Hindida loo yeedhay because they won't give a damn about these Pirates and will shoot them on sight. I hope they stay there and patrol even more acudibillah how can u be soo out of touch!!!!

so did i!!

che-quevere who wouldve thought u could be romantic!!!, i swear for a minute i thought i was reading one of my classic romance novels. wow i had no idea a somali guy could wirte like that!!....awaiting for more to be written(anxiously)

^^lol

today i realised you should never give yourselve wholly to anyone and that you need to be ur own best friend.

nothing is as it seems- those that you think are the worst of men can trully turn out to be the best- whilst those that you held in high esteem-no longer make your judgements credible. they turn out to be the worst. :mad: -nothing is as it seems-where has the trust gone?

wow, this has to be the best read so far for the day..very nice. geez we, "once were warriors", the stuff of legends.

waar isdiil!!! go get a shovel, dig a hole in your backyard and jump in it

today i woke up hating the world and its contents....i wanted to shoot everybody that got to sleep in i tripped up on the some toy slidded my way to the front wall and nearly knocked out my sister in the process...oh what a horrible day what a horrible world.

but to cover a child or make a mini-tent of little girls who have yet to know why and how they must hide themselves and most importantly from who, is an innocent parental abuse and protectionistic at best or and a parental show-off at worst, if not an outright enforced-mal-parenting. so you would prefer them to not have any sense of their being or who they are and suddenly have an "identity crisis". this is also called "parental neglect". everyone will be accounted for their actions, your parents will not take the blame for your fate, but its their responsibility to install the values which are imperimative for the rest of your life. you have to know where you came from and where you are going isnt that existence?. when you grow you have a choice to leave this or become what you want to be, but at least they have done their duty and are no longer accountable and at least their children know a part of themselves and that is the recognition that they have a past. letting your children to walk blindly and bewildered is "neglect". its abuse when their parents want them to cover up, but its also a "paranormal" way of living if they chose to cover when they grow up. :rolleyes: you shouldnt be arguing "too young for a hijab" rather "no hijab at all".

why do you all got to talk full on somali....i cant quite decipher what is being said...........and i am curious to find out.

P.s. When I went miyi I met mothers with 7-12 kids who were the same size as me at the age of 45+ (I left them my clothes) They don't even have all the drugs and doctors and facilities to help them carry, monitor and birth a child. Gangsters bilaah adjustment. ibi preharps they were the same size as you because how should i say this "they are in miyi". gosh offcourse their body is going to stretch back into its original state its not like food is in its abundance!! not to mention their constant exercise regime, do you know how far they have to walk everyday? *News Alert* Even women like Halle Berry and the likes have been dumped, cheated on and so forth…So its not how a woman should look like, its about MEN and their Hungurii!! lol, couldnt say it any better

Malika you tell em....soul sista

Hayat* how much do you weigh now, abbaay? i dont know what you are refering to but no this is not an outcry on my behalf.......i am not married so telling you how much i weigh now will not really prove or hint at anything. this is merely an observance from married couples to those aspiring to get married the wive is expected to remain beautiful for the rest of her life(especially in reference to weight) yet there is problem with any limitations from the guys side. ****Please save me the personality etc lets be honest physical attraction matters**** yep it does but it has limits i mean its not like both partis are going to remain beautiful for the rest of their lives just like ageing is a natural part of life and it inviatebly makes you ugly... there are phases which women go through that will decrease her in physical appearance i.e. childbirth why does it then need to be an issue?. heck men dont even go through childbirth and they get a pot belly...but then again that is not "letting go off themselves" :rolleyes:

i will spear you any finger pointing, but i have observed with much dissappointment that men can be quite insenitive creeps. why must you all ask, why we cant keep our shape after childbirth? why we let go of ourselves? who asks such questions. and why do you guys suddenly consider other options like a second wife after your wife has gained couple pounds? or on a more serious note why do you suddenly lose interest in her, however unexplicit.why is it in every opposite sex debate must the "letting go of yourselves" card also come up. It shouldn't even be a point to refer to. i know most of you males will reply by saying that its just insensitive creeps who dont harbour any affection for their wives, but the reality is i have seen decent minded men who (not in the presence of their wives oofcourse) have referred to this bothering them!!. its always the "i am going to get my wive a treading mill" after she gives birth, in an attempt to prevent her from "letting go of herselve". for gods sake she had to squeeze watermelons out of a walnut and she cant even be given a break. now she has to focus on keeping thin as well!! insensitive creeps i say despite however much you do try to point otherwise. :rolleyes:

believe it or not, some somali guys and girls are having a hard time trying to get married the first time...... and you thought you had it bad believe me if its decreed that you are going to get married it will happen, without you having to lift a finger, i mean that literally ........ be patient and make many duas.

^^ hey anyone can take those pcitures.........how do we know its ur office and scenery you are not in any of them

it seemed they were deprived of shukaasi as they were aggressive when it came to that front. , gosh i never associated aggressivenes in that front with lack of shukansi!! thanks Koora-Tuunshe for the clarifiaction.

dont you think that what you are saying implies that seal is ugly considering he is giving hope to the not-so-good looking?. :confused: you pretteir then seal i dont think so........maybe you cant see with those indaayar eyes of yours but i dont a two foot tall chinese man with straw hut would get heidi's attention over seal.

dont you think that what you are saying implies that seal is ugly considering he is giving hope to the not-so-good looking?. :confused: you pretteir then seal i dont think so........maybe you cant see with those indaayar eyes of yours but i dont a two foot tall chinese man with straw hut would get heidi's attention over seal.

Well...if Seal got Heidi that would give alot of hope to the not-so-good looking folks. i happen to think that seal is not an ugly guy. :mad: she is very lucky to get him more likely. anyway she asked him out because he was "hot". technically speaking the equation does not fit.

is garisa in kenya?...... are these girls somali?

well MARC it seems my self-opinionated bile is smewhat accurate... I AM AN ATTENTION-SEEKER! I HOPE THAT CONFIRMS YOUR SUSPICIONS have heard these same allegations from other SOLers, who when they have nothing to contribute, resort to such antics. what is there to possibly to contribute to? you can not honestly be telling us that you expect somesort of a resonable response. a responsible topic deserves a a rationale reply, this topic is irrelevent and unbased. so i will leave you to your attention seeking-you have certainly captured mine-hope that helps u sleep well

it amazes me what certain people do to get attention around here. MARC please tell me you are arguing for the sake of arguing- and that this is not your definition of a pressing issue that needs to be dealt with . I won’t stoop to your level and resort to such antics. i dont think you have to stoop to her level rather "rise". you have stooped to the lowest of all lows by posting this very topic.

gosh talk about a depressing read. ok i thought the whole "i dont need a guy" thing was a phase which was reflective of immaturity observed in men residing in our community. It was something to get over- but to carry such ideals forget about ur thirties but above the 20s is a cause for concern. i feel the pressure to marry now, i dont know how i could heck it in that age range. u would have to live a non-somali residence for once.