i have put much thought into this........kaafaxiye and the rest of the others who have complained or should i say talked about their experience with qabiliste individuals. firstly i don't think these people are wanting to know what qabil you are for the sole purpose of denying aquitance with you just because you are not "hebel-hebel", but the reason being that since most of us somalis have immigrated from our homeland, most of peoples families are still back home. so in an attempt to bridge this gap, they must look for a secondary family i.e. qarabo qansah. so they are not on a whole affected with tribal affilited disorder, but rather looking for their extended families, which for the time being will serve as "family". as for me, yes i have had numerous incidents where people have asked if i was "hebel-hebels" daughter or sister, only to be shunned after i reply with a head-shake, or a mighty grin if in the affirmative, but i never really take it to heart. personally i would love to extend my family and have it consisting of as much qabil as possible. variety is the key.

welcome or should i say "ku soo dawoow". cio. SB dee ah-kumacanato

takbir. allahu-akbar. jazakumlahu sisters. you know the iman does wear out, the like of clothes and its through constent reminders like these, that we are wacked in the head. yes, my head is straightend for the day.

SHIDH. both wrong. oh well turn off my computer for the first one, turned it on for the second.

Nur your just classic!!............i hope that does not lead to you growing a big head..........but inspires you to write more spontaneous threads...

^^^ failure comment directed to Socod_badne....nameless chick you have the all clear

brother beautiful topic..........don't worry about Ibtissam its seems she is those typical women who complain about having no rights, but when their rights a explicitly stated still complains........... Nameless chick......if anything his delivery deserves every credit, don't see why he would get an "f" i don't think it was his "failure" to deliver but your failure to see. once again brother nice opic......even a woman could've not done a beter job....

congrats A-lexus... it is very inspiring to hear you rejoicing in your new found happiness........oh and reading you and GM playing cat and mouse........very cute!!!!..........

is it just me or is there no variety in somali-careers nowadays. this topic was inspired by the fact that there was no topics posted recently. But what do we say to this. i mean its nice to have connections here and there as most of the careers are the same. But isn't it abit boring. how come the next brother you ask replies they are doing enginering,(ok.i admit there has been a bit of shift, probably nowdays business is in) but why can't it be architecture? and how come all the somali girls have an infutuation with NURSING?. Why can't there be a variety?.

you know its funny............i mentioned to somebody that that picture looked good(if that really was the person), but was told that they were many others claiming that it was them.........personally not mentioning identities but that person in that picture looks good.............i still can't get over-it though..........how i mentioned this very recently and how you decided to post this topic......oh well preharps i am not the only one's eye it caught........guess so

totally agree..............cholate and honey..................don't these people know that if they say their sin in the open it can not be forgiven........... keep it personal. stick with that. and flipmode why thi topic? if anything you are inciting more sins to be committed.......instead of helping the islam brotherhood.

originally posted by Castro: Black refugees from Somalia who "ran" from their homes only to be welcomed in someone else's home and don't even bother to learn the new language of the land yet think of themselves superior to all other beings and choose to discriminate against the very people who took them in. Phew They say castro...........wisdom comes with age.........but i most certainly could not help noticing this naivee statement of yours. first and foremost they should only be grateful to god that they were "taken in" because it was through him...........and these gaalos do not do anything for free...........why did they supposedly take in up to "60, thousand somali refugees recently......was it beacause they wanted to welcome them, or preharps the mere fact that they needed economic boosting. what else do you want these somalis to do for them.........worship the ground they walk on........

may allah bless and guide whoever coming up with this topic...............mashallah i am sure we are all envious..........for truly every person that does this you have a share in their ajer. a mighty investment.if only i had come up with it.once again mashallah

flipmode: why all these posts dealing with women and the status of women?(even if your latter stance was accurate). surely it would give you more creadibility of you were a woman?

that was really hilarious!!=i also interpreted this to my aunty (as i was reaidng) beutiful!!. oh thankx for sharing that..........vvvfunny

OMG, i love Yusuf Estes......i only heard him mention about his background the time where he met the "egyptian trader", but oh................he is such a good lecturer. you know i know this deviates from the topic entirely, but its amazing how global muslims are..............this man is RED-HEAD texas born...............i remember the time i watched his lecturer............his sight made me laugh..................but he is beautiful.

Women,women..........lets not jump the wagon....lets view this as civilised as possible. maybe Nur does have a point...............i mean lets put oursevlves in these womens shoes............ok.............we can get somewhere...............imagine you are in your menopausal period..............iam sure you can spare him.first i don't like this but if i was 45-i would by all means let him marry his other options.................but just don't ask me when i am in my blossoming years..............thats too much.

i think, personally everyone is jumping the wagon.... being a mother is not something perverted, the real problem is not in having kids, i think it would be not spacing them very well. i mean its not all about popping, as you have to be careful int his era..............but what strikes me odd is that people are overlooking the fact that in the prophets time, women conducted their own affairs, they were never "oppressed" nor did they ever run after smokescreeb called "freedom" but went after their ardent desire without having to forget their roles..........they were mothers,wifes,career women................that is presentation..........

is this entertainment??................or is this entertainment?? this is certainly entertainment at its best........

how old is he by the way?..............LOL

Ahura, nice pics and it clearly raised your point................but if only you point James Blake in there..................then oh boy alot of people would be listening..............well you would be starting with me

*typing erro: what do people consider a reasonable age difference between partners?*

it seems the age difference is something that is somewhat always alluring in the air in relationships. but do people consider a reasonable age difference partners i personally give it four years maximum.

lol THAT was a funny typical hysteria fit from our beautiful christian friends. Jealously is a sin. , not only is jealousy a sin.................it really is a curse..................see how they go through desperate measures to destroy the light of Islam and don't know they are successfully paving the way for their own destruction...........................what a curse....and may hell be their final abode. :mad:

Men falling in love is as precise as a doctors diagnosis with the first hand-shake.............. , personally i can't believe that somali-women are talking like this............this is something a "cadan", chick would say (seing that xalwad baa xarka looga daqaa, and fanta kaadida looga biyaraciya).............very disconcerting..........very indeed.......mardabee yaawahaan yaa-linka maqlin....... :mad: