Ninyaban you are such a great person, and I appreciate the sincere advice you've given me. I'm always firm with him believe me. About a week ago he sneaked into my section of the store and demanded I give him a hug shamelessly. It was in a area with no cameras. When I said to him to kindly piss off and start walking...He hugged me unexpectedly. I was very offended and made it very clear to him that I don't want him to ever touch me again. I was so angry I wanted to slap him. He acted all shocked and said 'abayo walashay tahay why did you attack me' and acted like he's the victim. He learned his lesson. Now I am dealing withe rumors that we are a couple. It's so embarrassing dealing with all of it. I just want to do my job and be strictly professional with my colleagues. Ngonge I'd love to throw you off that bridge any day, name the place n time. Lol Ibti I'm sure he thinks he's looking out for me, but I'm not a kid I can handle myself. The most embarrassing thing is having to answer to all the staff all asking me if we are a couple. Reeyo, Lol He does look out for me, and on my sick days he always finds me someone to cover me and defends me in my absence. I do appreciate that..but it's hard being just friends with him he always brings things into play I rather keep at bay. Oh well, I guess I will have to find a solution to this before things get out of hand. I don't need Drama!

Reeyo;898819 wrote: Haha, believe it or not I was cleaning out my emails and found I was a member here so I'd thought I'd check out the place and remember why I joined.... But so far I like so I'll be sticking around Thanks Apophis ( what the hell is that?) Lol That's awesome, Hope to see you post. Enjoy your stay and no disappearing ok?

You remembered to log in almost 6 years later? Welcome:)

I like my anjero thin with lots of butter n sugar, I can easily eat 10.

Che -Guevara;898536 wrote: I am begining to think Oba and Narhiah are the same person. And now I am oba.. the other day I was chimera... Che stop trollin in my thread if you want attention go make your own thread. I am really beginning to think ur all crazy...

oba hiloowlow;898535 wrote: Im just helping you out you should be thankful. Che back off dude How about you spend that time on fixing your bidar? I'm sure if you fix that maybe you too will be chased..maybe? lol Oh and maybe trolling less might do the trick too.. All the best.

Apo I rather leave my job. Oba you calling me a troll? That's rich coming from you. Guys are always chasing me? When did I ever say that? .. If you don't like my threads why do you read them or post in them? Kindly exit my thread.

Apo I don't think I have it in me to sue anyone let alone a fellow Somali however crazy they are... I'm happy to hear yours turned out successful that means you had a good case. Good on you!

A few weeks ago I told my cousin (male) from my dads side about the Somali guy at my work. He warned me to stay away from him as back home that guys tribe and our tribe are staunch enemies and kill one another and that this guy probably has killed many of my people. The Somali guy at my work once asked me my tribe and when I said I'm Somali isn't that enuff he insisted I tell him weeks on and then finally I told him whereupon he couldn't believe me and kept saying 'Say walahi'? I dunno what to make of it. Might be a lil irrelevant but just adding on so you guys get where I'm coming from.

The Somali guy at my work (as some of you know)... Told everyone that I'm his 'Girl' and to stay away from me. Since I started work I use to be friendly alright'ish with most of my male co workers and now none of them speak to me anymore. They'll lower their heads and pass me without saying anything to me. For quite some time now I've been feeling that there's something going on until this guy told me what the Somali guy says to all the guys when I'm not working. I even heard that he threatened one guy who once walked me home cause we live across streets from one another and now he's totally blanking me too. When I asked him what's wrong he was like 'You should have told me that your involved with him .....because he doesn't like me talking to you. Seriously how is it his business who I talk to or don't. He's asked me out on dates before, I refused. He's quite good looking but I know that he has a temper and most people at my work are terrified of him I'm not attracted to that about him. He has all the girls at work swooning over him I don't know why he's telling everyone these stories. I tried to make this clear to him but obviously it's not getting through. This is really no big deal at all, but I feel like the people at my work now give me a certain look like they think I'm his gf or something. He's not just a supervisor our manager gives him a lot of power and most people at my work come under him. I really feel offended I'm not his girl and I don't appreciate what he has done.

Who cares?

Bluelicious;897687 wrote: Haatu I am waiting for some rectification from you using my name negatively or I will haunt you down. Secondly when did this thing between you and Narniah happen since she is calling it a love story? Blue I said people are ruining this love story before it even takes off, I didn't say it is a love story. Lol You'd be the first to know homie if there was a such thing.0_0 xx It's so awkward being on this forum now I'm being accused of being Chimera why him! I mean he watches Mean girls and posts pictures of ripped men. Hmm Not my kinda thing. And what did that pathetic old man say in Somali, cause I didn't get it:/. Gosh I'd say Ngonge is some girl who is jealous. Seriously who always accuses people of being someone else:/. I guess being here nearly a decade does that to some people here. Oh well, live a little and let others be. Ngonge pls for your sake man up and stop acting/doing things that are of feminine nature..It's kinda weird. Haatu;897684 wrote: Then it is settled. We are now officially an e-couple to join other couples such as AT and blue. Narniah, I can but these ones that I found beat my ones any day. Also, aww, what a cute poem. I'm touched. Lol Maybe you should keep your thoughts a secret as people here seem deeply disturbed by it (and it seems to be bringing out the worst in them). I feel so awkward replying even cause I feel like they'll pick on me again:/. Next thing they gonna evil eye..Weirdos! Get a life creeps..Get a hobby or something stop dedicating your pathetic time to me.:rolleyes: Hmm talking of poetry I have a blog with some of my poetry.... What's the best way to copyright things online..?

Miyir;897674 wrote: Dont worry haters will hate. I am @ringside waiting my share of Camels!! Which side of the Family are you from?;p

Woah what happened in this thread, I see some people are so filled with jealousy they want to ruin this love story before it even begins...*Sigh*. Lol how Typical! Haatu...Can you write your own poetry? Hmm I know how to write poetry.. Maybe one day I will share it. Here's a little poem....(I didn't write it tho)..I thought it was cute... When all goes wrong, and my life runs amok, I think of you, and I get unstuck; In the midst of chaos, you make my heart sing.

Aww Haatu I'm sorry about the late response If I knew I had a thread dedicated to me I would have logged on sooner to reply.-) Thank you for dedicating that poem to me, it's sweet.

The best things to do in the winter for me are seeing movies, eating at a nice cozy place with candle lights lol..Nothing romantic with friends too. I like swimming though I do that all year, and go to relaxation spas with my sister she's such a pamper freak. You should try it too, It's soo much fun. She gets discounts from her work so later today we're going to a Morrocan spa...I'm excited.

Ms MoOns;895729 wrote: Hey Narniah, alles goed? Hey Ms Moons, het gaat prima met mij sgat n met jouw? Leuk om zo veel kaaskopen hier tegen te komen. Hey maakt mij zo blij! Thanks for this much needed thread, the dutch community here I must say are the brightest...:)MashaAllah. (edit:.Ngonge What ru suggesting now that I'm blue? lol Me and blue already have joked about that after we both discovered about our common dutch heritage. I actually said to her, once they find out they gonna definitely accuse us of being each other.

Rahima;894145 wrote: Repulsive? Of course it is generalisation but her points are very much close to reality . As for the question of to go ajanabi or not? Whatever floats your boat really, you're the one who has to live with the person. Thanks Rahima. 5;894129 wrote: Narniah , I like you sister, but your post is repulsive. It sounds like it was written by a neo-conservative white middle aged man who is trying to get into the pants of Somali women by trashing Somali men. Stop hating on the brothers, sis. 5.. I wasn't thrashing all Somali men, I was just answering a question I was asked. This is why I don't like to get into debates with people on this forum cause no one leaves room for any understanding it's your either with them or against them there's no middle ground. Maybe you haven't read my post sister but I blatantly stated that I felt sorry for the sisters who felt that way. I don't know why people like to only read parts of my posts and ignore my main point. Oh well, I'm use to it but please re-read my post as you seem to have missed my own point. Let's not forget that I'm Somali too, and so is my lovely father though I believe men like him are rare in any community nevertheless there are many amazing brothers in our community some of them being my own brothers, and I admire and look up to them. RaMpAgE;894074 wrote: If you wanna marry some dhagax or cadaan or whatnot, its your choice, but don't try to push your mix-breeding agenda on us. Oh pls man, don't you ever have anything new to say? You say that same lame line to every post I make about marrying out the community. Isn't dagax a stone in af somali, why am I suppose to marry one? Such a deranged individual you are. Pathetic, you think Somalis are full blooded? They are also mixed, so you can kindly shove your racist comments. Oh and what a coincidence today a Bosnian brother who's a 10 in looks n deen proposed to me...Hmm.. Wadani;894071 wrote: Narniah, I recognize that there are many dysfunctions within Somali society. But our opinions of any social phenomena are not only shaped by reality as we experience and observe it, but our perceptions will also be shaped by how much we choose to focus on one aspect of reality to the exclusion of others. This leads to extreme and rigid views, and broad generalizations that do not capture the truth in its entirety. The truth is, despite all of the existing problems u've so aptly described, there are countless Somali men who are the complete antithesis to the protypical dead beat Faarax loser you take issue with. So just as you recommend that we look around us, I advise u to do the same and u may become pleasantly (maybe unpleasantly lol) surprised. I will do that bro, and I know some really nice Somali guys I just don't have anything in common with them unfortunately. The ones who got the looks don't have deen and the ones with deen don't have looks...Long story... Thanks

Bluelicious;895594 wrote: Looooooooool Very true I noticed that as well, his list only consists of people he doesn't like and who have hurt his fragile feelings. I wouldn't be suprised if he even had voodoo dolls of us lool. Naya NGONGE the only reason you mentioned my name is because I agreed with the moderator and laughed at your smack down so move along with your lame list that only consists of people who you don't like how pathetic. Using the ''script'' card when your fragile feelings are hurt doesn't look good on a elder man.

*Raises hand*....

Apophis;895207 wrote: I guess there's no need to start "best suck up of the year" poll as we have a clear cut winner (or is it wierner??) above. Lol! Lsk Ngone even accussed me of being a script. Whenever he disagrees with people he uses the ur a script insult to undermine/put people down. He's done that to me every encounter I had with him on this forum ( however few). I hope that the admin can give that grumpy old man a warning. Its offensive. Rant ovrr..tnx

That's only permitted if the person made fajr wudu then put on the socks (in a state of purity) in this case one doesn't have to repeat the wudu for the feet when dhuhr or any other prayer's wudu is being performed. You can wipe over your socks but they must be clean.

Seek professional help while you can, you are really starting to lose it.

^Sensible..

^ Lol I'm not going to let you read it, so there's no 'probably' about it. I'll keep on smiling, and you do what you do best 'being a cynic'.