Jacalbryo, or should i say,as you pronounce yourself the "teacher of love", what do you say to this example of showcasing ones love in a such of a out-of-orderly fashion. i find it quite absurd!!

"ala shalay waxaan arkay gabar qurux badan oo cad" the keyword after beautiful has become the word "Cad" which I think is feuling the whole idea of bleeching and bluuching out of their natural skin! this and also Alle-ubahannee...............there seems to be a more classic saying which take us to the heart of this subject matter.............. "Doqon iiyoowh habeene baa isla madoow" :eek: , shocked to hear this new line of thought, quite sad really. off course i would opt for a different measure to looking lighter. seriously some of this girls need to stop those harsh alternatives and use their wits. 1. you should wear colours that "ku-soo saaroh".for me i have noticed pink, black and green do this (i swear they actually do make me shades lighter then i am). 2. you should dye your hair black (i hear that it is haram to dye it black...........but what you can do is put on some henna). the blacker the better, this will highlight your features and bring out your skin colour making you appear shades lighter. 3. wear make-up that works for you........for example i wear "revlon-natural tan" ontop of that i put on shimmer to have a glowing effect. i swear sometimes it gets mistaken for me lighten my skin. you usually pick up on this by classic remarks, such as "you look different........or your skin is flawless" ***thanks my holiday did pay of after all*** these are just few things i have noted which have really made some girls shine more then the rest.

its unfair though i always wanted the "mr know it all", but always tend to get the "loafers and religious ones". bloody hell always at extreame ends. :mad:

excuse moi, loo water i don't thinks so. if worst pulls through then i am opting for re-immigration to somalia. anyways i am sure the govermnent can find alternative measures then loo water-preharps along the lines of artificial rain

apparently, due to our drought-stricken stage-the sheikhs got together to make dua for rain. i never quite realised the extent of our rain-less year-that or i can see nothing reducing my 1-hour showers.

****** computer........... :mad:

apparently, due to our drought-stricken stage-the sheikhs got together to make dua for rain. i never quite realised the extent of our rain-less year-that or i can see nothing reducing my 1-hour showers.

apparently, due to our drought-stricken stage-the sheikhs got together to make dua for rain. i never quite realised the extent of our rain-less year-that or i can see nothing reducing my 1-hour showers.

apparently, due to our drought-stricken stage-the sheikhs got together to make dua for rain. i never quite realised the extent of our rain-less year-that or i can see nothing reducing my 1-hour showers.

i don't think that i would classify it hard, seing as i personally see everyone for their worth. But the only thing that makes it so hard is that being on the upper level just somethings distorts your image and you really can not see brothers for who they truly are. don't get me wrong we don't(well i don't) think i am all that an above but there is something flawed if you don't see things in the same manner or you can't see eye-to-eye. Even when you don't care about their level of education they feel a sense of intimadation however unexplicit. don't get me worng there will always be that gap despite it being big or small. on the other hand education is not merely being book smart, there are brothers who have knowledge~overlooking the fact that they have not had the so called "education". the hard part depends on which way you sway your boat.

lol devilangle, i think you maybe on to something , so i would look for a guy that his mom maybe x or his dad is y ..hmmm but in the end he is y and dat means my dad gets what he wants. if only things were that easy , but imagine all d brothers i would knock bak on my quest to find mr xy , dat would make me seem so superficial.

**Hypothetically ** what if your parents like many somalis care about the qabiil shit and your mother wants clan x and father want you to marry clan Y only. and they supposedly want what's best for you. and you couldnt care who you married as long as they treat you right , and islam teach us to listen/consider what our family/parents think about your potential spouse. who are you suppose to listen to?

i have never heard of anything more preverted then the concept of love. love is a western idea. it simply is a four letter word that has no meaning and stance to me. when i hear some of the girls i know speak of thus, my stomach turns i feel like putting them out their misery for once and for all and smack some senses into them. love doesn't exist, its not earthly bound thus it is bound to fail~this should be peoples driving analogy. A friend of mine once spoke of how madly she felt for a guy, listening to her i had to constantly replace her use of the word "love" with "infatuation". she had understood that i was associating her with being naivee, and had told me that i would see it for my own oned day. blood rushed to my cheecks, was she in anyway imnplying that i was the naivee one. with my calm auroa i simply told her that love is a temporary insanity and that it only comes after marriage right now it wasn't her heart but rather her hormones raging out of control. she had not spoken to me for couple of weeks. when she had married she finally confessed that i was right. in conclusion love does not exists, it only exists for those lucky few who don't chase it and see the sense of "consumerism" behind it. but for those that do so, i feel a sense of pity on your behalf for you effort will be in vain.

geez. you have alot of time on your hands. forget about coming up with such delicate storylines, i did not even have time to grasp them.

ngnoge, do i not have the capacity to write a eloquent piece of article?. is my english not enough to enable me to get through the necessities in life?. what is this about having my husband to translate for me. i will repeat: whislt i completely agree with being educated- i fall short of grasping when it will come to an end. as you can see your advice is irrelevent considering the stance that i am arguing on.( however reflective) you are talking about necessiites, what i am talking about is when education will come to an end. so in a sense whilst being a feminist and optimistic is rather cute-reality has a painful way of alerting you on what is really out there. i think after bloody 13 years of education i am equipped with the conventional knowledge which will enable me to hold a steady life, why further headaches. We come from a poor, backwards and ignorant society. It’s dangerous and quite damaging to discourage education quite true, but on the contrary, we live in a society which is hanging on the edge, we are living to basically survive. we are still the first generation of somalis who are paving the way for our children to not live the lives that we lived- this is not our homeland where everything is being provided for us-we can not study in comfort, so why not just fulfill the necessary obligations which is needed from us in terms of knowledge and let the rest take its course.

quote; sharmakee: Vibe, Any loaded faraax in your neighbourhood? If yes: well then hook-up with him, and if he's Mum tries to intervene punch her at the face. hilarious!!

this is what i mean-after posting this topic i went to give in overdue assignments and look at how many replies i have waiting for me. studying surely absorbs you wholly. :mad: where to start. i have been seing alot of advices, the good the bad and the not-so-place-able. Whilst i admit i am arguing for the sake of arguing and nevertheless that alarm clock will constantly be replaced,you can never excuse the fact that education is a never ending story and there has to come to a point that you start to consider other routes. Heck with the world and its laborious challenges eh? Just be a queen and learn how to manage own royal court! Balaayaba buulkaaga laga galaa! Let your stud wrestle with the world...! how very tempting xin. igaa-daa noooh. i am being taken away. but i have to admit your other quote was of a serious note: point out that education though admirable a thing is not the only route to success. exactly. what is defined as success?, can it be measured in terms of wordly view or is it what you merely accomplish?. See this higher education stream seems to profit from our "obssession", as we can not deny the fact that the only form of knowledge which is invaluable is really our "knowledge of the deen". yet why must we succumb to this capalist society, who in kharys words "thrives from our debits". when is enough education? we complete our degrees only to find that the position we are seeking needs us to have our masters or ph.D.s or preharps even worse does not guarrantee us a job. are we meant to suddenly look around and slap ourselves in the cheek. we can not lie to ourselves- we must at all costs consider what situation we are in and what exactly we are getting ourselves in, whislt i completely agree with being educated- i fall short of grasping when it will come to an end.

ever stopped and wondered why its worth it?, ever wondered when will it end?, these questions have constantly been popping up in my mind lately, it seems we are in a ever-tiring battle with education, and its most certainly weighing me down. couple of days ago, a family friend asked in his usual colloquial line "so halimo, waxbarashadi iyo aadi yaa-rayee". with an depressing tone i had to admit "wee-laiga raaye". you see i have always been up for that "miss-independent and educated title". but for a women studying is not a befitting occupation, its seriously too much. reality wise guys can experiment with education, but ladies take it from me, house -wife is the occupation we should all seek. i am this close of considering being a full time mom, studying is taking its toll on me, usually i am a flamboyant persona, now days you will see me with no less then a sad look. but what is it with this obsession of ours- for me it started from the day i considered a bright future- with these constant headaches and feeling of life being sucked right out of me-i don't think there is "brightness" at the end of the tunnel. so i have decided that i am going to give studying one last chance- i am only giving till the end of this year- if it doesn't work out-hello the first fella that walks in that dooor~i will take you on!!

let the poor girl state her crush... maybe that’s her way to 2 find some sort of closer to lost love…. ...llool hello, this topic is entitled "first crushes", not bloody "ways to find a lost love", you just shoot yourslef in the foot.

lol, twayjania, my first crush was my brothers best friend. i thought he was the most beautiful creature having set foot on earth. i used run to my room and look pretty when he used to visit my brother. good god looking back i was very very dumb, i recall even having to tell my brother how much i liked him (we shared the same room and we used to scheme ways to push him my way). sadly we ended up moving, his family ended up moving after us to the same city, when my brother found out they landed, he told me that so-and-so came. i had forgotten who him, only to be reminded by my brother that "my crush" came. we live in the same city and i have yet to see him.

this is just so mind blowing-do proceed

i have not read this topic nor am i going to spare any energy into reading it, this marriage facade has taken its toll on me. if i hear this bloody word i think i am going to puck. what is it with everything being situated around marriage these days. aaaaaaaaaaaghhhh frustrations, seriously not only is this word becoming too common in the outside world, i can't believe i have to witness it even further in the one place i thought i could escape from :mad: its the same story, you are going to be popping babies and increasing the population of islam. pat on the back and then off to the next phase in life~death!!. just bloody do it and get it over and done with, simple as that. :mad:

Nin iyo Naag oo isku wareersan lol

Just had to ruin the whole joke, didn't ya? lol

sicily in italy.no place like it. ,