to my people, in one word, i hope to be a politician. yes, a Somali, woman politician. and may be some day the Somali ambassador to the UNITED NATIONS. Inshaa Allah.

Bisimillah, Dunya, say what!!!!!!!! you wanna get infected with AIDS. I don't believe a word you wrote down, but just in case what you saying is true, girl you better get to work. you abviously SICK and need some help. Most importantly, ask Allah for forgivness for He only can help you. :confused: :mad:

Salamu Alikum, Dear sister, thank you for your post, and I truly believed in every word that was written there, Gazaki Allhu Khairan, Maca Asalama

Asalmu Alikum, Brothers and sisters, I am a proud somali young woman who is currently attending an American university in the state of New York. I am studying Political Science and perhaps i would like to go to Law School. despite my mothers opinions that this Political Science will not get me anywhere, I have a dream of one day returning to Somalia and become very involved in my beloved country's domestic and Internationl politics. my question is do i have the chance to make my dream come true. i was not raised in somalia so it would be nice if you can offer an answer to my question: what is the Somali woman's role in Somali politics? Thank you for your time.

lol zynb, i know what our religion says about dressing in modesty and not tryin to look like men, but personally, there is somedays in the winter when i would even think of wearing a skirt. 'cause it's too cold out there. Hey guys, i like all of your opinions. keep it up!

lol zynb, i know what our religion says about dressing in modesty and not tryin to look like men, but personally, there is somedays in the winter when i would even think of wearing a skirt. 'cause it's too cold out there. Hey guys, i like all of your opinions. keep it up!

hi, this is what i do, 1. Salat 2. coffee 3. and more coffee

hi, Lately, the issue of how a person dresses have become so important that a Somali person (whether a man or a woman)is being judged by the way he/she dresses. For Somali women, if you were a big hijab, you are automatically a good, religious person. On the other hand, if one wears jeans then she is considered wild. This is widely seen in places that have a big Somali community. Once when i was in Ohio, a person asked me if I pray just because I was wearing a pair of jeans. You see what i mean!! any way tell how you usually dress, and how does others stereotype you by the way you choose to dress. :confused:

hi, whatever you do, don't tell a girl "I Love You" on the first date. That's a big no-no

hi, i have to admitt, this topic is very interesting and confusing at the same time. the way i see it is that Somali men's insecurity became so obvious after leaving Somalia. i mean that when we came to N. America, Europe or whatever, Somali women became impowered more than they were in Somalia, right?! this had contributed to the problem of Somali men's insecurities. By the way, is that your real picture, 'cause if it is-- you are cute!

HI BROTHERS AND SISTERS; I KNOW PROBABLY THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RELATIONSHIPS. BUT I WAS THINKING HOW THIS NEW GENERATION IS KINDA LOST. I MEAN DON'T YOU WISH WE WERE IN SOMALIA, LIVE OUR RICH CULTURE EVERYDAY AND SPEAK PERFECT SOMALI 24/7!!!! MAY BE MY LOVE FOR SOMALIA MAKES ME ENVEY SOMETIMES THOSE WHO ACTUALLY GREW UP THERE. TELL ME WHAT YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS. WHAT WOULD GUYS DO TO STAY REMINDED OF THE LANGUAGE AND EVERYTHING THAT IS SOMALI SPECIALLY US WHO LIVE IN THE WEST. THANX FOR UR TIME

wazzzzz up

alsalamu clykum, love this topic, i was thinking of posting something like this.... thankx sis i am not gonna answer all the questions but my man cheated on me before. he felt da need to, you know how it goes. of course i said no. i caught him cheating on me with some somali girl i knew. Did i forgive him? hell no and i would never take him back :mad:

FOR THE SOMALI GUYS, AND GIRLS OUT THERE, WHAT IS TO YOU THE IDEAL BODY TYPE. FOR THE GUYS: WOULD YOU CONSIDER WOMEN WHO ARE TALL AND SKINNY HAVE THE PERFECT BODY? FOR THE LADIES: DO YOU ONLY THINK MASCULAR MEN OWN THE PERFECT BODY? TELL ME WHAT YOU LIKE ABOUT THE OTHER GENDER'S BODY?

why would my husband want another wife for. first of all, i gotta check what's making him, even think!, of getting another wife for. some times men are being just (MEN), and there ain't anything wrong with the wife. in this case #@ck off!, i would divorce his ass, and get on with my life.

YEP, YOU GUESSED IT: CLASSY

CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG. BUT AIN'T THE GUY'S JOB TO APPROACH A GIRL. WELL MAY BE THE TIME HAS CHANGED AND EVERYTHING. AND I KNOW WE IN THE 21TH CENTURY, BUT PERSONALLY I WOULD NEVER APPROACH A GUY. I MIGHT GIVE HIM A SIGN BUT I WOULD NOT APPROACH HIM. I'S SURE THERE IS A LOT OF GIRLS OUT THERE WHO ARE LIKE ME. SO, MY ADVISE IS GO AHEAD AND STEP UP TO HER. ASK HER FOR HER PHONE #. AND IF IT DIDN'T WORK OUT, I AM SURE U WILL FIND ANOTHER GIRL, MAY BE BETTER THAN HER.

SORRY, THAT SHIT SOUNDED GAY CUTE THOUGH!

I HAD A QUESTION ALL ALONG. WHY DO SOMALI GUYS DON'T BELIEVE SOMALI GIRLS WHEN THEY SAY THEY VIRGINS? I DON'T KNOW ABOUT YOU GUYS WHO LIVE OUT DA STATES BUT HERE IN NORTH AMERICA I SEE THIS THINGS HAPPENING ALL THE TIME. BROTHAS HELP ME OUT. :confused:

I GOT TWO WORDS FOR YOU SIS, A SOULMATE IS SOME WHO UNDERSTANDS YOU WELL DAT WAS MORE THAN TWO WORDS BUT U GET THE IDEA. :cool:

WOW! THIS CONFUSES ME SOMETIMES. BUT U CAN'T JUDGE THEM ALL. U KNOW WHAT I MEAN. THERE IS SOME BAD GUYS AND THERE IS SOME GOOD ONES TOO. MOSTLY I THINK THEY R GOOD, BUT WE GOTTA GIVE THEM TIME.