Lol@ something to do with your Hormones I'm sure ur just kidding! Sista there are many White People who are(Believers) Muslims Alhamdulilah. because i never heard of a girl who loves some white guy. Under what Rock have u been Living? There are many who Love and even Marry white Man where I'm @ ( as far as I know they're Muslims). Allah Hafiz

Lol@ something to do with your Hormones I'm sure ur just kidding! Sista there are many White People who are(Believers) Muslims Alhamdulilah. because i never heard of a girl who loves some white guy. Under what Rock have u been Living? There are many who Love and even Marry white Man where I'm @ ( as far as I know they're Muslims). Allah Hafiz

Lol@ something to do with your Hormones I'm sure ur just kidding! Sista there are many White People who are(Believers) Muslims Alhamdulilah. because i never heard of a girl who loves some white guy. Under what Rock have u been Living? There are many who Love and even Marry white Man where I'm @ ( as far as I know they're Muslims). Allah Hafiz

Originally posted by : Ruba From Aruba If everytime u study u hope that one day this will help to lead a sucessful life in ur ancestral land...then to me that is what a true somali is Sista, Thanx for the Beautiful tip. You sound like a optimist that's cool. I'm not that optimistic when it comes to Somalia. I'd be if I knew something to be optimistic about. Salamat

Salam Sista First of all welcome to the site Zeynab. Originally posted by Zeynab : just want to say something i don't think somalia will have a stable goverment in the near future That isn't just a thought it's a pure fact Zeynab. I personaly can only make dua's and wish our Lovely but yet corrupted country all the best InshaAllah! It's by ALLAH that everything is possible. A leader cannot just make a difference, it's upto the Individual civilians! Many of us somali's like me living in the West weren't even born in somalia. I mean I didn't even vote for nobody. So didn't you, so didn't so many. Nor am I a civilian back there. So all we basically can do is Complain! I rather make dua and wish them all well. Just by doing that I believe that we are making a diffrence. And ofcourse the acceptence of our sincere Dua's is all up to ALLah swa and Patience from all of us. Wa/salam

Deeqa & Khayr & Bambina..MashaAllah such cute replies! Ah my personal opinion would be YES. I am attending my frist year in College. It's all wonderful I guess. Why think it's scarry? I mean if u have the right person. I might even pretty soon! InshaAllah. Wishing you all a bright Future.

Buubto That was well said Mam! May Allah reward you for lightening up the truth. Back-to-Nazra I don't have my claws ready for you. I'm just saying it like it is. I'm not the one who has a problem with the way others wanna live their lives. Big up's to all the mothers, who Increase our lovely Ummah. The more we are the better. NaZra ur not looking at the Bigger picture here. & I'm not going to argue with you! Like I said before u are a complete fitna, You always try to find mistakes! When it's u who is Most WRONG & is lacking the MOST Best thing of all " and that is ur Islamic values"! I suggest you put alittle more time into that. Perhaps Then you'll learn what to argue against or what to support in the Future. Fi-amanaAllah

BARWAAQO I've read about that Chicken story too. I'm a person that has alot of wis-was. I hardly trust anything. Not even jewing gums. I am a vegetarian too due to the fact that I cannot trust no meat. I never eat anything from outside. I encourage other brothers/sisters to do the same. Even those Suvlokeys ( egyptians ) turks ( lebanese) Half of the time they don't even know what they're selling. Jezekelah to the poster

Salamalaykum Sweet_Gal Jezekelah Kheeran Sista. May Allah Reward you for telling us about those Dua's. Much appreciated. God Bless!

ProudSista What do you mean the Ignorance somali's had back then? Somali's are still as ignorant as they have been before. And solong the Qabiil leads their weak minds then things shall never change. Qabiil was given by Allah. But many have mis-Used the whole Purpose it was given for. Wasalam

Proud Shaka-La-Anta daaf yaah! lol I'm not coming after you. Never you Proud! Much Love

Originally Quoted by Ruba From Aruba Its the woman's way of thinking that matters..some women will see at has a suffering while others see it as a nicma, personally i dont respect a woman who regrets having her childern, to me that is a sign of weakness,ungratefulness and stupidty. Well said Sista. I feel the exact same way. Originally Quoted by Simple Woman "I am simply suggesting, Three nights a week." As opposed to what?? 7 nights a week? How many somali parents do you know engage in sexual intercourse even once weekly let alone 3 days. And what gurantee is there that you won't get pregnant if you only do it 3 nights a week without condoms, pills or injections. I'm not saying i support pills and injections. But you're speaking out of stupidity. You're contradicting yourself!!!!! You made a Point There!

Originally Quoted by Ruba From Aruba Its the woman's way of thinking that matters..some women will see at has a suffering while others see it as a nicma, personally i dont respect a woman who regrets having her childern, to me that is a sign of weakness,ungratefulness and stupidty. Well said Sista. I feel the exact same way. Originally Quoted by Simple Woman

Oh MashaAllah . It Brought Joy To my HEART just reading it. It was Beautiful and It Touched me deep. May ALLAH SWA reward the writter. I always had a thing for Islamic Poems! I Loved it! Jezekelah to the Poster Wasalam

Salam Qabiil Should be banned Period! So long there is Qabiil nothing will Change. I believe that things will never be different. Sorry to sound hopeless Sofine but it's the truth. Wasalam

AsalamaAlaykum wa Ahlan Beek Welcome to the site Honest Girl. To be Honest is to be Beautiful from within. You know that feeling u get when u tell the truth? Undescribable! Well enjoy Your Stay Sista! I'm Lateafha Your Sista In Islam

See!!! There she goes again! Walahi this Gal sounds pretty paranoid & and has loads of Arrogance too and yeah from your Acts NaZra your Very Astute! Oh dear God! That was quite an Astonishing Performance. Next time NaZra Try making your Point with Less Paragraphs(that's if u can). You don't really need to type all of that non-sense to make urself Clear! Back to Sista Jamilah.Thanx sista In Islam I believe that you are a authentic person urself and yes we cannot associate with NaZra. Without any fear of Contradiction. It's BEST not to argue with FOOLS esp in this Case!! I don't know you Nazra but if I'd describe you WITH one word only then it would definitely be => "FITNA". Ma^Salama

SalamAlayKum I do not need to say More. always a surviver Every response you got from all the Brothers and Sisters here were Right and Very useful. InshaAllah good luck. The truth is a Beautiful thing. Even it seems as if it's gonna be too Harsh but ALLAH loves that. God Bless

Salam Jamilah Well said My Sista. I could not have said it any better than you did. I don't understand how one can refer a HuMAN Being to a Animal. Is that how far your willing to go to get a good fight out of a Thread? Or shall I say to get ATTENTION! :rolleyes: & For a change LET others Be! It's their BUSSINESS! Just Speak for yourself and do what's best for you but don't expect other to fall into your Stupid LIST!

lol General that was a good one too. Byeee

Asalama-Alaykum May the Peace & Blessings of Allah subhanaAllah be upon you Sista Haseena. I found that very uplifting and Beautiful Indeed a Precious Reminder. It's With Salat that we communicate with ALLAH best and during Sajuud. It's a Bond between ALLAH and His slave and W***ver Breakes that bond Is counted as a disBeliever. What makes us Muslims is our Deeds with Niya & not our Names. Jezekelah to the Poster

Alisomali pls don't take what the brother posted as a lie or bad. He just pointed out the truth to us sistas. I'm no where near the situation myself however i understand what he's saying. Back to the topic The Hijab in my view : symbolizes “purity,” “modesty,” it's a “woman's Islamic identity,” and “obedience, or submission to ALLAH alone and a testament that you're Muslim.” I wear my Hijab alhamdulilah. In the best way I can and in the way I was told. It's not to impress others or to imitate anybody ..like erika badu style etc....! Why would you wanna do that anyway? Shouldn't one fear ALLAH and try to please him? Why try to imitate kafirs? SubhanAllah But what it all boils down to is me making a personal decision to increase my faith and become what I believe to be a better Muslim and not to belong to any group or any style of fashion!! A Little of inspiration down here....enjoy it!! I am a Muslim woman Feel free to ask me why When I walk I walk with dignity When I speak I do not lie I am a Muslim woman Not all of me you'll see But what you should appreciate Is that the choice I make is free I'm not plagued with depression I'm neither cheated nor abused I don't envy other women And I'm certainly not confused Note, I speak perfect English Et un petit peu de Francais aussie I'm majoring in Linguistics So you need not speak slowly I run my own small business Every cent I earn is mine I drive my Chevy to school & work And no, that's not a crime! You often stare as I walk by You don't understand my veil But peace and power I have found As I am equal to any male! I am a Muslim woman So please don't pity me For God has guided me to truth And now I'm finally free! Masalama & Much love & Respect to my fellow muhajabas!!

Salam all Hey Sensual_Healing thanx for the nice insights. You took the words out of my lips. However There is a difference between dating ( and having a relationship be4 marriage) knowing eachother better don't necessarly mean that you have to be together alone! Islam teaches us not to mix with the opposite sex so freely.It rather teaches us to get married if we have the means to do so. So if you don't have any intentions to please ALLAH in the end which is getting married according to the sunnah and the Quraan than don't bother putting that thought in your head because that angers Allah. You don't have to date alot of people and finally find the RIGHT one. You can wait and have patience that way u choose your ways more wisely! You see whatever ALLAH has planned for you will reach you. There is no need for dating and searching it's better to wait. If it is meant to come - than you'll not miss it for it is your Destiny! Wasalam

Salam all Hey Sensual_Healing thanx for the nice insights. You took the words out of my lips. However There is a difference between dating ( and having a relationship be4 marriage) knowing eachother better don't necessarly mean that you have to be together alone! Islam teaches us not to mix with the opposite sex so freely.It rather teaches us to get married if we have the means to do so. So if you don't have any intentions to please ALLAH in the end which is getting married according to the sunnah and the Quraan than don't bother putting that thought in your head because that angers Allah. You don't have to date alot of people and finally find the RIGHT one. You can wait and have patience that way u choose your ways more wisely! You see whatever ALLAH has planned for you will reach you. There is no need for dating and searching it's better to wait. If it is meant to come - than you'll not miss it for it is your Destiny! Wasalam

Salam all Hey Sensual_Healing thanx for the nice insights. You took the words out of my lips. However There is a difference between dating ( and having a relationship be4 marriage) knowing eachother better don't necessarly mean that you have to be together alone! Islam teaches us not to mix with the opposite sex so freely.It rather teaches us to get married if we have the means to do so. So if you don't have any intentions to please ALLAH in the end which is getting married according to the sunnah and the Quraan than don't bother putting that thought in your head because that angers Allah. You don't have to date alot of people and finally find the RIGHT one. You can wait and have patience that way u choose your ways more wisely! You see whatever ALLAH has planned for you will reach you. There is no need for dating and searching it's better to wait. If it is meant to come - than you'll not miss it for it is your Destiny! Wasalam