What will happen to your Family if you weren't there? Well i know they would all survive it coz we lost far more important fockz than me but i think i would be greatly missed. I help Finance tha whole family. my mom ask me for advices. my older brother would be a mess with out me coz we alwayz roll together plus he and my mom don't get along that well so im da negotiator, well that goes for my whole family.wheneva their is a fight im tha one who sat down to talk thangz out. my lil brother won't have anyone to bully around. and less but not least Im tha clown in my family so they will gonna go to quiet timez. on the other hand im a big burden too.im alwayz loud and i think i know everythang. but im lucky with my family and i hope they feel blessed with me

my brother is far most tha dizorganized person i know. he is messy,doesn't a agenda,alwayz late for appoinments. i not like that and that irritates me alot. what i do is if he has a very important appoinment i alwayz try to go with him just to make sure that he is their on time. im trying to teach him how organize appoinments and to remember them(coz he has a hard doing that too) i yell at him when i see his messy room.if that doesn't work im gonna clean it up myself. but then wheneva he comes homes and he sees a clean room he screams,"where R my stuff", "who told u to clean my thangs up". he is hopelezz case im so praying that he getz a sweet wife who is willing to clean after him all tha time.

Right now i live in this boring lil city. all da maali focks on their lips constantly.too much gossip focks and no mosque nothing going for religion. but in this summer im gonna move to this funny place. up their is all about tha islam and being a good moslim. Thatz what i love about that city plus my whole family lives their

tha brotha above is right sweet gal. after all tha crap they put us ppl trough we gotta be da "bigger" person. i don't think so who said "a eye for a eye" not us while we were loungin' in europe or tha state our ppl were trying to stay alive day after day while some white men were practicing on them with guns. how human is that? we sure weren't those who went to state and open fire coz we think we R betta than all tha other ppl in this world(hint hint) do u know that german UN soldiers lock two kids of the age 11, who were just a lil innoying in a empty wather tank and put it under tha hot sun till their were frite to death? i bet u didn't coz no one is bringin that news worldwide. I just wanna say that in war their R NO rulez, everythang is fair and cruel! may allah easy up on us at jugdement day

One important question to my young somali sisters: What do you think is the motives of your parents when they pick a future groom for you? Entrepreneur ur so right bro.coz thatz tha same Q i asked myself when my family were suggesting this guy. my mom raised me all by her self.for 14 yearz(my dad passed away) she cared for me when i was sick(and that was a long period) she gave me all off her just to see me suceed in life and than all da sudden she is trying to hook me up with a bad dude? i don't believe in that. i trully believe that every parent wants tha best of tha best for their kids.and this guy wasn't a socalled player,no jaad,he doesn't smoke,he has a strong faith,he has his degrees,own house thatz what all da gurlz want,right? well i receive all that plus my family blessing,so what was i *****ing about?thatz why i came to that decision and about love?arranged marriages R much successfuller than that so called " love marriages". like my sis said..love will grow adventurelly ..I think like a old woman right? i know but im only 20 and OG-girl sis my husband to be is 29 u must be thinking eeeeuuiw that old.but guyz need more yearz to grow and get their thang together than us ladyz niin ku dhali kara aya dhagi kara every heard of this famous saying?<------ hope i wrote it right! ~Wun love to all my focks worldwide~

whatz is with parents and arranged marriage? well tha same thing happend to me. their was this dude interested in me.and my mom was totally in love with him(in a mother inlaw way)he called to ask me whatz up and i was like damn bro u got some nervz and u don't even know me.But this guy wasn't about to give up(after 10 times NO).Adventurely my mom was like..hooyo he is a good guy,he is kind and loving,he knows where he came from and where he is going.and u got my duco yada yada yada. so i went out with him just to please my mom.and he turned out to be this funny/intelligent/sweet brother. so out of love and respect for my mom i decide to say YES.and now im gonna get married august 2003. im not inlove with him..but he treaths me like a queen and he got strong faith and my whole family adores him so with their support and his faith and my tolerants i think we can make a happy home! and in the end thatz all that countz(a happy home) ~Wun love to mu peepz worldwide~

sumxanallah As a new member of this family i gotta pay my respect to all tha love ones of our beloved marxuun. even though i Never had tha change to meet him i can feel tha big lost of our community. may Allah have mercy on us AMIIN