetie, I've heard some weird stories too. Jezekelah kheeran. May Allah protect us all & Lead us to what pleases Allah annd our parents Ameen! Originally posted by : YACQUUB i advise you to judge him on his merits, and to talk to him more and get to know him more and dont get things rushed. Thank's akhi, thats much appreciated. I'll not rush. I feel like your all my big brothers and sisters, I Love you all! Jezekelah kheeeran! MuslimSis, thank you too sweetie, I'll remember your words surely , mac mac! HoTsTePPeR thank's i guess cultural differences is something to consider and to understand too. I honestly believe & know that it's the Love between the 2 people that counts. I mean if you love a person then you'll surely love their culture too. thats what i think. Wa/salam

Oh MashaAllah . I really appreciate all of your insights and all the lovely advice were just more then expected. Jezekehlah kheeran. May Allah bless you! My Brother & My friend Isa , first of all welcome to the Site. Thanx for your advice akhi, Your one of the million reasons why converts should never be judged. Sister, consider your mate as he is in his deen, his imaan, and his adaab. If is matches up to your exspectations, then find your happiness in marriage. Thank's Brother! Gentleman , Yes it's freezing here, esp in the morning. I heard its warmer in the north. I'll not rush into anything brother I promise you that. Thank's for the advice. InshaAllah nothing will break. Nur Thank's brother. Hmm, i don't think that he has a converted sista. He's the only muslim in his family. but i can maybe hook you up with one of my converted friends lol. InshaAllah wishing you all th best! Guess what abowe he already wears a macawiis. Masalama, i gtg to my class, i'll catch with you's later!

Gentleman hey my fellow kiwi . I'm from the south island not north. Your advice is much appreciated brother. And NO you don't know him. He's not a Maori neither a Kiwi. Masalama

QA^QA, Salam and Muslim sis too. QA^QA thanx for being so positive always. Muslimsis, i meant marrying people from other races,but "believers" Muslims. What do you think Abaayo? Jezekelah in advance